Pain During And After Sex Posted: 08-02-07 06:37am
Hi, I am new to this but decided I needed
some answers. I occasionally have sex with
a very well endowed guy (friend with
benefits) and usually sex is fine with him
tho we tend to avoid me on top in the
morning when he is bigger. But last night
when he was on top it really hurt to begin
with and then was ok again, then later
when I tried to go on top we had to change
position because it was too deep for me
and hurt the entrance of my vagina also.
This morning it seemed to be ok tho it
hurt a little bit at the entrance, he was
very understanding and the last thing he
wants to do it hurt me but I still want to
know what the problem is. I have been told
to go to the doctor but there are no
appointments til monday morning so I am
searching for a few answers ot ideas in
the meantime.
we always use condoms so I doubt it's
anything to do with an STD (I have never
had unprotected sex) but I am due to get
my period today and was wondering if that
could have made me more sensitive than
normal. Or maybe it was because I had not
seen him in a month and I recently had a
urinary infection? Any ideas and help
would be most welcome. Many Thanks. PB
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 08-02-07 06:54am
My partner is also very well endowed and
for the first week or two that we had
sex,maye even after that,it hurt. It could
be because he was pounding me,lol but I
think it was a combination of that and the
fact that he was large. the pain was
like,stabbing pain.like when you have sex
and you have have gas? It doesn't hurt
much now but every once in a while so I
think its normal.also I tinki hacving your
period could affect it. I noticed that
when I was just about to get on my period
I got a pap,and it hurt! usually they
never hurt and I told the doctor it hurt
and she said your about to start your
period (My period was irregular so I had
no idea).could be!
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Pease Blossom
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Posted: 08-02-07 07:55am
Thank you!
Starting to feel a little more at ease.
Plus sleeping and a bath helped.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 08-02-07 08:22am
Pease Blossom
wrote:
Thank you!
Starting to feel a little more at ease.
Plus sleeping and a bath
helped.
yeah,it does help. Whe
this happened to me I couldn't poop for
like 2 days.I felt constipated! lol maybe
just take it easy and take a day or two
break so you can heal up,thats what I do!
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Pease Blossom
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Posted: 08-02-07 12:54pm
I spoke to the pharmicist and she said
that lack of lubrication was probably the
problem, but it wasn't for 2 reasons,
firstly because I was very 'happy' to see
him and secondly because we used extra
lubricant. She also said that it probably
was not to do with my period or my bladder
infection. So yea, now my doubts are back.
I am kinda hoping she was wrong.
I am going to try and see th doctor on
Monday.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 08-02-07 13:00pm
Pease Blossom
wrote:
I spoke to the pharmicist
and she said that lack of lubrication was
probably the problem, but it wasn't for 2
reasons, firstly because I was very
'happy' to see him and secondly because we
used extra lubricant. She also said that
it probably was not to do with my period
or my bladder infection. So yea, now my
doubts are back. I am kinda hoping she was
wrong.
I am going to try and see th doctor on
Monday.
well she still could be
right. I had plenty of lube too but from
havnig sex more than once of for an
extended period of time your body does
absorbe the lube and all the friction can
cause you to becomre sore (even though you
were not completely dry).get it?
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Pease Blossom
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Posted: 08-02-07 13:17pm
~*~Melissa~*~
wrote:
Pease Blossom
wrote:
I spoke to the pharmicist
and she said that lack of lubrication was
probably the problem, but it wasn't for 2
reasons, firstly because I was very
'happy' to see him and secondly because we
used extra lubricant. She also said that
it probably was not to do with my period
or my bladder infection. So yea, now my
doubts are back. I am kinda hoping she was
wrong.
I am going to try and see th doctor on
Monday.
well she still could be
right. I had plenty of lube too but from
havnig sex more than once of for an
extended period of time your body does
absorbe the lube and all the friction can
cause you to becomre sore (even though you
were not completely dry).get
it?
Yea, thanks. Guess I am just a bit worried
because it has never happened before.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 08-02-07 13:43pm
well make an appointment just in case but
im sure everything is fine!
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