mattysmommy29
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!please Help Me Im Going Insane
Posted: 08-08-07 14:31pm
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hello,
Um well first of all my first problem is
I havent recieved my period on tha day I
was suppose to get it...2 weeks and 3 days
now you see ..I took 2 pregnancy tests and
they were negative and people think its
because of the depo I was on well... the
LAST time I took it (got my shot) was in
october of last year and i didnt recieve a
period from nov-the end of april like 6
months so I got my period it lasted for
liek a month...so whatever i have been on
the same bc since feb. (im on tha pill
now) so okay after that horriable period I
got I finally recieved a normal one in may
on tha 22nd and june 22nd both of tha
periods were on tha same day and lasted
for a week and it was normal i was SOO
happy I thought I finally was back on
track soo this month well last month now
july I was expecting it on tha 22nd and
nuthin a few days before I spotted so I
thought okay maby it will be early but I
spotted a lil nnot enough for a tampon or
Nuthin so but anywayz I havent gotten mine
I mean I should prolly go to a doctor but
Id otn have insurance so I was seein if
sum1 could help me..I am having sharp
pains in my stomach.. I wud think Im
pregnant but when I was pregnant with my
son...b4 my period was EVEn DUE the
pregnancy test was + and every1 after that
now Im just lost any advice help PLEASE
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-08-07 14:38pm
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Well, I don't think you're pregnant... If
you're having problems with your period I
would really advise going to your ob-gyn
for advice and possibly a check up.
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mattysmommy29
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I Already Have....
Posted: 08-08-07 18:23pm
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last month I actually did go to my ob got
checked out (pap) all the blood test a
person can have done and it was all
normal!!! I wish I actually wudnt have
whole thing coast me 200 sumthin dollers
sux
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Posted: 08-09-07 10:28am
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Go to a planned parenthood.
They offer check ups and birth control for
very very cheap.
SOME women will occasionally have a non
ovulatory cycle, meaning that they do not
ovulate. You will likely not have a period
if this happens.
There are many "womens clinics" you can go
to that offer low cost services.
You may need to go on BC pills, or use a
medicine to jump start your period.
h
ttp://www.ppin.org/
This is the site of planned parenthood of
Indiana.. They offer low cost womens care.
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Re: I Already Have....
Posted: 08-09-07 11:04am
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| mattysmommy29
wrote: | | last month I actually did go
to my ob got checked out (pap) all the
blood test a person can have done and it
was all normal!!! I wish I actually wudnt
have whole thing coast me 200 sumthin
dollers sux |
well they would have told you if you were
pregnant or not when they did the blood
test since it can be detected that way
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mattysmommy29
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a Repl to All of My Post
Posted: 08-09-07 11:44am
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firs tof all, I want to thank everyone who
has replied thank you.
Ok yes I did go to the Ob but it was
before this missed period ..i went and did
all the stuff at the ob the end of june
and I just missed the previous period I
was suppose to start (july 22nd) soo.. not
actually it wudnt of came up I was having
a normal periods at that point when I
went... so yeah I am frekin out I am 2
weeks late and 4 days now... my sides feel
like theyre cracking really bad stomach
pain... it feels like my uterine lmy sides
are idk how to describe it like breaking
or spreading out its horriable and I just
started noticing this, this week,,, and
Idk if I mentioned it but a few days
before my expected period I had a light
period.... well more like 'spotting" idk
thas my main concern after that havent
gotten NE thing since then I took those
pregnancy tests the first week of my
missed period Im so lost I am going to go
get my 3rd one today if this ones - idk
what to do! I guess I need to schedule a
blood tests then.., anyone know how much
those things coast outta pocket? okay
anyway I forgot to answer this one post
saying I needed to get on bc OKAY I AM ON
BIRTH CONTROL i have been on the SAME
birth control since like beginning april
then it started regulating my periods
...and now I dont knoe where it went and
no Im not going to planned parenthood they
do abortions getting ym stuff from their
wud be supporting it and I DID go to a OB
my ACTUALL REGULAR DOCTOR OB OK so no
planned parenthood I ahte them but thanx
NE wayz!
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Posted: 08-09-07 14:45pm
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ONLY a few PP do abortions.
MANY women will actually miss a period
while on BC, it is because of the
hormones!
That is normal =)
Planned parenthood does exams for VERY
VERY cheap. IF you cannot afford to see
another doctor, they can see you.
