Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Help My Body Is Improportionate! Posted: 07-20-07 18:11pm
Hi...I thought I post this on the women's
section because I believe women are far
more aware of their body and more caring
towards it than men. (No offense to any
guys).
Well, this adds to my whole life problems,
I have many and this is one of them. I am
an 18 year old guy. The thing is, when I
see other men and women, I analyze their
bodies. They are proportionate. I look at
the clothes they wear, and they look good
in them. My problem is haunting me, can
someone please inform me if there is
anything I can do about it...
Basically, my arms and legs are long and
skinny whilst my body length is
tiny/small!!! I cannot wear a shirt and
tuck it in my trousers as I look so awful
!! I
have tried to wear my trousers lower down
for a year now, but it is not helping. I
feel like this >>> My arms and
legs are long thin pencils stuck into a
piece of blue tac, which is my body!
I cannot wear decent clothes and look
good! I have to wear a larger size so that
my body looks longer, meaning my bumb is
always covered up! If I buy my normal
size, my arms look long as well as my
legs, and my small body length is
exposed!! On the whole, my physique looks
odd and ugly despite what I am wearing...
The word I get called by my sisters is
"ODD BOD" i.e. odd body. They are joking,
but it hurts... I cry over this and it
haunts me whilst in my bed at night...
I mean fat people (no offense to anyone)
can do something about their problem! But
me!!! I cannot. Or can I...????? Is there
anything I can do????
My arms are skinny and so are my legs and
they never ever gain weight. You can
literally wrap your hand around my arms
i.e on forearm and wrists. But I am not
skinny on my stomach and chest, they are
okay. I want my body length to increase
only NOT THE length OF MY ARMS AND LEGS.
I want my body length to increase and gain
more meat on my arms and legs. I do not
want my legs and arms to grow as they are
long enough!! Only my body length!!
Have I got a nutritional problem? A weird
growth? Anything? My cousin used to be
skinny as hell, he had worms, the doctor
gave him a specific course of medication,
now he is TALLER & BIGGER than me. His
arms are THICKER than mine now, before
they did not used to be.
Could my problem be the same? Anything
please? Because my body length is
disgustingly small in comparison to my
skinny long arms and my skinny long legs!
My self esteem has gone out the window and
is far behind in my dark tunnel that I
ponder in. And I have cried enough,
enough, enough and never enough .
Please can someone help me... My friends
sometimes call me names as jokes and so do
my sisters. Me and my friends were all
training including my COUSIN. They looked
so good and proportionate. Where as I just
looked improportionate and that caused me
not to focus on anything, nothing at all,
even at school. I have already failed my
exams due to all this depression. (This
problem caused it and so did my other
problems as I will tell you, but I want
solutions to this problem, which is my
improportionate body). Please can someone
give me any advice? Please!!! I am going
to see my doctor about this and let her
anaylse my body. I am depressed, feel ugly
and feel like I don't want to live any
more. I look at the mirror and any
reflection where ever I go and become so
depressed. I try to look at myself
positively, but I cannot as my problem is
real and is staring right back at me. I am
seriously depressed... On top of this I
have erection, testicles and foreskin
problems to cope with... .
(Never had an erection in my life,
testicles are underdeveloped and foreskin
is too tight). I am researching and
getting the help I need...
I have not fallen yet... I am on the edge
fighting on... My erection, testicles and
foreskin problems are being dealt with and
with lord's blessings and by science, the
doctor said I should be cured in no time.
I have another battle to fight in, and it
is "my lonely improportionate body
battle." Please can someone tell me any
advice from any personal/general
experience or/and any
scientific/educational knowledge. Any
advice for any solutions? Please I am on
my knees, with all these problems in my
life... I sometimes think do I want to
live??? ... I
am on the edge and I am trying my best to
sort myself out as I have seen my doctor
and I am getting treated with my problems
on my sexual organs (I will sort out my
sexual problems 1st then I will go to my
doctor about my improportionate body)...
but my other battle is my improportionate
physique (I came on here for an early
start to help myself)... please can
someone help me, have I got some sort of
poor growth etc i.e. like my cousin? But
he was not improportionate as I was &
am. I cannot wear tight shirts with jeans,
as my small/odd body length/size is
exposed! Can I get treated so that my body
length increases even by an inch i.e. by
pills or growth pills anything that may
help me or that my body may lack such as
my cousin for the worm bits? So that my
arms gain a bit of meat (like my cousin
did on his arms etc). My cousin increased
in height, could it be possible for my
body to increase in length even by a tiny
bit as I may have some growth problem.
