How is everyone doing? Things have been
so crazy for me this past week.
DH and I got news last Thursday that one
of our good friends was in a coma from a
bee sting and he had severe swelling of
the brain and he didn't have a good chance
at making it. Well, this past Tuesday we
found out that they were taking the
respirators off and that was it. Well we
raced back home and got home at 2:30am (6
1/2 hour drive). The funeral was going to
be Friday, but now it is Sunday afternoon.
It has been really hard for all of us,
but it has been good that we were able to
be around all of our friends that had
known him.
Well, Friday was my Birthday - the dreaded
30 - and I didn't think that I was going
to have much of a birthday, but my friends
had a party for me at a resturant/bar that
we all love to go to, so it was nice.
They had a cake and sang and everything.
I think it was good that we were all able
to get out and not think about
everything.
And as far as the ttc business... I
ovulated last Friday the 27th, and I am
still in my tww, but obviously that has
been the furthest thing from my mind. I
was actually going to test early this
weekend, because af is due on Wednesday,
but now I am going to wait until at least
Tuesday morning, because we are not going
to get home until Monday afternoon. I am
trying not to think about it, because it
seems like everyone who didn't think about
things are the ones that ended up
pregnant. Soooo,,,,, we shall see.
Hope everyone is great!
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 08-04-07 21:43pm
I'm doing well. And my nausea is still
here as well in all its glory. I am still
having to take zofran at least once a day
to even function. In the last two weeks, I
worked four days because I couldn't go
pick up my medicine. I will be so glad
when we move in to the cheaper house.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-04-07 21:51pm
hi star!!! ahh ive been ok
glad your B day got better :] i hope you
had fun!
well lets see kristen has been moving
alot. im feeling alot of activity in my
tummy form her
me and travis just got done re doing our
upstairs living area. we went out and
bought a mini fridge and microwave and a
recliner chair so that i dont have to
walk up and down the stairs everytime i
get hungry or thirsty
so thats basically it
hope the rest of yalls weekend goes well
:]
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shortgeek
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Posted: 08-05-07 07:09am
I'm so sorry about your friend. My dh is
allergic to bee stings. Because of your
story, I think I'm going to make him take
his epipen with him when he goes out
today. He leaves it here a lot, where it
can't do him as much good.
It's good to have a distraction during hte
2ww, but not that kind of distraction.
Best of luck testing this week and I wish
you strength as you mourn your friend!
I'm glad you had your friends around you
for your birthday.
My chart looks funky this month. I think
I may have ovulated last Sunday, one day
before we used the cup. Oh well, nothing
I can do about it now.
http://www.fertilityf
riend.com/home/17d324
Monkeygirl - I hope that ms goes away
soon. I hear that for some women, it is
like a dark cloud being lifted when they
enter their 2nd trimester.
Girlfriend - Sounds like you're getting
pretty pampered now. I'd be in
trouble if I couldn't go up and down
stairs because we have four levels!
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 08-05-07 09:44am
I hope it is like a dark cloud being
lifted because my 2nd trimester starts
Friday. I really don't see an end in sight
right now though. Some days can be pretty
good and then I just throw up all day the
next day.
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shortgeek
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Posted: 08-05-07 21:45pm
Well I hope your nausea ends very soon!
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Posted: 08-06-07 13:57pm
Stefani-I hopw you are feeling better soon
and you can start to enjoy this pregnancy.
Suzi - it sounds like your living area is
coming together very nice. Now you can
let Travis pamper you.
Shorty - If I can stress anything, please
get your husband to take his epipen with
him everywhere he goes. My friend didn't
take it with him everywhere and he always
would freak out, justifiably, everytime he
would see a bee and he didn't have his
pen. He would always say "I could die if
I get stung". Man I just started crying
typing that. If you can tell him what
happened to my friend maybe you can
convince him to take it with him all the
time. They say that you only have 4
minutes to give yourself the shot before
you start to suffocate your brain from
lack of oxygen.
I actually just got home at 1pm today.
Woke up at 5am and left at 6, so I am
really tired, but felt the need to come to
work since I was out for 3 days. The
funeral was yesterday and it was one of
the hardest things I have ever had to do.
There was not a dry eye in the church.
300 people came to the service, that's how
much of an impact this man had on people.
He will be missed. I was scared to death
about the service, but now that it is
over, I feel closure and feel comforted
that he is with his creator and he is
looking down on us saying "Ha ha guys, I
got here first"
Well, tomorrow I am going to test, I
haven't had many symptoms other than more
gas than usual, some nausia, and some
cramping in the center of my belly under
my navel. If I have cramps before af
comes, they are almost always on the right
side...kinda makes me think I have a cyst,
but it isn't really painful. Anyways, the
cramps feel like my belly is being pulled
on. I also feel like I could be getting a
uti so maybe that is why I feel that way.
