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richie42
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Just a Friend
Posted: 07-15-07 22:48pm
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now i see all of these posts of guys that
say that i'm 19, 20, 34, and i've never
had a girlfriend or a female friend.
Well, basically i have tons of female
friends, but no one of them will want to
go out with me, and see me as more than
that.
What do i do?
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Posted: 07-15-07 22:50pm
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find new freinds 
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richie42
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Posted: 07-15-07 22:53pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | find new freinds |
huh?
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Posted: 07-15-07 22:56pm
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you said you have alot of female friends
that wont see you as more than a freind so
i said fine some new friends
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richie42
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Posted: 07-15-07 22:57pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | you said you have alot of
female friends that wont see you as more
than a freind so i said fine some new
friends |
thaat works
thank you angel wearing jeans
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Posted: 07-15-07 22:59pm
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ha ha no im just tired and frusterated and
bored and i saw that someone new posted
something so i had to reply
lol
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richie42
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:00pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | ha ha no im just tired and
frusterated and bored and i saw that
someone new posted something so i had to
reply
lol |
u don't listen to dane cook then
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:01pm
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i listen to dane cook
the best advice i ever got was from dane
cook
women are mental terrorists
:]
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richie42
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:04pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | i listen to dane cook
the best advice i ever got was from dane
cook
women are mental terrorists
:] |
never heard that one
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:04pm
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watch his vicious circle
:]
so why are you here?
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richie42
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:06pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | watch his vicious circle
:]
so why are you
here? |
why am i here, well, i believe that god
put me on this earth to do whatever i
canto make it better for everyone
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:07pm
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| richie42
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | watch his vicious circle
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so why are you
here? |
why am i here, well, i believe that god
put me on this earth to do whatever i
canto make it better for
everyone |
cool
i dont believe in god though.
no i meant why are you hERE on the forum?
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richie42
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:08pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | richie42
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | watch his vicious circle
:]
so why are you
here? |
why am i here, well, i believe that god
put me on this earth to do whatever i
canto make it better for
everyone |
cool
i dont believe in god though.
no i meant why are you hERE on the
forum? |
oh. . .
well, i tried to find why get stuck in the
friend zone with women
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:09pm
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because most women are shallow and picky
and stuck up
agree?
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Re: Just a Friend
Posted: 07-15-07 23:13pm
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It may be too late to do something about
gaining a relationship with one of these
women. What I would tell you is to not get
into the "close friendship" phase in the
future with women (unless this is what you
want for long term). If you are a nice guy
you may offer advice with their
relationships, be there as a support etc.
The problem in doing this is that you may
get stuck just being that, a support. Its
a wonderful thing to be friends with
someone before dating them, but I would do
this with caution. Its a hard thing to
understand, but it has happened to me time
and time again. Its been frustrating to
really dig a female friend, and have many
of her conversations with me center around
her boyfriend or "this guy she likes". I
say all this to say, turn up the heat
earlier than later to let her know "I
would like to date you", friends is still
cool, but just put that out there. I am
not sure what your relationship with your
female friends is like, but I just say
this stuff from my experiences and at
least 4 other people I know going through
the same thing. Good luck.
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richie42
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:13pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | because most women are
shallow and picky and stuck up
agree? |
i don't want to
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:16pm
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i know you dont want to
but thats why i said maybe meeting new
people would bring ya out of that circle
of women you associate with now
we take too much pride in who we are
and we use that to our advantage to "pick
through" guys
its a horrible system women have
developed.
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richie42
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Re: Just a Friend
Posted: 07-15-07 23:19pm
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| j_j89
wrote: | | It may be too late to do
something about gaining a relationship
with one of these women. What I would tell
you is to not get into the "close
friendship" phase in the future with women
(unless this is what you want for long
term). If you are a nice guy you may offer
advice with their relationships, be there
as a support etc. The problem in doing
this is that you may get stuck just being
that, a support. Its a wonderful thing to
be friends with someone before dating
them, but I would do this with caution.
Its a hard thing to understand, but it has
happened to me time and time again. Its
been frustrating to really dig a female
friend, and have many of her conversations
with me center around her boyfriend or
"this guy she likes". I say all this to
say, turn up the heat earlier than later
to let her know "I would like to date
you", friends is still cool, but just put
that out there. I am not sure what your
relationship with your female friends is
like, but I just say this stuff from my
experiences and at least 4 other people I
know going through the same thing. Good
luck. |
yeah. . . and i nevr ask women out at the
right time and stuff
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richie42
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Posted: 07-15-07 23:20pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | i know you dont want to
but thats why i said maybe meeting new
people would bring ya out of that circle
of women you associate with now
we take too much pride in who we are
and we use that to our advantage to "pick
through" guys
its a horrible system women have
developed. |
yeah
it's freaking easy for a girl to get a
guy.
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aquarius_queen69
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Re: Just a Friend
Posted: 07-15-07 23:23pm
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You should find someone outside of your
friends and try it with them!!!!!
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