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unknownperson

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Can’t Orgasm? Try This..
Posted: 07-22-07 14:37pm

Can’t Orgasm? Try this..

Well, I was one of those people that couldn’t. No matter how horny I got, how much I relaxed, how much I cared for the person I was with, or how many hours I spent on my own enjoying myself. Knowing that there were a lot of other people out there, I thought it would be nice to have a thread to talk about this and share suggestions.

If you remember I posted a thread here before talking about getting a vibrator. Well, I ended up waiting for my birthday. Then I learned that I couldn’t get a identification card until I had my birth certificate.. which was long gone in a house fire. So eventually I got a trustable friend and got one.

Well, it was great. I want to thank everyone here for their ideas and support.

I’m not positive, but I’m pretty sure I had an orgasm. I didn’t have the pee sensation people talked about, but my clit got cold I could feel my area scrunch and all sorts of stuff. So whether or not that was it, I’m no longer orgasm-less.

But I know there are a lot of girls who also can’t, or thought they couldn’t.

So does anyone else have a similar story that might help someone?
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Tylanas

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Posted: 07-22-07 14:48pm

The pee feeling only happens if you're having a vaginal orgasm, not a clitoral one.


Did it feel good? I think that's the most important note. It should have felt like a really good release of some kind... I know I get really sensitive afterwards and trying to touch my clitoris just makes me shake, and it doesn't feel good anymore.
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unknownperson

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Posted: 07-22-07 23:00pm

Yeah, it felt great.


And oh, I didn't know it was only for that type. I haven't figured out how to do those yet, but I will someday. All I know is that you're supposed to press along your front wall somewhere inside a bit for a 'spot' I've yet to find.

Any hints?
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Tylanas

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Posted: 07-22-07 23:20pm

unknownperson wrote:
Yeah, it felt great.


And oh, I didn't know it was only for that type. I haven't figured out how to do those yet, but I will someday. All I know is that you're supposed to press along your front wall somewhere inside a bit for a 'spot' I've yet to find.

Any hints?


Not every woman has a g-spot as far as science knows. I interpret that as, we all physically have one, but on some women it's not as sensitive.

It is a rough spot on the inner front wall about 2 inches in... Mine is really rough, very different from the rest of the vagina, and kind of hard too.
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 07-23-07 12:49pm

Eiri is right, it's not even proven that all women have a G-spot and are capable of having vaginal orgasms. It's still being studied.

Personally, stimulating any spot in my vagina doesn't feel any different than stimulating any other spot, and it's certainly not enough to bring me to orgasm.

Now whether that means I do not have a G-spot, or I just do not have one that is sensitive, I don't know.
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