If this was you--- how would you handle this situation????
Tell him to BUZZ off .....???
38%
[ 5 ]
Make him tell her???
15%
[ 2 ]
Tell her urself???
46%
[ 6 ]
Total Votes : 13
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wvmom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Aug 2007 Posts: 6 Location: Parkersburg wv, USA
Lets Take a Poll......... Posted: 08-02-07 22:33pm
OK so I need to throw this out
somewhere--- so here goes.........
I have been seeing this guy for the last
yr..... and I find out recently that we
are having a baby........ then I find out
that the guy I am seeing .... and PREGNANT
by.... is not only seeing me --- but hes
been living with someone else.......
telling me that this was just his "room
mate" .... yet this is a room mate that I
cant meet..... I cant talk to ,...... I
cant have any conversation with........
"cause it just makes it harder at home" is
what I was told....... WELL..... since my
discovery.... I have talked to him.... and
I have asked why he lied to me... and all
I get is --- I am trying to get out..... I
am trying to get my caca together..... I
dont want to be there.... I want to be
with you..... but LIES to me??? WHAT THE
HELL??
So I called him tonite and told him that
we needed to talk ..... that I wasnt doing
this anymore.... I deserve better .....
she deserves better..... and he needs to
just come clean...... what do you think
the chances of that are? HIM HONEST?
Better chance of me being SKINNY!!!!
So now I find myself pregnant.... and not
sure what to do??? Do I stay?? Do I walk?
Do I tell her?? Do I make him tell her???
Like I said --- when this all started--- I
was under the impression that she was
nothing more than a room mate..... and
then I found out (by talking to his
friends) that she was more than
that........ any one with ideas??? HELP!!!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-02-07 23:28pm
I would tell her, and ALSO leave this
loser. Make him lose both women in his
life and his future child; seems like just
rewards for being a liar and a cheater.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 08-06-07 10:44am
i owuld bust in his apartment and confront
both of them
and then leave his sorry a** and get child
support
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Chezzy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2007 Posts: 152
Posted: 08-07-07 03:21am
I totally agree with Eiri..Tell her and
let him lose you and her, ..
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Jules
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Joined: 19 Aug 2006 Posts: 3788 Location: Merrie Englande, UK
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Posted: 08-07-07 04:05am
Another vote for Eiri's suggestion here.
Don't be fooled into believing he'll
change. He won't and he'll laugh at what
a mug you are. Just focus on making a
happy life for you and your baby now
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Jacinta
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2007 Posts: 6 Location: Nhill
Know How You Are Feeling! Posted: 08-18-07 01:28am
I can really feel for you! I have been in
a simular situation. I never got pregnant
but I was married to the guy. After 10
months of marriage, I found out he had
been cheating for 6 of those. She knew
about me alright but the stupid bimbo
didn't care. I got rid of him as quick as
I could. And with great family support I
got through it and moved on. In the ten
years since then I have done Contiki tours
overseas, remarried and given birth to two
gorgeous boys. Life goes on and it will
for you too. You are not on your own. You
have an amazing life growing inside you
and a whole future ahead of you. I agree
that the other women, roommate should be
told. Who knows maybe she will be in the
same boat soon! A leopard never changes
it's spots. He will strike again! She
needs to be warned. With or without his
financial help (Hell make him pay BIG)
good luck!
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Love_Like_Winter
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Apr 2007 Posts: 45 Location: England, UK
Posted: 08-26-07 18:00pm
Definatley agree with all the comments...
The 'room mate' needs to know what he's
like. And no one deserves to be messed
around like that.
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
Posted: 08-27-07 19:54pm
Tell him to buzz off. She'd find out on
her own when I sued him for child support.
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Fairy Godmother
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Joined: 11 Oct 2003 Posts: 1486 Location: , Georgia USA
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I Agree Posted: 08-27-07 20:02pm
I totally agree with Eiri and
the_Girlfriend......and the other ladies
here!Confront, embarrass and tell him to
kiss your ass......You are far too good
for this. There is a respecable man out
there for you honey, just get rid of this
looser.....how far along pregnant are you?
Try not to let this get to you too bad,
you are pregnant, that plus i kinda feel
you ahd a idea all along womething wasn't
right...been there done that cept the
other woman was pregnant..............he's
history!
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Chezzy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2007 Posts: 152
Posted: 09-05-07 06:57am
Any further on whats happened??? Were
thinking of ya..
