We used to go Friday nites and sometimes
watch the soccer game have a few drinks
wit my folks and just have fun. He drank a
little too much that nite. Like I said I
love that he gives him advice but you guys
are rite he should tone it down a bit..but
he's decided not to even talk to my bro or
family anymore. Which bumbs me out cause
during the week we.d look forward to
Friday nites.
Me and my lil bro didn't have a good
relationship wit my dad. He always wanted
us to be like his other kids..which didn't
really work out cause we actually had
minds of our own lol my dad thought that
by yelling my bro would listen..but no. My
folks split for a year cause of probs, and
got back together and things are awesome.
But he still thinks yelling will work. So
my boyfriend giving my lil bro advice in a
calm manner is a nice change of pace.
I didn't let him act like the father
figure. He's always respected the
boundries my parents have in raising my
bro. But being drunk and all he crossed
that.my bros a little skater boy who likes
street art. But he's also a moocher who's
18 and doesn't have a job lol which I'm
pushing him to get. But he's not in a gang
never gone to jail. He just still doesn't
kno which way to go.
My b.f is ex military so he uses that hard
discipline on his siblings. And I don't
think he's rite. since its his parents job
to do that. I don't see myself moving
forward with him cause he's so set on
staying wit his folks. If you don't kno
what I'm talking about read my post in
this forum titled "his parents don't wanna
let him go" lol
He's already sending child support to one
kid he's got. Now he's taking on the
father role with his siblings..that's 4
total.
But that's another story
I had a pregnancy
scare recently and I was scared blind
cause I don't think hed be able to atleast
support me emotionally cause he's already
got like 4kids to take care of lol. So
thank god I wasn't.
But anyways I.ve always been the one to
try and discipline my bro and try to lead
the way. But kids aren't robots for us to
program. They have minds of their own and
personalities. my parents took my bros
keys away so that forces him to have to
come home early which is cool. So now
everything has changed. No more Friday
nites. No more dinners and games. And its
tougher cause I live rite down the hall
from my folks apartment :/ lol
My relationship wit my mom is weird. She
barely calls me and if she does its to
scold me which I hate cause I just moved
and I'm happy and she ends up bumbing me
out. So we.ll see how things develop maybe
with time it.ll be like it used to.....I
hope.
