Joined: 01 Jul 2007 Posts: 697 Location: Barrie, On Canada
Posted: 07-23-07 19:44pm
ilovemyfishies81
wrote:
tasha_ivey
wrote:
So sorry to hear about your
miscarriage. I went through that myself 3
times before finally having a child. Now
I have 2! There is hope! My problem
turned out to be hormone levels. Make
sure that you talk to your doctor about
that before you decide to get pregnant
again. That may not be your problem, but
it wouldn't hurt to talk to them about it.
As soon as I got pregnant after the
miscarriage, I got lots of blood work
done. Then, they started doing hormone
injections. It was a pain in the
butt....literally. BUT...so worth it! I
know things look bleak now, but things
will turn out well for you. There are so
many new procedures out there now...you
have excellent chances of having a child.
Just may not have been the right time.
Take your time and get over your loss.
Don't rush yourself into getting pregnant
again really soon. When the right time
comes, it will happen! If you need anyone
to talk to, please don't
hesitate!
well i had alot of bloodwork done and it
just turns out that at 6 weeks it stopped
growng. no reason the egg and sperm just
didnt click right pretty much. i
understand it. it was an abnormal embryo
and thats fine i would rather havd a
healthy baby then to have an abnormal baby
so i dont mind at that
fact
Yes, this time it happened maybe next time
you will have a beautiful baby. Never give
up. A lady I work with just gave birth to
a baby boy. First she miscarried twice. i
was talking to her about my experience.
So, please don't give up. Perhaps you
could talk to a fertility specialist just
to find out exactly what you can do, but
just keep trying it will happen.
I just read your most recent
post and I wanted to say that I am so
sorry. I know exactly how you feel. I went
through it a week and half ago. Doctors
were telling me that I was fine and not to
worry too. But I went on to be 16 wks
pregnant before I found out that the baby
died at 9 wks.
It is really sad that women have to go
through this. Please take time to grieve
so when you do get pregnant again you will
be emotionally ready for it. I know right
now that you are really depressed but it
does get easier with each day. I bought an
angel pendant to put on my chain because
on lots of these forums women refer to the
babies they lost as ''Angel Babies'' and
to themselves as ''Angel mommies''. It
really helped me because whenever I think
about the baby I lost I hold on to it and
and even give it a little kiss. It may
sound weird but trust me it has helped. I
may want to forget the miscarriage but I
don't want to forget my baby that I bonded
with.
So remember to take care of yourself and
take time to heal. We are all here for you
if you need to talk. Also, feel free to pm
me if you
want.
it doesnt sound weird at all but its like
im ok until people ask (are you ok?) when
did it happen how and all that mess. when
people bring it up is when i get depressed
although i know my body kicked it out for
the best. now i just want to know how long
i will bleed for? its like i just cant get
a break you know.
So sorry to hear about your
miscarriage. I went through that myself 3
times before finally having a child. Now
I have 2! There is hope! My problem
turned out to be hormone levels. Make
sure that you talk to your doctor about
that before you decide to get pregnant
again. That may not be your problem, but
it wouldn't hurt to talk to them about it.
As soon as I got pregnant after the
miscarriage, I got lots of blood work
done. Then, they started doing hormone
injections. It was a pain in the
butt....literally. BUT...so worth it! I
know things look bleak now, but things
will turn out well for you. There are so
many new procedures out there now...you
have excellent chances of having a child.
Just may not have been the right time.
Take your time and get over your loss.
Don't rush yourself into getting pregnant
again really soon. When the right time
comes, it will happen! If you need anyone
to talk to, please don't
hesitate!
if i may ask how long did you bleed for
after? this is really taking alot out of
me. i know its hope but im 26 i had waited
so long and now this.
