gf had an abortion at 5 months, i was
split on what to do as i feared for her
health/life as well as whether it was
morally correct but i told her that we
could try n keep, she was firm on the
decision as she wasn't ready as the
community here wouldn't be receptive to
it, she considered marriage n keeping not
an option. but i have to be there for her,
she went through a lot n i have to support
her.
What i'm saying is that i will be strong n
support her. but i feel terrible morally
about whats happened as it occurred at 5
months.
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Re: Abortion 5 Months Posted: 07-12-07 14:05pm
lifelife
wrote:
gf had an abortion at 5
months, i was split on what to do as i
feared for her health/life as well as
whether it was morally correct but i told
her that we could try n keep, she was firm
on the decision as she wasn't ready as the
community here wouldn't be receptive to
it, she considered marriage n keeping not
an option. but i have to be there for her,
she went through a lot n i have to support
her.
What i'm saying is that i will be strong n
support her. but i feel terrible morally
about whats happened as it occurred at 5
months.
I'm sorry you feel terrible about what's
happened.
Some random, anonymous person telling you
this might not help a bit, but you cannot
feel terrible over a decision you really
had no power over.
You told her you would be there for her,
you were supportive, and you did the best
you could.
Even if you demanded she keep the
pregnancy, she didn't have to listen to
you at all.
Condolences.
