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Do you feel that you have been discriminated against by a doctor because you are a woman?
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Q: Discrimination Against Female Patients
asked by: Chinarose on March 12th, 2004
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Discrimination against female patients
posted: 03-12-04 5:31am

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i believe that women are discriminated against in the medical world. Not by all doctors but I believe they are the majority. They don't take womens concerns seriously and often think that our problems are emotional instead of real. Quick to say you are depressed or treat you as if you are a hypocondriac. For ten years I was having problems with my heart. They started when I was 14y.Old and got worse. I began looking for help at age 18. Palpatations, rapid heart rate(160 bpm) out of the blue and when i'm sedentary, numbness and tingling mainly in my left arm and sometimes pain, dizziness, and shortness of breath. I discussed this problem with 5 private practice doctors (all men but even one woman doctor) and 2 e.R. Doctors during a 10 year period. Only the e.R. Doctors did an ekg. But all of them said it was panic attacks and put me on zanax! And a variety of anti-depressants. 10 years later I go to work for a cardiologist office and after awhile (still having problems) I spoke to a nurse about it and she took my blood pressure. It was fine. She suggested that I see one of our 13 doctors. So I did. They ran tests including an echocardiogram which concluded that I had a mitral valve and tricuspid valve prolapses. Not deadly but life disrupting symptoms. The doctor knew it was a prolapse just by listening to my heart and hearing my symptoms. The echo just confirmed his opinion. Later I found out that it is hereditary and that both my mom and my grandmother have it. (my mom has one and my grandmother has two like me.)it is also common in women. Like 1 in 10 women have it. But not all have symptoms. Tell me why wouldn't these other doctors have done further testing and be so quick to put me on zanax and anti-depressants. Which I did not need. Other experiences have happened as well that have led me to believe that the doctor I saw did not take me seriously and also that when I ask questions they don't seem to really want to answer them. As if I don't need to understand or won't understand what they are going to tell me. I took a class in college called fitness for life. It stated just what I had suspected.Statics show that women are sometimes discrimated against because of the male perception of women. I will find the book and quote it to you later in another post to update this one. Well I think we women should try to do something about this. I'm not sure what at this time. But I will think about it. Please share any opinions, experiences, or suggestions with me. Thanks. :d
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2ferano
replied on March 12th, 2004
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I do not know about most cases, but I do know that it definately happens. It has happened to me several times. If you go in for anything they either try to put you on birth control or take you off of it. They seem to think that will cure everything. And if you have stomach pains or anything like that then they automatically say it is nerves.
But not all of the time. My doctor now is great.
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Chinarose
replied on March 12th, 2004
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To: Hotasfrick
Thanks for your reply. I agree with you. And thanks for your poll response. I have not found a doctor yet that I feel comforatable with or feel that I can trust. I am glad that you have and I am sure I will too, eventually. These days it can be hard to find the right doctor. There are so many of them that have started there career for the money and some that started with good intentions but got wrapped up in the money. But there are some who truly have a heart for people. But I do admire their heart and their commitment. But they are far and few between. Thanks again. And best wishes.
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2ferano
replied on March 15th, 2004
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My doctor is a female. I am not saying that men doctors cannot be good (not at all!!!) but all of the ones I had did what I mentioned above. "oh it is just your nerves. Try to relax.)" come to find out I had all kinds of health problems unrelated to nerves.
I am also not saying that all female doctors are good either. It is just a matter of finding the right one. But, try a female. It couldn't hurt. I drive 30 miles to see my doctor and I would drive 100 if I had to. I am never giving her up!
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KissyBai912
replied on March 15th, 2004
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I know exactly how you feel. I am 39 weeks pregnant and I got to a private group practice and my doctor is usually female, but you have to see every doctor in the practice at least once while you are pregnant. Usually when I have concerns, the midwives and female ob/gyn's take the time to tell me whatbthey think it may be and assure me it is normal or whatever. They are great. But I saw a male ob/gyn weeks ago and when I told him of a concern I had he just told me it was hormones and that I was fine. Then he left even though I had a couple more questions. I thought it was quite rude. But I do generally like female doctors better because they understand and dont blame it all on hormones and mood swings. So I can definitely see your point.
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