Joined: 27 Jul 2007 Posts: 71 Location: New York, United States
What's He Thinking?!! Posted: 08-01-07 10:11am
Ok so here's my story. This guy asked me
out a few months ago. I told him that his
timing was wrong and that I wasn't
completly saying "no" but just giving him
a "yellow light". I told him we needed
more time to get to know each other.
A few weeks before he asked me, there were
compliments and flirting but after I said
"no" he doesn't do them as much if any at
all. We still talk but I can feel the kind
of distance between us.
Does he still like me? Did I cause this?
WHAT'S HE THINKING?
My other male friends suggested that his
pride is hurt and he wants to just come
off as if he doesn't care. They said he
still likes me just that I'd have to be
the one to ask him out this time - but I
don't know . . . I still need more
insight.
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Marfa2107
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 1552 Location: Galena, Kansas United States
Posted: 08-01-07 10:14am
yeah
even though you did not "say no
completely" you still "turned him down"..
which that can hurt an ego...
i'm sure he thought he was doing
everything right with compliments and
flirting... adn then when you turned him
down he second guessed himself
because you made it look like it wasn't
working..
idk that's just what i see..
maybe try to explain to him why you think
you guys should get to know
each other better....
