Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Whoooooooo! Go Me! Posted: 03-10-04 05:09am
Oh my god! That was soooooooo great.
Some of you might remember me telling you
about a friend of mine who has been
unwelcomingly over-bearing? And acting
like he is josh's dad or sumthing.....So
weird. Well I finally told him off! It
felt so good to get it off my chest!
Here it is:
alliwannadois: so is falishia over
joshuasmommy321: no
alliwannadois: o0o0o0o I was j/w
alliwannadois: can I ask u somethin?? And
be 4 real with ur answer
joshuasmommy321: I suppose
alliwannadois: do u still want me to come
to the hospital?
Joshuasmommy321: chris I never did
joshuasmommy321: if u wanna visit a bit
after wards fine
joshuasmommy321: but I didnt really want u
there to begin with
alliwannadois: well I neva knew that I
just thought u ment not in the room
joshuasmommy321: chris I told u the other
night
joshuasmommy321: u just didnt wanna hear
me right
alliwannadois: then I guess I wont come
just have ur mom call me after hes born
and ill come and visit
alliwannadois: or u call me w/e
joshuasmommy321: alright but I already
told falishia this too im not havin anyone
there for more than 20 mins
alliwannadois: ok
alliwannadois: can I ask u somethin else
joshuasmommy321: maybe
alliwannadois: would u still consider us
*best friends*
joshuasmommy321: I consider everyone
friends
joshuasmommy321: I dont like best
friends
joshuasmommy321: because best friends get
jealous
alliwannadois: it just kinda made me feel
weird when all of a sudden u and fal.
Were like joined at the hip and im not
sayin that I dun wan u to have more that 1
friend it just made me feel like u were
kinda "replacing" me b/c ive been there
for most of this pregnancy
joshuasmommy321: yes but u have also been
there when I really didnt want u 2
joshuasmommy321: and u werent ever there
until I was pregnant and it was really
weird for me
joshuasmommy321: and it was even weirder
when u started trying to act like u were
josh's dad or sumthing
alliwannadois: I neva started to act like
that I wasa just trying to be a good
friend and I thought I was there 4 u even
b4 u got pregnant
joshuasmommy321: no not really.....We
never even talked on the phone or hung out
outside of school b4
joshuasmommy321: and brenda told me about
that comment at the baby shower about her
jokin around goin hey daddy and u said I
wish
joshuasmommy321: im not comfortable with
that at all
alliwannadois: I was just jokin
joshuasmommy321: well I dont think its
funny
alliwannadois: I didnt mean anything by
it
alliwannadois: and trust me thats the
lasyt thing I wish for
alliwannadois: b/c I dont really wqanna be
a dad at 15
alliwannadois: well im gunna go now and
ill talk to u lata. Just have your mom
call me when u have him and ill try and
get up there. If not ill see yall when u
come home
alliwannadois is away at 2:57:59 pm.
Joshuasmommy321: ok bye
and I told my mom about it and she says I
hurt his feelings! I mean, I have been
trying to get the point across forever so
I just told it to him very bluntly. Do
yall think I was wrong in saying all the
stuff I did? This stuff has been buggin
me for a while now. Any input would be
nice.....
Well, I am glad you finally got your point
across. Maybe you did hurt him... But he
was smothering you!
Love,
chanda
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 03-10-04 05:24am
I dont think what you said to him was
mean.. Yeah you probably hurt his
feelings but oh well if he was being like
that and not listening to what you were
really saying and hearing what he wanted
to hear(alot of guys have that problem-
its called selective hearing..Lol actually
I think all guys have it). Sometimes you
gotta be like that to get the ignorant
ones to understand. But no it wasnt mean
at all, you could have been a health forum
about it but you werent.
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Scarf
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2004 Posts: 1062 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted: 03-10-04 05:34am
Im glad he finally understands what you
were trying to tell him for the longest
time. I agree with the others, you might
have hurt his feelings but this was the
only way hed listen and if he is really
your friend, he shouldnt be bothered about
it for too long. Congrats! Lol
shannon
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 03-10-04 06:36am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-11-04 09:35am; edited 1 time in total
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 3022 Location: Iowa
Posted: 03-10-04 07:16am
You handled it good though, even if his
feelings did get hurt!