Please help me... xx ... I
do not want loose my battles... and when I
say I cannot live with this, and my
problems, I literally contemplate can I
live in such misery.
I cannot even buy decent clothes as my
body is not right and I look awful. This
is the reality and the truthfulness about
my situation as well as my other problems.
I am a good person, I don't know why I
deserve this...
Can you feel my state of mind... Please
can someone advice me on my body problem
with realistic and possible solutions
please... I am growing insane and weak...
...
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younglad
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Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 07-22-07 11:35am
any one please?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-22-07 14:09pm
There is no way to make your body longer.
The only surgery you could get would be to
shorten your arms and legs and no doctor
is going to do that to you.
Please, you sound like you have a lot of
medical issues, and you need to keep
bringing your concerns to your doctors.
You are beyond our help...
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younglad
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Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 07-22-07 16:25pm
I am going doctor's a lot and i shld be
cured with my problems on my sexual
organs.
what you mean surgery on arms and legs???
that is impossible right? or dangerous?
anything you know on it?
i was thinking i have not grown properly,
or something.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-22-07 18:22pm
younglad
wrote:
I am going doctor's a lot
and i shld be cured with my problems on my
sexual organs.
what you mean surgery on arms and legs???
that is impossible right? or dangerous?
anything you know on it?
i was thinking i have not grown properly,
or something.
Of course it's not impossible to chop off
sections of your arms and legs to make
them short; but it is incredibly scarring,
deforming, and dangerous which is why no
doctor will ever do it.
I think you need to talk to your doctor
about this. I think you may have some kind
of genetic condition that is causing all
of your problems.
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younglad
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Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 07-22-07 18:24pm
thnx, of course the most logical step is
the best to take...so if it is dangerous
hell no i am doing it,,blah blah soz..
when u say genetical,,u mean just body
yea? or u also meant my testicle and
penis?
but thnx! i really appreciate this help
and site
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-22-07 18:35pm
younglad
wrote:
thnx, of course the most
logical step is the best to take...so if
it is dangerous hell no i am doing
it,,blah blah soz..
when u say genetical,,u mean just body
yea? or u also meant my testicle and
penis?
but thnx! i really appreciate this help
and site
"Genetic" means your genes... your DNA...
How old are you?
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younglad
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Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 07-22-07 18:44pm
I am 18, I know wot u meant by genetics,
but i though you might have implied it
with my sexual problems to,,
i know that you mean, you mean by my body
now,,i was just wondering.
i hope dr can check it,
but thnx, and please do not get annoyed
with me,
i know i av posted a lot, its cos i am
looking for help, i am scared, confused,
holding on, thnx
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-22-07 19:39pm
younglad
wrote:
I am 18, I know wot u meant
by genetics, but i though you might have
implied it with my sexual problems to,,
i know that you mean, you mean by my body
now,,i was just wondering.
i hope dr can check it,
but thnx, and please do not get annoyed
with me,
i know i av posted a lot, its cos i am
looking for help, i am scared, confused,
holding on,
thnx
I believe your sexual problems are also
caused by your genetics. Talk to your
parents about this! They are there for
you!
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November_Mommy05
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Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 67 Location: Hartford City, Indiana
Posted: 07-31-07 23:08pm
younglad
wrote:
I am 18, I know wot u meant
by genetics, but i though you might have
implied it with my sexual problems to,,
i know that you mean, you mean by my body
now,,i was just wondering.
i hope dr can check it,
but thnx, and please do not get annoyed
with me,
i know i av posted a lot, its cos i am
looking for help, i am scared, confused,
holding on,
thnx
You
are only 18. Men have until their 22
before their growth either stops, or slows
almost completely down. Just be patient
with yourself, & your body. Your body
could turn out to surprise you. & if
all else fails, do things that'll boost
your self-esteem. You'll look hott, even
if you don't feel it.
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younglad
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Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 10-14-07 15:37pm
look hot???? hey please,,,can u get a
ruler,,,stand,,,up,,,,and measure 4 inches
from ur hips and up (vertically),,,,then
imagine all of that part gone!!!!!!!!!! u
will have a smaller tiny body,,,making ur
arms and legs disgustingly LONG! now u
telling me to look hot? clothes dont even
suit me!!!!! can u not see why!
AND THE ADVICE U GAVE IS WRONG AND
DANGEROUS,,,ive learnt i need to see a
specialist in growth disorders!
dont u understand that invidual body parts
dont grow at different times!!!!!!!! so
why will the body length somehow catch up
with the legs and arms???
no one can see,,,its easier said than
done!!!!!!!!!!