Should I Stop Masterbation

Chicks dig guys that masterbate

Haha, very good comparison there

if your heart is telling you to stop, then stop; but i doubt that's the real reason why you fail to 'get' girls. maybe you are not evaluating your 'targets', or not sending a clear message that you are interested.

if God was punishing you for this healthy act, then why is he only punishing you?

i think you should talk to your closest friends and get some real advice from your peers. and ask your priest!!!

I think they say you will go blind if you stop masturbating.

Look at the title of your post and the results of the poll and READ the replies that have been offered. You will see overwhemningly( or whatever) that Masterbuation is natural and extreemly widespread. For goodness sake accept that there is nothing wrong with wanking no matter how frequent. Telling you HOW to stop would be skin to telling you to stop eating / drinking / sleeping / peeing or any other NORMAL bodily function.

HEY WWJD!
First of all I read the conversation here and i want to congradulate you on your firm stance against something you feel is wrong. For fourteen you seem to have more of a conscience and mature decision making process then many adults i know. Secondly, i would like to put in my two cents on the matter. Masturbation is selfish, unclean, and a distortion of pleasure. It is a destructive form of immediate self gratification. Despite what your fellow respondants have told you it is not natural! Hormones are natural, temptations are natural, breathing is natural, and the beat of your heat is natural, Masturbation is a decision that the person them self commit. And as you already know you it is committing a sin. Urges are difficult. They can penetrate your best defences, your strongest stands, your most pure of intentions, and your commitments against them. When they hit you try to fight them but as humans we are weak, and will justify them. We justify wrong doings in order dull the mind and conscsience of committing such dirty deeds. Justification comes in many words as fellow blogers here have demonstrated, stating that it is natural, telling themselvs its what everyone is doing, telling you it is okay because everyone does it. JFK, the leaders of American people, that person left out one very important Man. Jesus. The Man who came here in order to show us how to live left us many examples of how to live, and masturbation was never one of them. Masturbation obstructs your intentions and mind. Your socialially disoreinted because you have the gift to know what you did is wrong, but did it anyways, and it is hard to distinguish that masturbation is not who you are but what you do!
when temptation hits, honestly Pray! wrestle with the LUST and tell yourself it will feel satisfying for the moment, but in the long run you will feel lousy, disappointed and awkward. These feelings to carry over into your life, your football, and your relationships. If you are training your mind and body as an object of self gratification, then at the same time you have the heart to love a woman, you are going to be confused! This is why you have a hard time opening up to girls.
Feel Prayer working within you. Constant prayer. You need to be persistant! I will pray for you if you pray for me! And to all you, you will be prayed for that one day you can find the truth about your self, not lies of masturbation.
For the Power and the Glory!

So if all you want is to stop masturbating. You've done it before so you know what its like and how difficult it is for you to just STOP altogether, which is why you are asking us right? The only way you can stop masturbating is either 1. strong will. or 2. get castrated. I'm not sure if you have number 1, or if you'd like number 2. I don't think 14 year olds or most guys in general have the will to stop masturbating, I can only imagine the strictest of monks doing so, so I say quit worrying about it and start beatin your meat.

Look here young man, if you seriously feel bad about masturbating then you probably have the wrong image in mind or using the wrong equipments. While this may not be a forum for sexual advice, I feel very obligated to help you out.

Start of with a good porn tape to get the visual down packed. Get you some very good lotion (jergens is my favorite 'cause it stays wet longer). Moisten it even further with saliva. Assume an interesting position you captured from the porn tape and go at it like you're exorcising a demon.

Trust me when you reach that thunderous orgasm, you will heave a huge sigh of relief. Engage in it regularly and it will add a great deal of charm to your personality.

The only way you can stop is to..... stop. It is perfectly normal at your age to have raging hormones.. which means the frequent urge to masturbate.

There is no treatment, no creams, no medication that you can legally take that can help you stop. No doctor or health professional is going to help you, because Masturbation is a completely healthy thing. Why would they try to make you stop?

Therefore if you want to stop, it is up to you and your will power.

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