tinkinpink84
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He Leaves In Less Then 12 Hrs :(
Posted: 07-23-07 14:40pm
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Jason leaves for afghanistan at 8am well i
gotta drop him off work at 4am. i dunno if
I will stay to say bye or go home and come
back or just go home at 4am and say bye at
4am. Im not sad yet. Im sure when I
actually have to say bye i will be bawling
my eyes out though. Saturday night I had
an anxiety attack wich sucked, i dunno why
i got it im on meds for it,. but i see my
dr on thursday so i will tell her about it
then. Tomorows gonna really suck. But all
i can hope for is that hes safe and time
flies, it will be a releif when he gets
there and is able to call me or something
to say he is there and ok, i know it will
be a few days before i will even hear from
him if not longer. Supposedly its a 6 mth
deployment, but my friend heard 15 mths
then people been saying 6-12 mths so i
really dunno how long but whatever. I just
really really hope that time flies by.
Tuesday just came up really really fast.
But we got last minute things done now.
its gonna be weird with him gone but then
like when hes in the field i get in a
routine when he isnt here. so eh i guess
it wont be too bad , tryin to keep myself
busy. tomorow afternoon i gotta get the
breaks changed on his truck, wednesday i
gotta babysit. thursday i got my drs app.
then i gotta schedule josephs 2 yr checkup
and the dogs rabies shot.
On a happier note, joseph said a few words
, i was giving them baths last night and
jason came and got jordynne for me and i
told joseph to say byebye to jordynne and
he goes byebye dad and waved. then he had
dropped his ball down the basement and
goes uh oh whered it go. he also asks
where we go when we get in the car lol.
and here you go when he hands me stuff. so
hes getting somewhere now, at least jason
sorta got to hear him talk a lil before he
left. i know joseph will most likely be
talking alot more when he gets back and
jordynne will be walking and the dog will
be huge.ill have to take pics for him and
video clips.
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R-I
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Posted: 07-23-07 14:56pm
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Im sorry.....You will get through it, i
know it will be hard....Think of happy
thoughts.. 
Stay strong 
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 07-23-07 14:59pm
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yeah i know, my neighbors husband is
going too, shes here ifi need anything. 2
neighbors offered to cut our grass while
he is gone. so its all good
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-23-07 15:27pm
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im so sorry i will pray for him
and everything will be ok
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Bridget
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Posted: 07-23-07 16:01pm
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oh man... i don't know how you girls do
it. i would be a mess.
what kind of contact will you have once
he's gone? will he have internet access or
be able to call you frequently?
you know we're all here for you. good luck
to jason!
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 07-23-07 16:10pm
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they have internet and phone, but the
phone sometimes sucks but htey got
computers over there for internet.
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kaerbear
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Posted: 07-23-07 16:31pm
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you're really brave, i don't think i could
do it. hope the time goes by fast and
he's back home safe in no time.
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Posted: 07-23-07 16:38pm
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I will be praying for you and him.
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 07-23-07 18:07pm
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I can't imagine how hard that must be
Diane... good luck to you and your family.
I'm sorry he has to leave.
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 07-23-07 20:39pm
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thanks everyone.
I just dropped him off. alot of people
were standing out with there husbands this
morning but it was rainy weather and i had
the kids so i just dropped him off gave
kisses and stuff he said bye to the kids
now im back home. i didnt cry but also i
know that he is still on base for a few
more hours so idunno. hopefully its not to
bad today. lets just hope time flies and
they all come home safe. i think im gonna
put joseph back to bed and try and get
some more sleep. he was gonna pull an all
nighter but we decided to get a couple hrs
of sleep. jordynne woke up around 2am for
a bottle and was ina weird good mood
laughing and babbling it was cute hehe.
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Posted: 07-23-07 22:10pm
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My hubby was gone a week on a fishing
trip,he just got home today.I went insane
not having him here for that length of
time i couldnt imagine wut you are going
through...are you able too talk to him via
internet or do you write back in
forth....my heart goes out too you and i
hope his time away from home flys by like
the wind.
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Posted: 07-23-07 22:27pm
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im sorry i didnt get to respond sooner, we
dropped steven back in camp leguene sunday
and had to say our goodbyes for the last
time as far as we know. I still get to
talk to him on the phone and hes still in
the conus but still goodbyes suck
especially when they could be forever. i
know how you feel, sucks when you realize
the next time he gets to see the kids or
they see him so much will have happened
macy and liam will be 2 and 3 when he gets
back. i dont think i could have stayed so
far from my family in times like this. ugh
im gunna cry just thinkin about it.
::hugz:: and the military sucks for
stealing our husbands 
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Posted: 07-23-07 23:41pm
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im sorry girl!! i know its the worse
feeling ever!
i agree the military sucks for taking our
hubbys away..
eat a huge plate of something good.. food
always makes me feel better.. your being
so strong though.. brian doesnt leave
until feb. and i bawl my eyes out
everytime i think about it
ill be thinking of you girl.
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Posted: 07-24-07 10:06am
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***edit: this is my response to "the
military sucks because they're taking our
husbands away" comments. i am in no way
saying "suck it up and get over it, you
knew he would be leaving at some point".
if the statement had been "george bush
sucks for taking our husbands away", i
would have agreed 100%. saying the
military sucks for having your husband do
his job is just silly. end edit.***
not to sound insensitive, but they did
sign up for this. i don't know how old any
of your husbands are but i'm assuming
they're young like you and signed up after
the war had already started, so they had
to know they'd be going at some point.
i do feel for you and i wish nobody had to
go over there at all, but this is the job
they chose so you can't really say the
military sucks for taking your husbands
away.
sorry.
Last edited by Bridget on 07-25-07 14:46pm; edited 1 time in total
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Posted: 07-24-07 10:12am
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easily said when you have no idea how it
feels. and my husband is 26 and signed up
years before the war started. We know
what we signed up for but it doesnt make
it suck any less.
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Posted: 07-24-07 10:15am
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I'm sure it's easier said than done, but
stay strong! I have the greatest respect
for our military men, women, and their
families.
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Lots of Prayers
Posted: 07-24-07 10:16am
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Thank you to the wives that take care of
the men who fight for us. You and your
family are in my prayers. Hang in there
and stay strong. God will take of him.
Much Respect
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Posted: 07-24-07 10:18am
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yes, it does suck, but this is what they
*chose*. easily said because it's the
truth.
dani, i'm glad you're with your family
while steven is gone.
do any of you know how long they'll be
gone for or is there at least an estimate?
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Posted: 07-24-07 10:19am
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good luck diane! you know we're here if
you need us. a lot of my relatives were
in the military so I know how you feel.
stay strong and just concentrate on the
kiddles! That's great that Joseph is
talking more! They say not to worry boys
usually start later anyway.
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 07-24-07 10:35am
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yeah we knew it when jason signed up he
joined in 2005. We just kinda hoped he
woulda went later and not soo soon. but we
got a whole year together here before he
left. i knew marrying him what i was
getting into, so far im still strong, he
called around 4pm they are still in
germany im guessing at the airport they
are waiting to get there once hes in
afghanistan i wont here from him for a
while until they are situated and trained
etc.
today joseph said bye to his friend lexy,
she babysat while i did the truck and i
told him to say bye and he moved all his
toys to one hand and said byebye and waved
and i said give kisses and hugs and he
kissed her. Im glad jason called and I got
to tell him that too . Still day 1 of him
being gone and he hasnt even left the
country just yet.
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