HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 07-29-07 21:50pm
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-29-07 22:29pm
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| kaerbear
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What? When I was a little girl, I found
pregnancy sexy too. I would lay with a
pillow on my stomach to feel like I was
pregnant when I masturbated.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-29-07 22:29pm
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| HcoBrunette06
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woah |
What, never had an orgasm in your sleep
before?
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Hollyberries
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Posted: 07-29-07 22:32pm
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| Eiri
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woah |
What, never had an orgasm in your sleep
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lol i have
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kaerbear
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Posted: 07-29-07 23:37pm
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nothing against you or anything but i'm
gonna be giving birth any time now and i
don't want you humping your bed to have
any association with that. lol. sorry,
like you said yourself, a little TMI.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 07-29-07 23:57pm
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lol yeah im pretty sure i have, but i
didnt know people did that while thinking
about giving birth 
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-29-07 23:57pm
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It wasn't in reference to your birth, I
was orgasming to my dream-birth. One woman
in the 10 minute preview even admitted to
orgasming during the birthing process, and
I've read it elsewhere too. I don't think
it's such an odd thing lol.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 08-01-07 14:20pm
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I think that her having an orgasm during
birth was an odd thing whoever she was. I
simply can't imagine being able to have
one in the middle of all that pain.
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Anne123
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Posted: 08-01-07 14:57pm
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The medicalization of birth is likely why
few have heard of orgasming when giving
birth - and even fewer have actually
experienced it.
This should come as no surprise when most
women in North America give birth in a
crowded room with bright lights hooked up
to monitors and IVs. Consider instead a
quiet, private, dimly lit room at home -
much more relaxing.
Tension increases pain. Being tense/not
relaxed leads to pain during sex and
difficulty to orgasm.
Doesn't it logically follow that a more
relaxed woman will have less painful
birth? Isn't it also true that orgasm is
more likely in a situation where the woman
feels safe and relaxed (and where she
doesn't have a large audience)?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-01-07 19:02pm
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | | I think that her having an
orgasm during birth was an odd thing
whoever she was. I simply can't imagine
being able to have one in the middle of
all that
pain. |
That's the point...
Apparently, birth does not necessarily
have to be painful (exceptions are ripping
and whatnot). I read a neat site about
non-painful birth, and how it is a
pressure and an energy and most women are
taught to interpret it as pain but you
don't have to interpret it that way. Once
these women choose to interpret as not
pain, they actually enjoyed the birthing
process and I've read several reports of
women orgasming during birth.
http:/
/www.unassistedchildbirth.com/sensual/orga
smic.html
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bernibaby86
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Posted: 08-01-07 20:38pm
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I think i might give water birth a try
next time. It doesnt seem too bad just by
the looks of it on TLC and discovery
health channels. Even one of my friends
suggested I try it with my daughter but I
didnt do it. I told her maybe next time
lol.
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kaerbear
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Posted: 08-01-07 21:08pm
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i'm sure it's possible although likely
very rare. but i still don't want to
think of tyna humping her bed.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 08-12-07 18:49pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | tigresacanela24
wrote: | | I think that her having an
orgasm during birth was an odd thing
whoever she was. I simply can't imagine
being able to have one in the middle of
all that
pain. |
That's the point...
Apparently, birth does not necessarily
have to be painful (exceptions are ripping
and whatnot). I read a neat site about
non-painful birth, and how it is a
pressure and an energy and most women are
taught to interpret it as pain but you
don't have to interpret it that way. Once
these women choose to interpret as not
pain, they actually enjoyed the birthing
process and I've read several reports of
women orgasming during birth.
http:/
/www.unassistedchildbirth.com/sensual/orga
smic.html |
Go through my birth experience and feel
what I felt and you'll understand why I
find it odd. Every unassisted birth is
not some beautiful, moving experience.
Mine was pain pure and simple starting
about two hours after my water broke. I
stayed in my home for another two hours
before going to the hospital and I was
ready to rip heads off and crawl in the
corner like an animal and lick my wounds.
There was no "interpreting" the sensation
as pain, it was pain. Like I have never
felt before in my life and hope never to
feel again. It was not pressure. There
would be no way in hell I could have an
orgasm feeling what I felt.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-12-07 19:32pm
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I want you to remember that every woman is
different. So, you felt pain... that
doesn't mean I will, or other women will.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 08-14-07 10:59am
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Yes, I understand that but I'm also trying
to make people understand where I'm coming
from as well. Also when I was pregnant I
had my head filled with a lot of this
birthing as a beautiful, slightly
uncomfortable feeling talk as well and I
think that it does a disservice to
pregnant women to gloss over the fact that
birth can be painful. I think that if I
had been prepared to view it more
realistically I wouldn't have been so
knocked out by the pain. Granted it still
wouldn't have changed my birth experience
but I wouldn't have been suckers. I know
for some people that level of pain isn't
the case but I'm trying to present the
other side as well. I hope that no one
else feels what I felt, hell I hope that
if I have another child that I don't
feel what I felt but let's just prepare
people for the chance that there could be
serious pain.
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Rodge
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Posted: 08-14-07 11:59am
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I don't know how you guys do it. I'm
tentatively starting to consider having
kids, but the whole idea of birth makes me
cringe. I'm kind of weird. I deal with
actual pain okay, while I'm in it, but the
idea of being in pain
freaks me out. So yeah, you're a lot
braver than me.
Also, I'm gonna try to interpret my next
dental treatment as 'not pain' and see how
that goes. Getting a crown is a sensual
experience! 
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teddybearfluff
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Posted: 08-16-07 20:07pm
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I was going to do a water birth, but not
all hospitals offer them because they
increase the chance of infection... I
laboured in the bath but once you hit
really hard labour it makes no difference
where you are - hope this helps
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-17-07 15:53pm
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| Anne123
wrote: | You're very welcome.
I don't know about the costs of a hospital
birth - with or without a birthing tub,
sorry. All hospital births (and
homebirths) are totally free in Canada.
If we visit the hospital we don't even
know what the bill would be.
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::::banging head for not moving to Canada
earlier::::::
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Anne123
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Posted: 08-18-07 12:37pm
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Lol. Oh, Georgia! 
I have heard that some insurance companies
in the US do cover homebirths and midwife
services (depends on the state - in some
states it isn't technically legal).
If homebirth is something you're seriously
interested in, you could check out your
insurance coverage and make sure you're
with a company that does cover
homebirth.... before you even ttc.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 08-18-07 15:36pm
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At one point during my labor I rocked back
and forth on a birthing ball, and it quite
literally felt like I had a knife up my
vagina, and every time I rocked it felt
like I was being sliced open. Not very
orgasmic, but to each their own.
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