i just found out im pregnant today. im 18,
and i told my bf but he said i should have
an abortion. i really doubt thats gonna
happen though. im so stressed out about
it. i dont know wut to do...
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xxbezzayy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2007 Posts: 7 Location: ,
Posted: 08-20-07 20:21pm
heyY!.. i wouldnt worry and dont be
stressed.. this kind of thing happens you
know. i just found out i was pregnant and
now im 2mos. and im only 19!! lol. so
trust me everything will be fine and i can
understand your bf saying that.. thats the
first thing guys usually say mine did to
but he changed his mind when he saw how
happy i was and now he is just as happy ..
mabe more than i am now! haha. but it
wouldnt stress bc stress isnt good but it
will all be ok!!!!
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shortmamma
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 5 Location: north dakota
Posted: 08-20-07 20:28pm
If your bf is telling you to abort
it......he should've been leaving his
member in his pants. Sex is great dont
get me wrong. But if you aren't going to
be adult enough to deal with the
consequences then keep it to
yourself....literally!! I had my first
kid when i was 18 and i wouldnt trade him
for the world. Even during the tuff
times, i never wished away his presence.
It is times like this when you find out
who your true support system consists
of....family wise and friend wise.
personally i think abortion is a chicken
way out unless medically a life is at
stake. Im not saying its going to be easy
either but it will be as hard as you want
to make it. There are many resources to
help you out and if your family is willing
to be there for you, let them and
appreciate it. Best of luck and for what
its worth, congratulations!!
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brenda24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 2 Location: corona,ca
Posted: 08-20-07 21:57pm
thanks ladies. ya it kinda sucks knowing
that he doesnt want what we created
together. he says he wants to wait until
we live together to start a family. i dont
know how far along i am. i just found out
today. my period is a week late, and i
took 4 pregnancy tests, all came back
positive...
