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ajames

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Can Someone Help Me??
Posted: 03-12-04 07:07am

I have had anxiety problems for 4 years now and have been able to deal with it pretty good until a little over a year ago. I would wake up feeling great and then when I would take the dog outside I could feel my pulse beating so fast that I felt like I was going to pass out and then the panic would come and then anxiety. This is not the only thing that makes my pulse beat to fast it allso does it after eating and sometimes for know other reason I could think of. This has been going on for over a year and I told my husband that I felt that something was wrong because it is the fast pules that starts my anxiety and panic. I had back surgery 6 weeks ago and found out before that my iron was low and was told that low iron can make your pulse speed up very fast. Has anybody had this problem with their pulse going to fast because of low iron ????????? I have been taking slow fe iron tablets with orange juice every day and seems that I have been doing better with the fast pulse but when I started my monthly
cycle it was very heavy and then I started to feel real bad with my pulse going very fast. I told my husband that I felt that my iron was low again and had it checked and it was. I need some help with this because I do not know anybody with low iron problems and anxiety from it. I hope somebody out there can help because this is driving me nuts.

April
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Chinarose

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Re: Can Someone Help Me??
Posted: 03-12-04 08:00am

Please read my forum post on discrimination against female patients. I was told that I was having anxiety attacks and put on zanax and anti-depressants. Then I found out after 10 years that I have a common and harmless heart condition called valve prolapse. Usually a mitral valve prolapse. More women than men have it but men can have it also. It is usually hereditary. And simple lifestyle changes can usually reduce or get rid of the symptoms. Panic attacks are real but you should rule out physical problems first before allowing a doctor to put you on mind altering and sometimes addictive drugs. I also suggest that you see a cardiologist not a family doctor because I saw several and none of them caught it. Cardiologists are the experts in this area. Those doctors had me thinking I was crazy and I believe this stressed me out so much that it contributed to my temporary depression. Now I am doing fine. I rarely have "attacks". I am no longer depressed and I take no medicine. I hope I have been of help to you. Please let me know what you find out and how you are doing. Best wishes!!
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ajames

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Thanks Chinarose
Posted: 03-12-04 08:20am

Thanks for your reply but it will not help because I allready have been to see a cardiologist and every thing is great with heart and all. I do not have any other health problems that can be the cause because I have allready had everything checked. I just want to feel good again and I am tired of the anxiety. It is like I said before it starts from my pulse beating to fast and have been told that it is because of low iron.

April
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Chinarose

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April
Posted: 03-12-04 08:29am

I am sorry that I could not be of help but I completly understand how you feel about wanting to feel normal. Are you taking iron supplements? If you have and that is not working then maybe it is an anxiety attack. Do you smoke or drink alot of caffine? These can cause your symptoms. Just putting it out there. I hope that someone will be able to help you. Good luck!!!
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ajames

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Anxiety
Posted: 03-12-04 08:50am

I do know all the do's and dont's and I do not drink or smoke and I do not drink caffine. I am on iron pills but was told that it can take time to get the iron back up. I went through a group years ago for anxiety and did great until 4 years ago. I know all the tools to deal with anxiety and panic
but for some reason I can not get rid of it and it is getting worse.

April
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Chinarose

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April
Posted: 03-12-04 09:06am

Did you just stop going to the group or did it just stop working for you? Maybe therapy would be more benefitial for you. Therapy can be very helpful for some people. You may just have to experiment with the different options giving them a real chance to see if they work for you. There are differebt kinds of therapy. Or maybe you can take the parts of them that work for you and combine them. Everone is different. But there is hope and this is not a hopeless situation. You may not have the same beliefs as me but I believe that god can do all things. And I believe that he can heal you and direct you down the right path for the help you need.God gave us doctors and therapists for a reason. He heals us using natural as well as supernatural means. I hope that sharing my beliefs with you does not offend you but I believe these things to be true. When all else fails and you cannot count on anyone or anything you can count on god. He cares about more than just your soul but also your body, mind, and emotions. And wants to help you like a father wants to help his little girl when she is hurting or suffering. I have had this experience personally and know he can do it. I hope you find the help and hope you are looking for and that you will be feed from this torment in your life. Best wishes.
Melissa
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ajames

