Joined: 03 Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Bardstown, Ky
Help Me Please I Am Stressed Out Badly Posted: 09-03-03 13:55pm
I was 18 when I had my first child which
was july 23, 2002 and now I am 19 getting
ready to be 20 sept 7.. And I am
expecting again feburary 11, 2004 I am
scared to my parents and I am so stressed
and I don't know what to do please help..
I think that I am too young to be having
another one... What do you think....
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-03-03 14:18pm
I think you are going to have your hands
full! Lol. No but you should just tell
your parents the same way you did the
first time. Dont stress about it. It may
be too early for another one, but maybe
its better so they will grow up to be
close, best friends as well as siblings.
I wouldnt stress too much. My fiance
wants 10 kids once we start! My limit is
4 though!Hahaha so just tough it out, tell
your parents and make sure you have enough
love for the both! Good luck, keep in
touch!
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Trisha Lynn
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Florida
Posted: 09-03-03 14:21pm
If you think you're too young to be having
another baby, our opinions shouldn't
matter or even sway your thoughts. I'm
18 and I had my first child 6 months ago
when I was still 17. I'm already ready
to have another, I want them to be born
too far apart, unlike me and my brother
were(5 years and 10 months) and especially
not like me and my sister(14 years).
You're 20 years old, you're a grown woman,
you shouldn't stress out about what your
parents will think... It's your life.
You'll get through it, don't worry.
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JenniMarie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Bardstown, Ky
Posted: 09-03-03 14:21pm
Thank you so much for that I have had a
lot of friends with my first oen who told
me to get an abortion and I wanted to kill
them and a couple of them won't even talk
to me now
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evilpickle
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 26 Location: virginia beach
What Do I Think Posted: 09-03-03 14:23pm
Well unfortunately this is your life, your
problem. Everyone is in a different place
in their life at that age. If I may apply
my life to the situation, I am around the
same age. I know that I would not want to
have a child right now. I am too young in
my opinion. Sure, I am old enough to get
a full time job, get married, and I am
mentally,emotionally, and physically
mature enough to handle a baby. But you
know what, I know that if I waited until I
graduated college, I would get a better
job, a better house, and better things for
my baby. There is just too much of a
difference between what I could provide
now, and what I could provide later. You
already have a child however, so I can't
really compare. Don't worry about your
parents. You need to live your own life,
if they were understanding for the first
one, they should be ok for the second. If
you think you are too young, then seek
other options, whatever feels right to
you. Good luck- keep me posted.
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Ann
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Rhode Island
Help Me I'm Stress Out Badly Posted: 09-04-03 07:33am
I totally agree with nikki. She's right
don't tress it's done tell your parents,
and please no more babies for a while :d
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Ann
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Rhode Island
Help Me I'm Stress Out Badly Posted: 09-04-03 07:33am
I totally agree with nikki. She's right
don't tress it's done tell your parents,
and please no more babies for a while :d
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 09-04-03 11:26am
Girl, I wouldnt stress it if I were u.
Well what is done is done, there is no
need to not want it to happen now, so just
do what you think it's good for you, not
what ur parents want.
Ur parents were (maybe) upset the first
time, but now, u have been thru ur first
child, there shouldnt be too much u have
not seen or done, so just relax, enjoy ur
second child, and dont stress over
something that does not seem to be too
important.
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