i know this is a pregnancy forum and most
of you have worries bigger than mine, but
my problem is similar to that of molly's
(minus the little one though). My guy and
I have been together for almost 3 years
and he and I are on a break from each
other. We talk every day, dont do
anything physical (no kissing, sex...Ect)
but talk about what is ailing us. He is
about to graduate (college we're both 21)
and is just very confused about everything
in his life. He says he is unhappy with
everything. In the last week since we
decided to take this break (we're not
seeing anyone nor plan to) we have both
had time to think and reflect and we are
giving this until next wed. He is going
to decide if he wants to stay or not....As
of now he is not sure but he wants us to
be together but needs to decide if this is
a good thing or not. I'm so hurt and
frustrated I dont know how much longer I
can handle this. On one hand he is going
through a rough time and we are
discovering a lot about each other and
ourselves, but this is hurting so
much....He is hurting as much as I
am....Not sure who cries more him or
me.......What should I do
meg
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 03-09-04 23:43pm
Awwwww....Hunny im sorry. Maybe it's not
neccessarily a bad thing. It doesn't
sound as though he's trying to hurt you,
just trying to figure out what he wants
out of life and if it includes you. But
don't worry, you seem like such a great
person i'm sure he'll want to stay with
you. That's all I really know to say. I
hope this helps!
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 3022 Location: Iowa
Posted: 03-10-04 01:17am
I guess you have to decide if you really
love him and you want to be with him for
the rest of your live. Ive thought I
loved people before but I never knew true
love until me and jesse got together and
made a serious commitment! I know he is
my true love. It is true what they
say-you will just know it if its right!
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
Posted: 03-10-04 03:05am
Thanks both of you a lot I really
appreciate that encouragement. I do love
him and he does love me, its just that
we've both reached such difficult points
in our lives. I have come to think that
what we are doing is a sign of strength
rather than weakness...Thanks again
though!
Meg
p.S - how are the contractions kissy? I
want your little one to be here alredy!
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 03-10-04 03:10am
Wow it seems like you are going through a
lot. I hope that everything ends up
working out for you. It seems like for
the most part that you have your head on
your shoulders. You just have to believe
in god and believe that if you try hard
enough everything and anything can happen.
Everything in life happens for a reason!!
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 03-10-04 03:17am
Lol....Thats more than I can say for me
stacie....I have my head up my butt!
Lol...J/k.....But thats what it feels
like! The contractions dont seem to be as
close together but they r getting to be a
bit more painful. I would say 2.5 maybe 3
on a scale from 1-10 of painful. Lol. I
know what you mean......We all want him
here! I thought poor dewitt would have a
nervous break down from the way he sounded
rushin around tryin to pack the other
night......Lol. New daddy jitters I
guess. But good luck to you! *hugs*
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