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Posted: 03-12-04 11:04am

I did not stop going to group therapy I completed the course and was anxiety free and drug free. The group was called terrap and it cost around 2 thousand dollars to go now. I belive there is hope and I know that I will find the right cure I just got to take one day at a time. I am 39 years old and I survived tonsile cancer and back surgery. The anxiety started after I had a injection in my back to help the pain from my back injury that I got on the job in 1999. I was not told that it was a epadorial because if I had been told I would not have went home right after they were finished. I was told to go home and I thought the headache and head pressure was normal until I realized that something was wrong and tried calling the doctor that to this day 4 years later never called me back. I suffered a big time panic attack the very next day and to this day I can not get rid of them. I had a hole left in my spine from the epadorial that took 13 weeks for me to get a blood patch to correct the problem ( workers comp) it took 10 weeks for me to find out what this doctor did to me and I could not do anything to him because it was workers comp. I do not have a chemical inbalance and like I said before I know all the right tools to dael with anxiety and all the do's and dont's but I am lost as to how to get rid of this problem. I still feel it is because of low iron like the doc said what is triggreing the anxiety from the fast pulse rate (110)

april
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Haley

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Posted: 03-12-04 16:02pm

My resting pulse was always over 100 bpm until I got into a cbt group and really starting to make progress curing all my anxiety and panic (i suffer panic attacks as well as general anxiety). You may want to read the book we are using in my group, been there, done that? Do this! By sam obitz www.Tao3.Com I like it because it is a short book and all the chapters in it are short. The tea form and a couple of the other exercises in it have helped me start to reduce most of my physical symptoms already. We have several people in our group who suffer from different forms of health anxiety as well as people suffering from depression, sad, ptsd and panic. I'm not familiar with the stuff you did in the group you mentioned but cbt is the most effective treatment for anxiety disorders and does not usually cost much money like that one you were in before. Most groups last 12-weeks and mine is free other than the cost of the two books we are using Smile
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ajames

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Haley
Posted: 03-13-04 09:48am

Thanks for the info about the book I will get it. But at the same time I still am looking to see if anyone out there has a very high pulse rate from low iron?????????? When I am sitting and at rest my pulse is fine it only goes up when I stand up and walk around. There is a differance between pulse beeing high from anxiety/panic and a health problem such as low iron. They say low iron will make you tired and cause headaches and cause high pulse. I am hopeing that someone out there has had this problem with low iron and knows what I am talking about. The high pulse starts my anxiety and I know that it is the low iron causeing it. Because when my iron was fine I had anxiety and did not have the crazy pulse so I can tell the differance. We all know the differance because a person with anxiety is in fine tune with their body and any little thing can set off anxiety. I hope someone can help. For everybody that has replyed I thank you all for the info that has been given.

April
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purple333

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Posted: 03-13-04 16:22pm

April,

first I have had low iron levels all my life (diagnosed at 15) & i'm 48 & I also have anxiety attacks, ocd, depression & my pulse often races. I can't take any iron supplements or even eat alot of iron rich foods because all that gives me is diarrhoea!! Which means that I lose not only the iron but any nutrients etc from other food I have eaten & so I end up worse off!! So I am basically worse of than you but suffer some of the same things.

In reading all of the posts, the thing that struck me most was that while in some cases you have checked alternative causes out & in some cases you are open to suggestions - you are asking for help but not really listening to suggestions. I say this because I believe that if anyone wants help they must make sure that they are truly open to accepting it & trying it. You were willing to check out the book on cbt (great) but you seemed unwilling to consider some other things. Please just think about where your head is at & why in some instances you seem so closed to accepting suggestions that might help.

Anyway, now for my 2 bits worth. Try the cbt book & see if there's a course near you. But, also try increasing your intake of iron rich foods in the week before & during your period so that the blood & subsequent iron loss may not affect you so badly. Do the same anytime you say need surgery or lose blood for any other reason. I think it would be worth considering also that while you are abit young you could be starting menopause (illness can lead to early menopause even if your family genes would normally lead it to be later).

