I Have a Huge Problem That Could Wreck My Life. Posted: 08-03-07 17:11pm
I Had my Period June 17 2007, I had Sex
with my Bf last June 28, 2007. we normally
used rubber through out the relationship,
but just this once, we got totally excited
and he went inside me for about less than
2 mins then he imediately pulled out to
get a rubber since we always try to play
it safe, after the great sex, i asked him
if he came inside me,he's positive that he
didnt and he said thats its going to be
impossible for me to be get pregnant.. the
chance is slim yet, i know its still a
chance nonetheless. there's this thing
called precum right?
July 01, 07 I slept with a different guy
which is my on going sex buddy for 3
months now, we never used rubbers, its
always through withdrwal method.
Do you think we would be able to tell if
the baby's father is My Boyfriends or My
Sex buddy? I know that the dates are so
closed.. but any help opinions, thoughts
would be very much appreciated!
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Bridget
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Posted: 08-03-07 18:30pm
you have a boyfriend and a "sex buddy"?
that's just gross.
anyway, if you're pregnant the only way to
know who the father is would be through a
paternity test. the dates are much too
close.
yes, there is precum and that has sperm in
it. all it takes to get pregnant is *one*
sperm.
pulling out is *not* a method.
assuming you have a normal 28-day cycle
you had sex with both of them during your
most fertile time.
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Hollyberries
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Posted: 08-03-07 18:33pm
Sorry, but just wanted to add that maybe
you should be using the condoms with the
sex partner too. I know if my BF/GF gave
me a STD i would be pissed.
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arcadia
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Posted: 08-03-07 18:36pm
Does your boyfriend know about your
ongoing sex buddy? I'm assuming he
wouldn't be too pleased. Why have a
boyfriend if you're just going to sleep
around? I'm sorry, but that's just
skanky.
Like Bridget said, the dates are way too
close. You'll have to have a paternity
test done after the baby is born. Which
requires both potential father's DNA
sample. So they're most likely going to
have to find out..
Good luck.
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rosejackson
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Posted: 08-04-07 02:06am
first of all the withdrawel mehtod does
not work. yes you could be pregnant and
with the dates so close there is no way of
telling whether the baby is your bf's.
only a dna test can prove that and im sure
your bf wouldn't be too pleased to hear
the truth.
why would you have a sex buddy and a bf
without using protection? theres things
worse than pregnancy like sti's that can
make you infertile or kill you? i suggest
if you're going to do it again use
protection.
if you think you might be pregnant wait
until your next period and then take a
pregnancy test and ill also suggest going
to the clinic to test for sti's and be
more careful next time
plus, im not here to judge, just give
advice. good luck and i hope all goes well
x
