Teen Pregnancy Forum - Broke up with my boyfriend

haliparot wrote:

sunshinebabygrl wrote:

Hey everyone . I just wanted to tell you guys about the breakup, well it didn't really go as I thought It would go.

Well I told him over the phone that I had something to tell him and at first he thought I was gonna tell him that im pregnant. But anyway I was scared to tell him and I actually told him the nextday(sat). When I told him he just started laughing and saying I was crazy and stuff and he didn't believe that's what I had to tell him.

Then I told him why I wanted to break up with him and he realized I was serious. Then he started to get mad and was saying I can't break up with him, that what I say don't matter and just a bunch of stupidness. And we just argued for a little while. But I don't know what's wrong with him and why he didnt understand why I wanted to break up with him.

But right now iam not even talking to him at all because he embrassed me in front of a lot of people when I was walking away from him. He yelled out something like " I didnt make u f***ing have sex with me and your probally f***ing someone else but its ok because your gonna come crawling back to me" excuse the lanuage but that's what he said. And one of my friends was around and she didn't know about it so she was shocked and she's mad at me. But know he mad it show much easier to break up with him.

I don't know the whole story. Why did you guys break up?

But whatever the reason is, I'm happy that you are finally broke up with this guy. Obviously he is disrespecting you and the way he embarrassed you in front of a lot of people and your friend was not only very inappropriate but extremely rude and show lack of compassion and respect.

Go girl for leaving him...I hope that you will feel better soon.

You can talk to your friend later and explain to her what happened. I know she will understand. I also can't figure out why she got mad at you.

Well we broke up because he pressured me into having sex and he's a bit older than me. So to avoid it from happening to again which he still wanted to do it. I thought it would be best for me to break up with him. Even though I didn't want to break up with him I did anyway because I would rather do that instead of my mom finding out or me ending up pregnant. But the reson why my friend was mad at me was because she's been telling me to break up with him for a while because he's disrespectfull and stuff and the fact that I had sex with him and didn't tell her but I didn't tell nobody it wasn't just her, she also told me before that he was going to end up having his way and he only wanted one thing but I just didn't listen to nobody and wish I did if I knew it was gonna end up like this.