The other thing that I would suggest is trying a natural therapy eg naturopathy which might help with your iron/pulse etc & also something like 5htp, dhea, sam-e, vitamin b's all of which are natural destressors (the sam-e might also help your back problem!!) - you are stressed - think about this for a minute before denying it - you have a problem which is worrying you - that causes stress (plus I assume you don't live in a bubble removed from any other life stress & you mention a back injury so i'm guessing some pain??) - so you do have stress in your life & stress can cause sooooooooo many different reactions in us that it's worth rtying something that will reduce stress & see if it helps with your other problems.

Good luck, sorry for the harangue.
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ajames

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Purple
Posted: 03-14-04 09:14am

Thanks for the time you took to give your help. First of all sorry to hear that you are worse off than I am. Low iron is what I have been talking about from the start and thats what I have been asking for help with
anyone with this problem causeing anxiety.

Yes I am asking for help and I am open to suggestions and I do listen to what is said. And I have checked out every alternative causes that their could be. I know where my head is and I have tried even biofeedback
and other things that are not listed so you can not say that I am not open
to suggestions that may help because I am not closed to anything. I do not want to sound rude but this is the way I feel about what you said about me and that is not true.

I am going to try the book and I am going to see if their is a group near me. The doctor has me on iron inriched foods and pills and the doctor allready said that I do not have early menopause. Like I said I have had everything that you can think of checked to rule out any problems. I think you for bringing that up because that was something that I asked the doctor about was menopause because I thought that could be the problem.

I will talk to the doctor about the natural therapy and see about trying that
as far as my back I am not stressed out about the pain. I took 6 weeks of pain management and it did me a lot of good I deal with pain very good
and I live a very happy life and do not have the stress most people would have in my case (everybody is different) so I do not have a problem denying that. I have anxiety stress and that is it. I hope you do not take all this I am saying to be rude and not wanting to try things because I have been there done that and the only thing I was looking for was someone that had the same problem with low iron that triggered anxiety.

Thanks for you help april
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qt3

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Re: Haley
Posted: 03-16-04 09:46am

ajames wrote:
thanks for the info about the book I will get it. But at the same time I still am looking to see if anyone out there has a very high pulse rate from low iron?????????? When I am sitting and at rest my pulse is fine it only goes up when I stand up and walk around. There is a differance between pulse beeing high from anxiety/panic and a health problem such as low iron. They say low iron will make you tired and cause headaches and cause high pulse. I am hopeing that someone out there has had this problem with low iron and knows what I am talking about. The high pulse starts my anxiety and I know that it is the low iron causeing it. Because when my iron was fine I had anxiety and did not have the crazy pulse so I can tell the differance. We all know the differance because a person with anxiety is in fine tune with their body and any little thing can set off anxiety. I hope someone can help. For everybody that has replyed I thank you all for the info that has been given.


April


hi april-
i always had a high pulse but just from anxiety and then it got even worse once I started taking anti-depressants. No one even mentioned a link to iron in my case. I struggled for many years with panic, anxiety and depression as well and cbt was what changed my life and got me off all meds. My resting pulse rate is now in the mid 60's which is great for me. If you are interested in giving cbt a try i'd recommend the obitz book as it is a great introductory book and a quick read and or getting involved in a group Smile

take care!

Q
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ajames

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Group For Anxiety
Posted: 03-17-04 05:00am

Hi qt3

thanks for your help and I hope to feel as good as you do soon Smile

i have been trying to find a group in the houston texas area and have not had any luck is there anybody in the houston area that knows where there is a group Question I allso went to barnes and noble to buy the sam obitz
book and they do not have it. Is this a book that has to be ordered Question

april
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insurancegirl

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Posted: 03-17-04 05:05am

Once again, this is similar to what I have. I get that prob with my heart racing too, but then I go numb, get hot flashes, and everything. I went to the hospital and found nothing so they diagnosed me with anxiety, in which I think I b/s because it will happen even when I am not feeling stressed. I just don't get it!

