i was wit this guy for about 7 months and
ended up pregnant. we broke up and i moved
back close to family. we still talk but he
gives me signs that he wants to be with me
but i dont know if it is true... this is
his second child and my first... he isnt
with his ex but we broke up over some
stupid stuff... i dont know what to do. he
calls and then we talk for hours then he
is like i will call you tomorrow at same
time and i wait around for it then he
doesnt even call... it just stresses me
out.. i am due january 11th 2008 and i
cant wait and he tells me the same... i
dont know what to believe... can anyone
help me.. i love him alot.. but i wrote
him a note tellin him how i feel and we
chat sometimes on phone or yahoo and he
calls me lil mama.. what am i suppose to
do.. i have another guy goin after me but
i just want my baby's daddy.. please help
me figure out what to do...
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meblonde01
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Re: I Want My Ex Back Posted: 08-06-07 06:14am
lilmama_20
wrote:
i was wit this guy for about
7 months and ended up pregnant. we broke
up and i moved back close to family. we
still talk but he gives me signs that he
wants to be with me but i dont know if it
is true... this is his second child and my
first... he isnt with his ex but we broke
up over some stupid stuff... i dont know
what to do. he calls and then we talk for
hours then he is like i will call you
tomorrow at same time and i wait around
for it then he doesnt even call... it just
stresses me out.. i am due january 11th
2008 and i cant wait and he tells me the
same... i dont know what to believe... can
anyone help me.. i love him alot.. but i
wrote him a note tellin him how i feel and
we chat sometimes on phone or yahoo and he
calls me lil mama.. what am i suppose to
do.. i have another guy goin after me but
i just want my baby's daddy.. please help
me figure out what to
do...
Unfortunately if you wrote him a note and
told him how you feel and he did respond
to the note by coming back, Then there
really isn’t anything you can do.. I
don’t know what your note said, but I
would not be vague in letting him know
what you want. Tell him you love him and
you are sorry you broke up over something
stupid, and you want him back in your
life, not just over the phone. You don’t
have anything to lose by being honest..
After you tell him, the ball is in his
court.. And you will know you did and said
all you could..
Good luck..
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maza
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Joined: 02 Sep 2007 Posts: 18 Location: australia
Posted: 09-03-07 01:47am
Me and my ex have 2 kids he was great with
them and we all loved him but he cheated
on me ALOT and
it took another guy to show me how i
should be treated we have been together
for 1 year and i still think about my ex
(because he doesnt see the kids) all the
time and will always love him but maybe
someone else will be good its hard to
leave the one you love but sometimes its
for the best.
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loner25
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Posts: 2 Location: , USA
Re: I Want My Ex Back Posted: 11-19-07 22:10pm
First of all, does your ex know about the
other guy going after you? You cant wait
around for him to realize that he is
making a mistake. What if this other guy
is your happines and you're waiting around
for your ex! I dont know what the other
guy wants from you, but it takes a man to
go after a pregnant women who is having a
baby from somebody else. Tell your ex how
things are. Give him sometime to change,
maybe wait until the baby is born , if he
doesnt change til then, he never will.
What you need to do is move on, for you
and your baby.
and
it took another guy to show me how i
should be treated we have been together
for 1 year and i still think about my ex
(because he doesnt see the kids) all the
time and will always love him but maybe
someone else will be good its hard to
leave the one you love but sometimes its
for the best. 