Is there any foreplay involved? That can
be important, especially for the female.
The male needs to be sensitive to what the
woman wants. In my experience, if the man
is selfish, or we are not invested
emotionally, it really doesn't feel that
great. I think you'll learn what you
like! I had sex 3x with the guy I gave my
virginity to and not one of those times
felt good. (I really wasn't crazy about
the guy, either. So, I learned.) It
really wasn't until several years later
that I started to enjoy it and really not
until last year that it's gotten good
(either because I am more into my
boyfriends, or perhaps because my body
wants me to have babies! The body clock
is ticking.). Give it time and don't
worry too much about it. Relax! The lube
is a good idea for now, though.
