Women Equality, Double Standard?

I think you're missing an important issue.

Men and women are different. We are not the same, despite what feminists want to say.

I'm sorry, but some women have periods that do restrict their activities. As I see it, true gender equality is an acceptance of those differences. If you don't want to accept that once a month a woman bleeds from her vagina, then you are not truly promoting gender equality.

It basically seems to me you're trying to punish the woman for something she can't prevent, just in the name of "pure equality". I know that's probably not your intention, but it came across that way. Yes, women should get "special treatment", whatever you mean by that, once a month. When you bleed from your vagina, I'll give you special treatment.

As far as the draft, I thoroughly agree that women should have to be included.

Im not saying that women should be punished, but for the most part Men didnt petition for equality, why should a man have more work put on him, when his "equal" is on their period. i understand that it can restrict some women, and not saying that they shouldnt be able to get off work if it does, i am saying that they should have to do what they say, or are given to do the same as a man.

Well, I'm sorry you don't understand how debilitating a period is... so you can't understand why a woman may not be able to work 100% while on her period.

Women had to petition for rights because we were being forced down by males.

Men and women are not identical. Women can do things men can't and vice versa. But being a true person is accepting your limits as well. Men can't have babies. Women get periods.

Saying "Well you wanted equality so tough it out!" is just plain arrogant. We don't want to be better than men. We simply want to be accepted as worthy, which we weren't for thousands of years.

Women get periods and men have to deal with them on it, trust me that is often punishment enough. but either way, if a woman has a desk job she should atleast try to make it most of the time, not to say all of the time, but a reasonable amount, and if a woman cant make it to work then she can find someone to cover for her. instead of the men taking the work.
i have seen plenty of places that either dont hire, or fire women cause they cant have someone calling in sick for a week once a month, smaller places dont have the room for a weeklong break, for any reason. realize im a small town kid, small town bussiness. i am looking at things as i have seen them, and that is women using their period as an excuse to get out of things, NOT saying all women do, but i have seen alot do it, and to be honest men lose sympathy about the millionth time someone pulls one on them, just the way it is.

Just because a woman is having pain you can't experience, you seem to think that her pain doesn't matter.

Should I have to cover a shift at work for someone's prostate exam? Or because of some sort of male health issue? Yes, I should. I am not a male and his condition isn't my problem, however, I have a job to do.

I don't expect special treatment due to my period. I don't really know if other women do.

If I am sick and unable to get out of bed due to my period (which has happened) then I call off as anyone else would and have to take a 'sick day'. I don't expect anything different; I don't say why I'm sick; I'm sick, I can't be productive, so I call off.

Should I have to come into work? I don't understand what you mean, psych major.

I think he is saying yes, you should have to come in for work, because a period is only a female issue that men don't have, so in an "equal" world (where women are equal to men) a woman shouldn't have a period, or it shouldn't matter, or something.

But note that phrase... "a world where women are equal to men"... I don't know if anyone has noted this, but it seems as if society is trying to "raise up" women to the status of men, as if it were a sliding scale, and as if the male was the "ideal". I suddenly find this to be highly one-sided, has anyone else noticed that? "Make women as good as men". That's not what this should be about... We don't need to be "as good" as men... O.o

I have a question: If I have a desk job and leave early because of menstrual problems, why in the world would a victimized male have to get up from his desk and do my work?

Seems like someone is just pulling things out of their ass....

As far as I am concerned you can never expect men and women to be totally equal in their physical aspects. Women will always have to deal with certain things that men do not, and men will almost always be more physically capable in strenuous activities.

This is in no way should affect the rights each person has and their equality as a person. Women should not have to suffer because of cramps causing them serious pain. Until you have cramps so bad it feels like someone is stabbing you in the stomach I seriously doubt you can pass judgement on a woman for taking a sick day every once and awhile.

i think lots of the woman's responses are missing the general point here...

it's not that woman shouldn't be able to call off work. heck if im sick there is no way im going to go to work... but not woman, but feminists (man or woman) seem to often get confused with what true equality is. If Feminists were really for equality they wouldn't be saying Quotes like "Girl Power!" or "kick him in the balls!" they would be saying "people power!" and "if you kick him in the crotch he will kick you in the crotch!"

Do you realise how much sexual abuse or sexual harrasment would go up? how many more jails would fill up? Fact is woman can get away with WAY more than guys, and it's mainly because they are conciderred the more affectionate gender... but WHY? is it because they are less likely to cheat on their loved ones?

well here is a fact. FACT. a psychologist i know very well (Mr. Musgrove to be percise) explained to me that EXACTLY 50% of marriages that fail because of cheating... is men... the other 50% just so happens to be woman.

so truely things are pretty equal. woman just often get things handed to them and they wont get in as much trouble as any man in the same situation. Fact is woman have a lot of crap they have to deal with in their lives (such as periods and giving birth). there are goods and bads to both sides.

i just think it's ridiculous that woman would ever want equality. it is really awkward (in my opinion) to see men put into jail for things a woman could easily get away with (such as teachers hooking up with students, which is getting quite popular with female teachers these days). and its also awkward to know that if a woman hits a man (no matter what her size in comparison to the man) the man is told not to hit back, and if he was to he would most likely be punished by law. And thirdly it frustrates me that men are often sexually abused and woman (and men) find humor in it. but if a woman is sexually abused (even in a movie) it's conciderred an awful thing that can often lead to the movie being taken out of theaters. And dont say what would be funny about a girl getting hit in the crotch... because... what's funny about a guy getting hit in the crotch? the only difference is females have nearly twice as many nerve endings between their legs than guys... meaning it would hurt nearly twice as much... either way. its all awkward.

basically. WHY THE HECK WOULD A WOMAN WANT EQUALITY? if i was a woman there is NO FREAKIN WAY i would ask for equality.

I just realised this post is from forever ago... wish i could find a similar topic