My Girlfriend Doesn't Feel Anything. Need Help Posted: 07-17-07 14:35pm
Hey all. I got a question for you, do you
have any idea why my girlfriend doesnt
feel me inside her ? She says, sometimes
she does, sometimes not, even with the
same positions. We have tried doggy style,
missionary, spoon, and her on top. I just
dont know whats the problem, some moments,
she all goes moaning and etc, but mostly
she says that she doesnt even feel
anything. My penis size is 6.6 inches, i
think thats average. She is well
lubricated. Maybe, its becouse we have
just had sex 3 times ( and I was first for
her). I really dont know what to do. I
want to satisfy her, altough lately i got
a feeling that its my fault, that I cant
satisfy her.
Im really waiting for any advices. Thanks
!
Sorry for my english.
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-17-07 14:36pm
hmm im not sure why she doesnt feel
anything?
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Marfa2107
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Posted: 07-17-07 14:40pm
that is very strange..
i don't think i've ever heard of that
before?..
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 07-17-07 15:34pm
If she is very in the mood and very well
lubricated, that can make the penis slide
in and out very easily. That's not a bad
thing, but it does mean that friction is
decreased, which means feeling may be
decreased.
However, if she is numb down there or
something like that, she should definitely
talk to her ob-gyn about it.
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pronetoillness
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Posted: 07-17-07 15:38pm
eep. she needs to get her vagina checked
out..
a 6 inch penis should give FEELING to
her.. maybe not a lot be at least some..
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Mangucho
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Posted: 07-17-07 15:49pm
Thank you that you replied.
Hmmm ill talk to her so she goes and visit
her ob-gyn. But could that possibly be
that we use condoms ? Maybe chnaging the
condoms should do the trick ?
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 07-17-07 16:05pm
Mangucho
wrote:
Thank you that you replied.
Hmmm ill talk to her so she goes and visit
her ob-gyn. But could that possibly be
that we use condoms ? Maybe chnaging the
condoms should do the trick
?
Condoms often decrease sensitivity for
men, but not so much for women.
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Birch
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Posted: 07-17-07 16:56pm
Just throwing this out there; doesn't only
the outside inch or so of the vagina have
nerve endings? You can feel pressure
farther up, but as for actual feeling I'm
not sure.
After I have an orgasm I usually lose some
feeling and I cannot tell as easily what
is going on down there. I think it's
because I'm extremely well lubricated.
^^ Yup, we don't have those sensitive
nerve endings far up into the vagina, just
within the first couple of inches. So
most girls can feel a wide penis more than
a long one.
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-18-07 00:19am
dang... i never knew how compliacted
vaginas were?!
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Mangucho
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Posted: 07-18-07 15:20pm
Hehhe, yeah Vaginas are complicated, the
whole woman's reproductive system (or how
do you call it) needs an enclyclopedia.
For us - men, its all easy, show naked
boobs, in less than 10 secs he is horny,
then just stimulate his gear and he is
done. But for woman, birth controls,
periods, babies g - spots, foreplays,
moods, clitorical orgasms, vaginal
orgasms, lubrication, and yidalaa,
yidalaa, yidalaa.
Well today, we a did an expirement, we
were searching for her g-spot in her
vagina ( actaully I was doing it), as she
havent never masturbated before, and I
think we found it, the feeling was like a
ribbed texture, it felt different than the
rest vagina, and as far what I felt it was
round. And when I pressed it, she said it
felt so good for her. So I think we have
found a light in the end of the tunnel.
But then again, as we both live at
parents, we can have sex like 1 or 2 days
per week maximum. But anyways, ladies, I
want to ask you, what's the best position
to stimulate a woman's g-spot ? I know not
for all women have the same, but what I
read on internet they say, that mostly the
g-spot for all women is aprox. on the same
place, on the upward side of the vagina.
So women, please, what can you suggest,
how to stimulate her g-spot during
intercourse in the best way ? Or the
possible best way ??? I mean are there any
positions, to use during sex, so I could
stimulate her g - spot as best as I can ?
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 07-18-07 15:36pm
Just a thought but maybe she is just
loose. You say your her first but you
never know now a days
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blulyneguy
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Could Just Be.... Posted: 07-18-07 15:41pm
that she is loose (as mentioned before).
Not all vaginas are the same, some are
tighter than others. I've had
inexperienced girls be loose and very
experienced women be tight. They are all
different.
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Dale123
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Posted: 07-18-07 15:54pm
chase4
wrote:
Just a thought but maybe she
is just loose. You say your her first but
you never know now a
days
My first time was just one time.. With
the second guy and my second timeI had
ever did it.. I was with I couldn't really
feel it too much I was very turned on. He
was pretty big too, but we did alot of
foreplay. Probably just being over
lubercated. Now I have been with my
boyfriend for 4 years and I feel it
everytime.. (incase I am starting to sound
a wee bit like a promiscuous person.. I am
over 30 and have only slept with 3 men) At
first I couldn't really feel it, but after
experimenting with different ways.. NO
foreplay little foreplay alot of foreplay.
AND A TON of different ways! You can look
them up online.. Or theres some links at
the bottom of my post... Trust me you will
figure out whats best over time!
Just a thought but maybe she
is just loose. You say your her first but
you never know now a
days
Sex does not stretch out the vagina. The
vagina is very stretchy. It can expand
for sex and bounce right back. Having a
baby can stretch the vagina permanently,
having sex won't. So even if he was not
her first, it would not matter. Her
vagina would still be the same.
However, many things can affect how tight
or loose a woman feels. Simply being
aroused one day and not being aroused the
next can make the vagina feel very
different.
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Dale123
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Posted: 07-18-07 16:24pm
Llewellyn
wrote:
chase4
wrote:
Just a thought but maybe she
is just loose. You say your her first but
you never know now a
days
Sex does not stretch out the vagina. The
vagina is very stretchy. It can expand
for sex and bounce right back. Having a
baby can stretch the vagina permanently,
having sex won't. So even if he was not
her first, it would not matter. Her
vagina would still be the same.
However, many things can affect how tight
or loose a woman feels. Simply being
aroused one day and not being aroused the
next can make the vagina feel very
different.
TRUST Llewellyn! SHE KNOWS HER STUFF
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 07-18-07 16:54pm
Dale123
wrote:
Llewellyn
wrote:
chase4
wrote:
Just a thought but maybe she
is just loose. You say your her first but
you never know now a
days
Sex does not stretch out the vagina. The
vagina is very stretchy. It can expand
for sex and bounce right back. Having a
baby can stretch the vagina permanently,
having sex won't. So even if he was not
her first, it would not matter. Her
vagina would still be the same.
However, many things can affect how tight
or loose a woman feels. Simply being
aroused one day and not being aroused the
next can make the vagina feel very
different.
TRUST Llewellyn! SHE KNOWS HER
STUFF
Thanks.
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 07-18-07 17:00pm
like i said just a thought!
plus nobody knows if she was off messing
around and 30 mins later was with him
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-18-07 18:16pm
chase4
wrote:
Just a thought but maybe she
is just loose. You say your her first but
you never know now a
days
Sex does not make a vagina loose; that is
a myth. Please don't spread myths.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-18-07 18:18pm
chase4
wrote:
like i said just a thought!
plus nobody knows if she was off messing
around and 30 mins later was with him
It was a wrong though founded on a
myth though! That's the point... Plus it's
rather rude to insinuate his girl is
sleeping around. Moreover, it's rude to
imply that women's vaginas stretch out
from sex, thus continuing the "loose
woman" myth.
