hey i am young and when me and my bf were
haveing sex the condoms keep breaking
without us knowing.i dont wont a kid right
know i am poor vary poor.can you help me
fine a way to kill it...... and
can you tell me the signs of pregnancy.
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Posted: 07-30-07 16:28pm
If you miss your period, take a pregnancy
test. If you aren't pregnant, get on birth
control. If you were to be pregnant, &
you wanted an abortion, do not talk or ask
about it here. That's what the abortion
forum is for.
Good luck.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 07-30-07 16:30pm
i can help
step 1. stop haveing sex if your not
protected and the condoms keep breaking
which i dont understand hwo that keps
happening
step 2. if you really dont want a kid then
go to planned parenthood and get on free
birth control
umm yeah
i hope your not pregnant
and how do condoms keep breaking?
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amanda1116
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 07-31-07 23:27pm
the_girlfreind
wrote:
i can help
step 1. stop haveing sex if your not
protected and the condoms keep breaking
which i dont understand hwo that keps
happening
step 2. if you really dont want a kid then
go to planned parenthood and get on free
birth control
umm yeah
i hope your not pregnant
and how do condoms keep
breaking?
idk
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HcoBrunette06
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Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8004 Location: Missouri, United States
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Posted: 07-31-07 23:29pm
i doubt the condoms break so frequently
go get on some birth control , it's free
like the other girls have said, there's no
reason to risk it if you don't want a
baby.
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sick_mama17
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Jun 2007 Posts: 960 Location: , England
Posted: 08-01-07 02:10am
Maybe they are too small? Try a bigger
size.
Ask your doctor to put you on the
contraceptive pill too.
Double protection.
If you miss your period, take a pregnancy
test from the store to find out for sure
if you are or not.
If you cant afford to have a baby, you
could always have him/her adopted after
you give birth. Abortion 'killing it' is
not your only option.
Morgan
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Birch
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Re: Help Me Plz Posted: 08-01-07 11:41am
amanda1116
wrote:
hey i am young and when me
and my bf were haveing sex the condoms
keep breaking without us knowing.i dont
wont a kid right know i am poor vary
poor.can you help me fine a way to kill
it...... and
can you tell me the signs of
pregnancy.
Some signs of pregnancy:
Missed period, nausea, appetite changes,
breast swelling, spot bleeding, cramping.
You may not have any symptoms for awhile
that you notice. If your period is late
you will need to take a pregnancy test.
You can buy one at a drug store (I don't
know where you are though).
You need different condoms. I am worried
that your bf may be tricking you into
thinking the condoms "keep breaking" so he
doesn't have to use one because guys don't
like condoms.
It is very important to get on regular
birth control. There are free clinics all
across the US who can help you without
your parents knowing.
If you are pregnant, you will have to go
to one of these clinics and talk talk to
someone. Do not go to a "Pregnancy
Crisis" center; they will not even listen
if you want an abortion. There is a link
by Carifairy of legitimate abortion
providers on this forum. Look at that
please for more information.
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jenn_smithson
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2004 Posts: 808 Location: Texas
Posted: 08-02-07 18:08pm
The condoms could be breaking because
you're not using them correctly, you're
using novelty condoms, or you're using
condoms that have been damaged.
You want to keep condoms in a cool, dry,
dark place. If he's using a condom that
has been in a wallet or the car, the
condom is going to be less effective due
to friction and heat.
When you go to use a condom, there should
be a small pocket of air inside the
package. If the packaging is tight around
the condom (if you can visibly see the
whole ring), then you should not use that
condom.
When you go to open the package, you
should gently slide the condom to one side
and carefully tear the package open along
one edge. You should never tear it open
with your teeth. Once the condom is out,
you should carefully figure out which way
it slides down before placing it on the
penis. Pinch the reservoir tip of the
condom as you (or he) puts it onto his
penis and slide it down the shaft with
your other hand. If you're not getting
the air out of the reservoir tip before
you put it on, it could be one reason why
the condoms keep breaking. As soon as he
ejaculates, he should grasp the base of
the condom and his penis, withdraw, and
then carefully remove the condom. If any
semen leaks out or spills onto your labia
or vagina, you could become pregnant.
You should change condoms any time he
becomes limp or ejaculates before
continuing on with sex.
Birch has given you pregnancy signs and
symptoms. If you are late for your
period, you should take a pregnancy test.
If you are pregnant and do not wish to be,
you can have an abortion. It's your body,
your responsibility, your sacrifice, so
it's your decision.
As others have mentioned, if you continue
having trouble with condoms, you may want
to look into hormonal birth control. Many
states and cities have programs for teens
or financially challenged people to get
them for free along with a well woman
visit which you should have yearly now
that you are sexually active.
If you need anything else or have more
questions, let us know.
Best of luck!
Peace,
Jenn
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