Could I Have Caused Damage to My Vagina? Posted: 07-16-07 10:31am
My question is this, I am a little
concerned because my fiance and I are both
virgins, yet my vagina is not as 'tight'
as it is supposed to be. I believe this is
because I improperly used a tampon, and
also i was a swimmer and cross country
runner in college. I do not want him to be
alarmed our first time, is this common?
What other explanations are there.
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Tylanas
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Re: Could I Have Caused Damage to My Vagina? Posted: 07-16-07 10:32am
Alicia84
wrote:
My question is this, I am a
little concerned because my fiance and I
are both virgins, yet my vagina is not as
'tight' as it is supposed to be. I believe
this is because I improperly used a
tampon, and also i was a swimmer and cross
country runner in college. I do not want
him to be alarmed our first time, is this
common? What other explanations are
there.
It is very unlikely you have caused any
harm, and your vagina is probably plenty
"tight". How would you OR he know how
"tight" a vagina is supposed to be anyway,
if you're both virgins?
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meblonde01
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Re: Could I Have Caused Damage to My Vagina? Posted: 07-16-07 10:43am
Alicia84
wrote:
My question is this, I am a
little concerned because my fiance and I
are both virgins, yet my vagina is not as
'tight' as it is supposed to be. I believe
this is because I improperly used a
tampon, and also i was a swimmer and cross
country runner in college. I do not want
him to be alarmed our first time, is this
common? What other explanations are
there.
It will be fine,, after all he has nothing
to compare to right?
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womaninpain
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Posted: 07-16-07 11:43am
You also go back, it gets loose and
tighter all the time...I recommend doing
exercises to help tighten it up a little
if you are concerned with it. They do
work.
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Alicia84
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Tightness Posted: 07-16-07 11:45am
I can fit two fingers into myself, and
this has been done through
experimentation. Is that normal?
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 07-16-07 12:47pm
Yes, of course.
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Assena
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Re: Tightness Posted: 07-16-07 12:55pm
Alicia84
wrote:
I can fit two fingers into
myself, and this has been done through
experimentation. Is that
normal?
The vagina is a very flexable area... it
is designed to fit a baby head thru it as
well as a variety of penis sizes you do not want to
be too tight other wise intercourse will
be uncomfortable. If you are worried about
it, look up Kegel excersises. They are
good for women and men. they strenghen the
pelvic wall reduce urinary incotinence,
make it easier for you to controll your
muscles "down there" and make intercorse
more interesting when you can "squeeze"
him.
my mother used to have a bumber sticker
that read " Women unite, keep it tight; Go
Kegel!"
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 07-16-07 13:01pm
No matter how improperly you used a
tampon, it's not going to stretch out your
vagina. Even years of sex will not
stretch out your vagina. Your vagina is a
stretchy thing. It's made to stretch and
bounce right back. So sex, tampons, and
fingers are not going to stretch it out.
Only a baby, or baby sized objects if
you're kinky, would stretch out your
vagina permanently.
Using two fingers is perfectly normal.
That is in no way related to virginity.
you do not want to
be too tight other wise intercourse will
be uncomfortable. If you are worried about
it, look up Kegel excersises. They are
good for women and men. they strenghen the
pelvic wall reduce urinary incotinence,
make it easier for you to controll your
muscles "down there" and make intercorse
more interesting when you can "squeeze"
him.
