Feeling Guilty & Confused! I Need Answers!! Posted: 07-21-07 00:44am
my name is kelly and im 16 years young
with a baby on the way
okay well me and my boyfriend had sex
march 29th with no protection and he came
in me and thats when i was ovulating. But
i had sex after that on april 8th with a
old friend but we used protection. Im
scared the baby not might be my boyfriends
but it has to be right b/c me and the
other guy used protection. My period was
supposed to come on that april 13th but it
didnt and the ovulating calender said
march 29th was when i was most fertile. So
is my boyfriend the daddy or Do i just
feel guilty??? pleaseeeeeeeeee help!
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Re: Feeling Guilty & Confused! I Need Answers!! Posted: 07-21-07 00:46am
truluv_princess
wrote:
my name is kelly and im 16
years young with a baby on the way
okay well me and my boyfriend had sex
march 29th with no protection and he came
in me and thats when i was ovulating. But
i had sex after that on april 8th with a
old friend but we used protection. Im
scared the baby not might be my boyfriends
but it has to be right b/c me and the
other guy used protection. My period was
supposed to come on that april 13th but it
didnt and the ovulating calender said
march 29th was when i was most fertile. So
is my boyfriend not the daddy or Do i just
feel guilty??? pleaseeeeeeeeee
help!
hes probably the dad :] and your probably
feeling guilty
im 16 too and 19 weeks pregnant with the
love of my life
and btw even with a condom u can get preg
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 07-23-07 05:10am
based on your cycle being an average
(typical) 28 days and that your period was
due on april 13th then you were likely at
your most fertile march 29th and past
(likely) fertility by april 8th (this does
not mean everyone is safe at this time
just based on an average cycle).
without any additional dates (ie last 3-4
periods, or likely date of conception
based on ultrasound or likely due date
based on ultrasound) it is hard to say
anymore.
my opinion is that your boyfriend is most
likely to be the father.
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caribbean5
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2007 Posts: 34
Posted: 07-23-07 09:59am
I can empathize with you Kelly. I'm in a
similar situation. If you are your bf are
still together that's good. I'm 26 and
single and choose to be that way because I
think stress will take a toll on me and my
baby. From your post I realize that you
had sex the same day as I did March 29, 07
with a friend used a condom and the friend
claimed the condom broke and some
prefluids might have gotten out. This was
during a separation from my bf. Then my bf
came back in my life and we had
unprotected sex on April 1 but he didn't
ejaculate inside but on April 3 he did. My
period was due April 22 but nothing
showed up. I did a pregnancy test April 24
and found out that I was 4 weeks pregnant.
Over and over I keep telling myself it has
to be my ex bf because my period had just
ended March 28 (saw the last dry spot on
March 29). So I can understand that you
are scared. Try not to get worked up.
Think about you and your baby's health.
Best wishes to you and your blessing.