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Posted: 08-09-07 14:47pm
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WHEN I SAID Birth control I did not mean
that you needed to go on it.
You took that the wrong way..sorry.
I meant that women are often given BIRTH
CONTROL to bring on late periods, and to
regulate their cycle.
Since you are on BC, it is okay.
IT is normal to miss a period on BC
pills.
A period on BC is not a normal period, it
is only a withdrawal bleed from lack of
hormones.
You do not 'need' a period while on birth
control.
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Regina22
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the Shot
Posted: 08-10-07 00:30am
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I have never been on the shot and will
never go on the shot because of your
reason and other reasons (my g/f had your
same problem). The shot completely messes
up your insides, my fathers a doctor and
just to let all of you know the shot can
make you infertile. Birth control of any
sort is bad for you and of course planned
parenthood and other "doctors" are going
to tell you that the chances of the side
effects are very slim. First of all the
people who work at planned parenthood are
nurses so they do not have the authority
to tell you since they did not do 4 years
of medical school. I go to planned
parenthood for pap smears, blood tests,
but not for advice. Second of all if you
are taking the pill, the shot, patch or
whatever I am here to warn you that just
because you seem fine and aren't having
any complications it can affect you in the
long run. With that said, I am guilty of
taking b.c for a couple months because of
pmdd but stopped to see if it would help.
If you have to be on b.c take breaks and
let your body be natural and have a REAL
period and ovulate for a while. Think
about why we have periods in the first
place...we need to cleanse our bodies
every month...it makes sense right?
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mattysmommy29
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..well
Posted: 08-10-07 02:48am
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well now in total I have taken 4 pregnancy
test and all of them r now negative so I
guess maby idk Im so lost at this point
thank you everyone for your advice and
help..
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Posted: 08-10-07 11:43am
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Mommys, it sounds like you're not pregnant
:/
To the other poster: My mother was on the
pill for years... I guess it made her so
infertile she gave birth to two babies...
And no, actually, women don't
*need* to get their period to "cleanse"
their body. There is no (good) evidence of
infertility caused by long-term birth
control use, and there's no proof of
uterine harm from it either.
Do ALL women do well on birth control? No,
of course not. However, the majority of
women DO, otherwise it wouldn't be so
widely used.
The shot doesn't "totally mess up your
insides", that's preposterous. Just
because your dad happens to be a doc and
told you it can make you infertile doesn't
make him a reputable source. My uncle is a
doctor and he's very pro-birthcontrol. Let
the doctors battle! Haha.
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Posted: 08-10-07 12:28pm
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Nurse pracitioners DO go to a medical
school for 4 years, this is why they can
prescribe drugs.
YOUR period is late because you of the
hormones in the pill, you are not
pregnant.
MANY women will miss a period on the pill,
and many more will intentionally skip a
period.
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Posted: 08-10-07 21:57pm
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my friend was on the pill for about 4 yrs
and when her partner and her wanted to
have a baby she stopped and about a year
later they're expecting twins. my other
friend is on depo too and theres no
problems there with her.
its just that there are side effects with
some people, as with any other medicine u
wud take.
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mattysmommy29
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Yea...
Posted: 08-11-07 16:35pm
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I mean I dont know I guess Im not jus
mainly what freaked me out was tha
spotting and pains N my stomach, but yeah
I guess Ne thing oculd be caused by it soo
okay U said its normal to miss a perod on
birth control...again Im lost bcuz when I
got my bc they told me that these should
regulate my periods and on this pills i
take em every day and Im spose to get a
period according to the nurse, so yeah Im
like okay so I missed this period
obviously when shold I get it back next
tme this really suc cuz I thought I was
finally getting regulated it SUC so bad
not being regular In fact its horriable I
hate it
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Posted: 08-12-07 05:05am
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to the original poster, you totally have
the wrong idea about planned parenthood.
I've been there several times as a patient
and now I working there as a volunteer.
First of all, not all planned parenthood
clinics offer abortion. Second, although a
clinic provides abortion, they will not
try to influence your position or your
decision in any way. They are pro-choice
people dedicated to serve the public so
that they could benefit from high quality
and unbiased reproductive care (not like
pro-life people).
If you don't want abortions and don't like
the idea, they won't force you do or to
believe in anything. That is what being
pro-choice is all about. And yet they will
be able to provide people with very cheap
sevices. I go there and I get almost all
of my services including birth control,
checkups, pap tests, annual exam, e.c. all
for free because I'm a college student and
I don't have income.