Jennifer Laughing
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ajames

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Posted: 03-17-04 05:31am

I get numb in both arms and face and allso get hot. What I do when this happens I tell myself that everything is ok and I get a ice pack and put it on my chest while I lay down and it helps calm me down. Some times I have to wait until I can stand up to go get the ice pack because if I try to walk I will go into a full blown attack because of my heart beating to fast. It feels like I will pass out and the worse part it feels like I am going to die.
I use to drink everyday until one morning I got up to go to the bathroom and my heart raced so fast that it scared me so bad that I quit drinking.It was beeting so very fast for at least 2 hours even after takeing xanax. I will never drink again. I have been sober for 5 months and I do not have the urge to drink. Hope we all get well soon.

April
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sandyallen

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Posted: 03-17-04 06:17am

Hi there! I do understand! I am a very anxious and hyper person myself and I am almost 52 years young but I know by experiance that you have to put it under some control, if you don't it will eat you up not only physically but mentally and you must understand that we all need a little help sometimes, and their is nothing wrong with that and we are not crazy! You might try to check out emdr that is where they do the knee taping, and we all have situations in the past, this takes you back to the time where something happened you and you go back to that time and you release it, you do get a nice feeling of release this is done by some psychologists, it does help. Generally if you do go to a regular doctor all they do is prescribe meds which some meds do help but a lot of these pills cause side effects so then he has to prescribe another med and this goes on and on. You might also try breathing exercises if they are done correctly they help along with a relaxing tape this also helps with pain! Also try yoga it helps! I am not a doctor but I know from experience! Just tell yourself today is the first day of the rest of my life and I must do something for #1 (this means you) if you don't you have no one to blame but yourself! I hope this helps!
Sincerely,
sandy
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Haley

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Posted: 03-17-04 16:09pm

Hi ajames, i'm in oregon so I don't know of any groups in your area, sorry! I think you can only get the sam obitz book directly through its website (www.Tao3.Com) that's where I got my copy and it came really fast eventhough the website says it may take a week or two I got mine in a matter of days. I'm in the ninth week of my cbt group and weaning off drugs and feeling great, so I think if you work hard at the exercises like I have you will be feeling well soon wave
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qt3

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Re: Group For Anxiety
Posted: 03-24-04 08:12am

ajames wrote:
hi qt3

thanks for your help and I hope to feel as good as you do soon Smile

i have been trying to find a group in the houston texas area and have not had any luck is there anybody in the houston area that knows where there is a group Question I allso went to barnes and noble to buy the sam obitz
book and they do not have it. Is this a book that has to be ordered Question

april


hi april-
i'm in california and don't know much about cbt options in the houston area Sad you may want to call the university of houston or one of the other big universities in texas to see if they have a cbt program and can point you toward help in houston. I ordered the sam obitz book through the publishers website www.Tao3.Com. I hope you are doing well :p

q
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sandyallen

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Hi Haley!
Posted: 04-04-04 08:43am

I am in oregon too, what part of or do you live in? I hope it is nicer than g.P. We did like rogue river though, we went to portland last month I could not live their, it is ucky! Woops I am a litle bit off the forum I will get back to it. Ajames, I hope you are doing better! Do you like houston, I was their a few times I had the best haircut I ever had, it was a real experience, they hung me upside down by my heels, we went to woodlands tx woops their I go again I am getting off the subject.

Later all,
sandy
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Haley

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Posted: 04-06-04 10:31am

Hi sandy, I am in portland and I actually like living here. I admit there are some ucky parts, but there are some real treasured areas as well Smile what part did you hate so much? I've never really been to grants pass but I have heard the rogue river is known for its roaring rapids and is quite scenic. That haircut story cracked me up so much I had to make sure your n ote was not written on april fools day:)
was that for real?

Ajames, I hope you are doing better and cbt is helping you like it is me? I've only got two more sessions to go in my cbt group and I can't say enough about what it is doing for me. I'm still not completely off my meds but I will be in another week and my group leader says I am doing great and I feel great.
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