Just a quick question- not really a
problem, but just curious....
I am 35 years old and feel I have a high
sex drive. My wife says it is unusually
high. I want sex (badly) everyday and
sometimes more. I am constantly groping
her and teasing her. It has always been
normal for me, but I am constantly horny.
Anyone else?
Meant to say- is this normal? Not anyone
else....
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MikeH90
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Posted: 07-18-07 11:54am
my drive is higher than my wife's as well.
On average, I'd like to have sex 3 or 4
times a week. She's good with once a week.
She's pretty good about satisfying me
(hand and/or oral) without getting
anything in return. You need to talk to
her about it.
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blulyneguy
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I Have..... Posted: 07-18-07 11:58am
I have been honest about it with her. She
(since the third child) has pretty much
lost all interest in sex. It's been 2
years since the baby but it has not come
back. She cares about the issue, it's just
that she lacks the drive to do anything
about it. I'm happy in my marriage but, of
course, would like more sex. I know I'm
not alone on this one but being constantly
horny gets frustrating.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-18-07 12:19pm
There are things she can do about her loss
of sex drive. She could go talk to her
doctor.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 07-18-07 12:46pm
its a touchy subject. Sometimes my wife
says "thats all you think about!" can't
really tell if she's joking or if she is
getting annoyed.
Slip some horny goat weed into her drink.
ha ha.
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deebaby621
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Posted: 07-18-07 12:52pm
wow i wish my bf was that way! my sex
drive is much higher than his is. i get it
on average twice a week.. which is okay,
but i'd love it more.
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blulyneguy
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Self Esteem Posted: 07-18-07 12:54pm
Her self esteem is down a bit, so that has
alot to do with it too. I constantly
compliment her and show her I think she's
beautiful, but its her view of herself
that kills it. When she's active
(exercising) she feels better and has more
confidence. She stopped (for some reason)
and now she feels like crap again. I
encourage her but I can't force her to do
it.
I was just wondering if being horny ALL
the time is normal for a man my age.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 07-18-07 13:15pm
"I was just wondering if being horny ALL
the time is normal for a man my age. "
Well I'm 42 and I am as horny as I was at
18.
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j77
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High Sex Drive Posted: 07-25-07 21:52pm
hiya. one person said lots of
communication. i do. but when you
CONSTANTLY want to ask for something every
time you are alone with your wife...i've
about stopped asking.
and i do not want to use pornography, but
my private bath time is not easy. i'd
rather have some help!
what do i do?
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Eva-n-Dayton
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Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 25 Location: Minnesota, USA
Posted: 07-29-07 17:37pm
I wish my boy had more of a sex drive, I'm
constantly horny cept for lately cause I
was depressed for a bit but normally I'm
all over him. Always being a tease and a
goof or finding some way to try to get his
attention towards it. We about a month ago
had sex every night, lately its been about
once a week if that.
