honestly im a little nervous to go, i dont
wanna find out anything is wrong and im
scared they will judge me because im 20yrs
old trying to have a baby. I already had a
scene with the family planning in my
neighborhood
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Re: Scared Posted: 07-14-07 19:26pm
XOpartygrlXO
wrote:
honestly im a little nervous
to go, i dont wanna find out anything is
wrong and im scared they will judge me
because im 20yrs old trying to have a
baby. I already had a scene with the
family planning in my
neighborhood
im 16 and im 18weeks 1 day pregnant
its hard to face the world but i dont
care
i do it with an open mind
if someone has a problem with me being so
young then whatever
there are many teen mothers that are way
better mothers than some of these 30 yr
old women are
dont let anyone judge you
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womaninpain
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jul 2007 Posts: 179
Posted: 07-14-07 20:53pm
I got pregnant with my daughter when I was
20, I was not judged a ton but I was
judged...and you know what? I didn't care
what people thought, I actually had a
harder time being judged by the parents at
school then anyone when I was pregnant.
Dont worry about what others think, worry
about yourself.
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-14-07 21:05pm
you all are very brave...i'm 20..and right
now getting pregnant is probably one of
the worst things that could happen. My
family is extremely religious and
strict...no sex until marriage..and until
i got serious with this bf that wasn't a
big deal..i dont know what i'd do if I got
prenant...i cant even support myself right
now and i'm still in school! Thank God for
birth control
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-14-07 21:14pm
the_girlfreind..how did you get
pregnant?..sounds like a dumb question DUH
how..but i mean were you on birth control
or using condoms? I'm on Birth Control but
I still have that "what if" worry in the
back of my mind...usually we pull out just
as a back up precaution (though I know
that doesn't do much, its just more for
the sake of my sanity) but hes gone in me
a few times this month...it just makes me
worry..even though I take my b.c. every
single day at the same time..i dunno...i'm
considering adding spermacide as back up
protection
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 07-14-07 22:08pm
worrywart001
wrote:
the_girlfreind..how did you
get pregnant?..sounds like a dumb question
DUH how..but i mean were you on birth
control or using condoms? I'm on Birth
Control but I still have that "what if"
worry in the back of my mind...usually we
pull out just as a back up precaution
(though I know that doesn't do much, its
just more for the sake of my sanity) but
hes gone in me a few times this month...it
just makes me worry..even though I take my
b.c. every single day at the same time..i
dunno...i'm considering adding spermacide
as back up
protection
no i wasnt using protection. i didnt use
protection all throughout the 7 months me
and travis have beent ogether. it was
something we discussed and decided as a
couple that when it happened it would be
the right time.
and that if we were responsible enough to
make love without using protection then we
would have to be reponsible enough to dea
with the consequences
we cant wait either :]
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XOpartygrlXO
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jul 2007 Posts: 5 Location: ,
Posted: 07-14-07 22:21pm
the_girlfreind
wrote:
worrywart001
wrote:
the_girlfreind..how did you
get pregnant?..sounds like a dumb question
DUH how..but i mean were you on birth
control or using condoms? I'm on Birth
Control but I still have that "what if"
worry in the back of my mind...usually we
pull out just as a back up precaution
(though I know that doesn't do much, its
just more for the sake of my sanity) but
hes gone in me a few times this month...it
just makes me worry..even though I take my
b.c. every single day at the same time..i
dunno...i'm considering adding spermacide
as back up
protection
no i wasnt using protection. i didnt use
protection all throughout the 7 months me
and travis have beent ogether. it was
something we discussed and decided as a
couple that when it happened it would be
the right time.
and that if we were responsible enough to
make love without using protection then we
would have to be reponsible enough to dea
with the consequences
we cant wait either
:]
im glad that u guys talked about it, i
makes everything so much better, me and my
bf have talked about it and are def ready
and we cant wait.... literally were
getting aggravated waiting.... i just
dont understand ive always had irregular
periods even wen i was on the pill, i just
want a baby s bad
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 07-14-07 22:24pm
XOpartygrlXO
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
worrywart001
wrote:
the_girlfreind..how did you
get pregnant?..sounds like a dumb question
DUH how..but i mean were you on birth
control or using condoms? I'm on Birth
Control but I still have that "what if"
worry in the back of my mind...usually we
pull out just as a back up precaution
(though I know that doesn't do much, its
just more for the sake of my sanity) but
hes gone in me a few times this month...it
just makes me worry..even though I take my
b.c. every single day at the same time..i
dunno...i'm considering adding spermacide
as back up
protection
no i wasnt using protection. i didnt use
protection all throughout the 7 months me
and travis have beent ogether. it was
something we discussed and decided as a
couple that when it happened it would be
the right time.
and that if we were responsible enough to
make love without using protection then we
would have to be reponsible enough to dea
with the consequences
we cant wait either
:]
im glad that u guys talked about it, i
makes everything so much better, me and my
bf have talked about it and are def ready
and we cant wait.... literally were
getting aggravated waiting.... i just
dont understand ive always had irregular
periods even wen i was on the pill, i just
want a baby s bad
ha ha i know what you meen.
just wait until your for sure your
pregnant
it gets hard to wait
like i find out on the 24th if im haveing
a boy or a girl
and it seems forever away!