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mattysmommy29
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Abortions And Planned Parenthood...
Posted: 08-12-07 10:19am
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LOOK! I dont give a flying medical
question about planned parenthood I AM
pro-choice and if id go there and say pay
for an examination,get birth
control,etc,etc..that sorta like
supporting planned parenthood in my
opinion I mean I used to go there Infact I
went there last time to get my bc and yes
they do offer good prices on such stuff
but dont get me wrong but going and being
pro-life is in my opinion hypocritical
because I am basically keeping plannedhood
up and running I mena dont get me wrong
illions of people go there everyday but
atleast I wont be part of the cause so
thats my choice not to go and like okay if
Id go now and Id see sum1 who was pregnant
Id doing it flip okay like I used to see
pregnant girls at my pp and I didnt think
anything of it but now that I know that
they do that caca I jus cant bring my self
to go in there because I know I will be a
disrupincy and probally go to jail (lol)
yeah but thats me
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Re: Abortions And Planned Parenthood...
Posted: 08-12-07 10:24am
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| mattysmommy29
wrote: | | LOOK! I dont give a flying
whoops about planned parenthood I AM
pro-choice and if id go there and say pay
for an examination,get birth
control,etc,etc..that sorta like
supporting planned parenthood in my
opinion I mean I used to go there Infact I
went there last time to get my bc and yes
they do offer good prices on such stuff
but dont get me wrong but going and being
pro-life is in my opinion hypocritical
because I am basically keeping plannedhood
up and running I mena dont get me wrong
illions of people go there everyday but
atleast I wont be part of the cause so
thats my choice not to go and like okay if
Id go now and Id see sum1 who was pregnant
Id doing it flip okay like I used to see
pregnant girls at my pp and I didnt think
anything of it but now that I know that
they do that health question I jus cant
bring my self to go in there because I
know I will be a disrupincy and probally
go to jail (lol) yeah but thats
me |
oaky?! 
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mattysmommy29
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???
Posted: 08-12-07 12:46pm
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..and the beginning of my sentance I put I
am pro-choice I meant pro-life whoops! and
the thing messed sum of the stuff I said
up soo its all weird and confussing but I
a not discussing abortions or planned
parenthood anymore lets please stay on
topic people your nnot going to change my
mind bout that one but yeah a special
update still NO period so What do I doo if
I miss my next period (when Im suppose to
get it when I was sppose to get it last
time?)
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Re: ???
Posted: 08-12-07 13:19pm
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| mattysmommy29
wrote: | | ..and the beginning of my
sentance I put I am pro-choice I meant
pro-life whoops! and the thing messed sum
of the stuff I said up soo its all weird
and confussing but I a not discussing
abortions or planned parenthood anymore
lets please stay on topic people your
nnot going to change my mind bout that one
but yeah a special update still NO period
so What do I doo if I miss my next period
(when Im suppose to get it when I was
sppose to get it last
time?) |
You need to test right now if you just
missed your period. Please go test. I
don't care if you're pro-choice or
pro-life; nor does planned parenthood. Go
there and get a test if you can't afford
one. They also give blood tests.
Also, you just need a general check-up to
find out why you're not getting periods if
you're not pregnant.
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Re: Abortions And Planned Parenthood...
Posted: 08-12-07 15:02pm
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| mattysmommy29
wrote: | | LOOK! I dont give a flying
whoops about planned parenthood I AM
pro-choice and if id go there and say pay
for an examination,get birth
control,etc,etc..that sorta like
supporting planned parenthood in my
opinion I mean I used to go there Infact I
went there last time to get my bc and yes
they do offer good prices on such stuff
but dont get me wrong but going and being
pro-life is in my opinion hypocritical
because I am basically keeping plannedhood
up and running I mena dont get me wrong
illions of people go there everyday but
atleast I wont be part of the cause so
thats my choice not to go and like okay if
Id go now and Id see sum1 who was pregnant
Id doing it flip okay like I used to see
pregnant girls at my pp and I didnt think
anything of it but now that I know that
they do that health question I jus cant
bring my self to go in there because I
know I will be a disrupincy and probally
go to jail (lol) yeah but thats
me |
I didn't get anything at all from what you
have said. what the hell are you talking
about? what do you mean by pregnant women
doing some health question??? sigh....
Please spell out words clearly, use
punctuations, with correct spelling and
grammar or at least try.
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