I also think I got dehydrated this past
week. So who knows.
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MrsLtd
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Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 156 Location: Michigan
Posted: 08-06-07 14:34pm
Hi everyone! Glad to hear from everybody.
Star, I am so sorry about your friend. My
dh is allergic to bees and I never quite
accepted the seriousness of it, and he
always forgets his epipen. Thank you for
bringing attention to it, I am just so
sorry again for your loss.
Everything is going good here. I am
currently on cd 32. I don't really know
if I am late because clomid has changed my
cycle so much. I didn't use opks this
month, so I have no idea when i ovulated.
I got a bfn last monday (I am so
impatient) so I decided to leave it alone
and just wait for af or major pg symptoms
to show. Right now I am just having sore
bbs, but no cramps like last month with
the chemical pg. If I was betting on it I
would say I am not pg. I don't feel
anything really. I don't even feel like
af is coming. So, who knows.
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Fairy Godmother
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Happy Birthday Posted: 08-06-07 14:41pm
Happy Birthday *STAR*.....so very sorry to
hear of the loss of your friend. I too am
allergice to bees/wasp stings. This is a
tragic event. I have you in my prayers to
become a MOMMY very soon! Fingers crossed
and FAIRY DUST to you!
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Allergic to Bee Stings? Posted: 08-06-07 15:29pm
Wow,
I am supprised to hear that three people
on here have husbands or are themselves
allergic to bee stings.
Please please tell them to stap it to
their leg or something. You never know
when you may need it, and it can save your
life. It could have saved my friends
life.
I am curious to know how you or your hubby
discovered that they were allergic to bee
stings. I have never (knocks on wood)
been stung by a bee, so how would I know
if I was allergic to them? My friend was
stung when he was younger and that is how
he found out. They say that it gets worse
as you get older also.
I am very interested in any information
you ladies have to help me understand
this. I think it will help put my mind at
ease a little about his death.
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Fairy Godmother
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Hi Posted: 08-06-07 18:54pm
You know its kinda weird, I was never
allergic to bees/wasps stings until I had
my daughter 24 years ago. How I found out?
When she was one, I got stung by a yellow
jacket on the hand, my entire hand was
swollen hte size of a baseball glove. I
went to the ER and thats when I learned I
hwas allergic. I do keep an Epipen at all
times. Before having my daughter I'd been
stung numerous times and never had a
reaction like the ones I do now. If you
are stung, immediatelt scrape the stinger
out. If it becomes really red and starts
to swell bad, get to the ER. Also anywhere
near you face, neck area be especially
cautious. It hurts to get stung, normally
the area will swell a bit then itch for a
couple days. Hope this helps!
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MrsLtd
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Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 156 Location: Michigan
Posted: 08-07-07 07:45am
My husband was stung as a child also, and
that is how he found out. He said it
starts as a normal sting, then it just
keeps growing until his airway shuts off.
I guess you don't know until you get
stung. That seems pretty risky though.
When we have children, I will definately
ask the doctor if there is a way to find
out because of dh. I don't know if it is
hereditary or not.
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shortgeek
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Posted: 08-07-07 13:44pm
My dh also found out as a kid. Because of
camping and boy scouts, he has been stung
numerous times. He says that Benadril
works for him. He hasn't been stung since
I've known him (seven years) but I'm
pretty anal about stashing Benadril in
numerous places. He usually doesn't carry
the Epipen with him unless we are
travelling.
I've only been stung a few times in my
life and I don't react much at all.
Have you tested yet, Star? Good luck!
I've got my own last week distraction from
my 2ww. I'll post something about it
later.
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Posted: 08-07-07 13:59pm
Shorty - that's good that your hubby isn't
that allergic to them. From my
understanding, as soon as my friend got
stung, he instantly started swelling up
everywhere. At least that is how he would
always explain it if it were to happen.
So, yeah I tested this morning and got a
bfn. But I am supposed to start af
tomorrow, and I don't have the usually
signs. My bbs are not sore at all. But
sometimes they get sore just a little bit,
and other times they get ridiculously
sore, so I can't count that as anything.
My temp is still way up today, but that
doesn't mean anything either, because in
my haste to leave for VA, I forgot my
thermometer and I also forgot my
prenatals. So I went a week without both.
So I don't really know about this month
at all.
My next time to ovulate is while we are on
vacation in Maine with family. I think we
are going to have to make a few trips to
the beach by ourselves....Just kidding