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XOpartygrlXO
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jul 2007 Posts: 5 Location: ,
Posted: 07-14-07 22:35pm
the_girlfreind
wrote:
XOpartygrlXO
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
worrywart001
wrote:
the_girlfreind..how did you
get pregnant?..sounds like a dumb question
DUH how..but i mean were you on birth
control or using condoms? I'm on Birth
Control but I still have that "what if"
worry in the back of my mind...usually we
pull out just as a back up precaution
(though I know that doesn't do much, its
just more for the sake of my sanity) but
hes gone in me a few times this month...it
just makes me worry..even though I take my
b.c. every single day at the same time..i
dunno...i'm considering adding spermacide
as back up
protection
no i wasnt using protection. i didnt use
protection all throughout the 7 months me
and travis have beent ogether. it was
something we discussed and decided as a
couple that when it happened it would be
the right time.
and that if we were responsible enough to
make love without using protection then we
would have to be reponsible enough to dea
with the consequences
we cant wait either
:]
im glad that u guys talked about it, i
makes everything so much better, me and my
bf have talked about it and are def ready
and we cant wait.... literally were
getting aggravated waiting.... i just
dont understand ive always had irregular
periods even wen i was on the pill, i just
want a baby s bad
ha ha i know what you meen.
just wait until your for sure your
pregnant
it gets hard to wait
like i find out on the 24th if im haveing
a boy or a girl
and it seems forever
away!
oh man i bet the days are just draggin on,
i wouldnt be able to stop thinkin about it
if i were u
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 07-14-07 22:36pm
well i hope you are and baby dust your
way!
to give life is a wonderful thing
and your not too young and dont let anyone
ever tell you otherwise
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-15-07 16:03pm
the_girlfreind
wrote:
worrywart001
wrote:
the_girlfreind..how did you
get pregnant?..sounds like a dumb question
DUH how..but i mean were you on birth
control or using condoms? I'm on Birth
Control but I still have that "what if"
worry in the back of my mind...usually we
pull out just as a back up precaution
(though I know that doesn't do much, its
just more for the sake of my sanity) but
hes gone in me a few times this month...it
just makes me worry..even though I take my
b.c. every single day at the same time..i
dunno...i'm considering adding spermacide
as back up
protection
no i wasnt using protection. i didnt use
protection all throughout the 7 months me
and travis have beent ogether. it was
something we discussed and decided as a
couple that when it happened it would be
the right time.
and that if we were responsible enough to
make love without using protection then we
would have to be reponsible enough to dea
with the consequences
we cant wait either
:]
like someone else said, its good you
discussed it and that you're both mature
enough to own up to it and him not bail
out on you or anything, i too discussed it
with my bf, hes the only guy i've been
with and i've made it crystal clear that
i'm NOT ready for a kid lol..he feels the
same way, we both have school as a
priority now and dont even plan to get
married until after college, THEN when
we're out of college, married and
financially stable we'll take the next
step haha...for a while we just used
condoms but even with condoms I'd freak
out...i figured if I dont go on b.c.
then..we're done no more sex...so, finally
got my butt to the gyno for the FIRST
TIME..and i'm 20 lol..i needed to go
anyway right, and she put me on
Yaz...helped my anxiety about getting
preggo bunches...i'm thinkin about using a
spermacide as well...i dont wanna make him
go back to condoms after not using them
haha
|
young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 07-15-07 16:05pm
worrywart001
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
worrywart001
wrote:
the_girlfreind..how did you
get pregnant?..sounds like a dumb question
DUH how..but i mean were you on birth
control or using condoms? I'm on Birth
Control but I still have that "what if"
worry in the back of my mind...usually we
pull out just as a back up precaution
(though I know that doesn't do much, its
just more for the sake of my sanity) but
hes gone in me a few times this month...it
just makes me worry..even though I take my
b.c. every single day at the same time..i
dunno...i'm considering adding spermacide
as back up
protection
no i wasnt using protection. i didnt use
protection all throughout the 7 months me
and travis have beent ogether. it was
something we discussed and decided as a
couple that when it happened it would be
the right time.
and that if we were responsible enough to
make love without using protection then we
would have to be reponsible enough to dea
with the consequences
we cant wait either
:]
like someone else said, its good you
discussed it and that you're both mature
enough to own up to it and him not bail
out on you or anything, i too discussed it
with my bf, hes the only guy i've been
with and i've made it crystal clear that
i'm NOT ready for a kid lol..he feels the
same way, we both have school as a
priority now and dont even plan to get
married until after college, THEN when
we're out of college, married and
financially stable we'll take the next
step haha...for a while we just used
condoms but even with condoms I'd freak
out...i figured if I dont go on b.c.
then..we're done no more sex...so, finally
got my butt to the gyno for the FIRST
TIME..and i'm 20 lol..i needed to go
anyway right, and she put me on
Yaz...helped my anxiety about getting
preggo bunches...i'm thinkin about using a
spermacide as well...i dont wanna make him
go back to condoms after not using them
haha
yeah lol
well atleast you guys are protecting
yourselves!
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