I don't know what to do or say to my
boyfriend, but he dose not want to have
sex as often as I do. I want to have sex
and some times he will tell me he is tired
or other times he will just ignore my
advances. But when we finally do have sex
I constantly have to give him a hand job
or blow job to keep him erect!!!!! It's
sooooo fustrating and then I start to feel
insecure about my self! I have tryed
talking to him, and helping him, but now i
have given up and masturbate after he
falls asleep. what can I do some one
please help!!!!!!
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ThickGirlJM
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 17 Location: California , USA
Hmmm.... Posted: 08-05-07 04:18am
Is he on any medication? Does he drink
alot or smoke weed etc? Do you guys live
together and argue alot? Have you done
anything risly lately like wear sexy
clothing or just get into bed nude? What
have you tried?
Hope you guys work it out
Jess
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-05-07 11:38am
It sounds like the problem is actually
his. Pull back and think of it from his
point of view... I think he may have
problems staying erect, which is why he
never wants to have sex. He knows (or
thinks) he's not good at it and can't stay
hard. He's terrified he'll disappoint you.
Ask him about that. It might be something
you two can work together to fix with a
doctor's help!
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bjmcfarland
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2007 Posts: 19 Location: ,
Sexual Fustration Posted: 08-06-07 10:56am
What you need to do is have talk to him
and let him know what you think.
You also need him to answer you with the
questions you have, be honest and forward
about what you think. If he avoids the
subject then it's time for you to make a
real decision about the future with this
person. If you are living with him move
back to your folks house, if possible.
You don't give much else in your post so I
don't know your age or anything else about
you
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wazzyandme
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2007 Posts: 18 Location: texas
I Totally Understand And Sympathize With You Posted: 08-07-07 13:19pm
just need to know a few things as with my
fellow repliers ....does he drink or
anything else? is he on medication and
does he have a stressful job? and how are
the other asspects of your lives ? is sex
the only thing thats wonky?
hey can I add you as a friend ? thanks
wazzywoman
