ilovemyfishies81
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What to Do Now? Any Ideas
Posted: 08-11-07 17:02pm
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My doctor says wait two cycles before
trying to get pregnant again. People say
they didnt wait and got pregnant faster. I
am as ready as i was before i misscarried.
What should i do?
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Fairy Godmother
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Hi
Posted: 08-11-07 17:12pm
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YOu should wait.....give your body time to
repair itself just enough to be healthy
and reay for you to become pregnant again.
You have been through a traumatic event
and your body needs the time to heal. Its
ture you may end up pregnant faster, but
does that ensure you that this new baby
will have a safe nest egg inside? I'd wait
a couple cycles jsut to make sure! Hope
I've helped some! 
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 08-11-07 17:13pm
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I want to wait but i don't. i mean its
like i would have been going on 16 weeks
had i not miscarried and im not getting
any younger
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Posted: 08-11-07 17:15pm
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i would wait just to be safe
you want to make sure you have a safe
pregnancy like the fairy godmother saud
you have been through alot and its better
safe than sorry
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 08-11-07 17:19pm
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i know but we dont like to use condoms,
and i couldnt get birth control the other
day because the doctor told me that my bp
was to high. so now i have to wait for
that to go down
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-11-07 17:24pm
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| ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | i know but we dont like to
use condoms, and i couldnt get birth
control the other day because the doctor
told me that my bp was to high. so now i
have to wait for that to go
down |
well
i know you might not "like" to use condoms
but since you cant get on bc at the moment
then you shuld probably use condoms for a
while
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 08-11-07 17:25pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | i know but we dont like to
use condoms, and i couldnt get birth
control the other day because the doctor
told me that my bp was to high. so now i
have to wait for that to go
down |
well
i know you might not "like" to use condoms
but since you cant get on bc at the moment
then you shuld probably use condoms for a
while |
i wish i could get him to use them. i
mean he is 26 you know you would think he
would be understanding
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Fairy Godmother
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Me Again
Posted: 08-11-07 17:25pm
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You are not OLD......Women in their late
40's are having healthy babies, although I
myself do not understand why someone that
age would even consider starting a family.
I had my daughter at 26, she turns 24 this
year, she will wait until she is in her
early 30's making me a grandmother @ in my
early 60's!!!!!!!!!!! Anyway, put this
next baby first, instead of
yourself......its not what you want......
whats best for this new baby you will
create.....hey, I'm Fairy Godmother, I
gotta look out for your future babies! I
know 16 weeks was 4 months, and thats a
long time.....but your body needs to hela
girlfriend so the next baby will have a
fresh start? PLEASE WAIT???????? I got
the_girlfriends back too! Shes due in Dec.
Kiss kiss to you both!
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 08-11-07 17:27pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | i know but we dont like to
use condoms, and i couldnt get birth
control the other day because the doctor
told me that my bp was to high. so now i
have to wait for that to go
down |
well
i know you might not "like" to use condoms
but since you cant get on bc at the moment
then you shuld probably use condoms for a
while |
i wish i could get him to use them. i
mean he is 26 you know you would think he
would be understanding
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young Girl
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Re: Me Again
Posted: 08-11-07 17:28pm
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| Fairy*Godmother
wrote: | | You are not OLD......Women
in their late 40's are having healthy
babies, although I myself do not
understand why someone that age would even
consider starting a family. I had my
daughter at 26, she turns 24 this year,
she will wait until she is in her early
30's making me a grandmother @ in my early
60's!!!!!!!!!!! Anyway, put this next baby
first, instead of yourself......its not
what you want...... whats best for this
new baby you will create.....hey, I'm
Fairy Godmother, I gotta look out for your
future babies! I know 16 weeks was 4
months, and thats a long time.....but your
body needs to hela girlfriend so the next
baby will have a fresh start? PLEASE
WAIT???????? I got the_girlfriends back
too! Shes due in Dec. Kiss kiss to you
both! |
thanks fairy godmother!!!!!!!!!
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ilovemyfishies81
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Re: Me Again
Posted: 08-11-07 17:33pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Fairy*Godmother
wrote: | | You are not OLD......Women
in their late 40's are having healthy
babies, although I myself do not
understand why someone that age would even
consider starting a family. I had my
daughter at 26, she turns 24 this year,
she will wait until she is in her early
30's making me a grandmother @ in my early
60's!!!!!!!!!!! Anyway, put this next baby
first, instead of yourself......its not
what you want...... whats best for this
new baby you will create.....hey, I'm
Fairy Godmother, I gotta look out for your
future babies! I know 16 weeks was 4
months, and thats a long time.....but your
body needs to hela girlfriend so the next
baby will have a fresh start? PLEASE
WAIT???????? I got the_girlfriends back
too! Shes due in Dec. Kiss kiss to you
both! |
thanks fairy
godmother!!!!!!!!! |
from when i wanted to start to have my
family im old . my mother, my aunt and my
cousin had their first babies at the age
of 26 in which i am now i wanted to also
be a part of that. even if it were my
second child. i know whats best to do and
also what i want to do but also am not
ignorant towards knowng when my body and
my emotional state is well enough to have
a baby. what sucks is that since it was my
very first pregnancy is that im scared to
miscarry again for what ever reason
although i was told that it was basically
a fluke in genetics
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-11-07 17:33pm
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| ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | i know but we dont like to
use condoms, and i couldnt get birth
control the other day because the doctor
told me that my bp was to high. so now i
have to wait for that to go
down |
well
i know you might not "like" to use condoms
but since you cant get on bc at the moment
then you shuld probably use condoms for a
while |
i wish i could get him to use them. i
mean he is 26 you know you would think he
would be
understanding |
yeah he should be understanding and
remember that YOUR body needs to heal and
fix itself so that next time around you
are healthy and have a happy pregnancy!
and you are young!!!!! you have plenty of
time for kids
waiting a month or two wont be that long
of a wait because in the end it will be
worth it
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 08-11-07 17:34pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | i know but we dont like to
use condoms, and i couldnt get birth
control the other day because the doctor
told me that my bp was to high. so now i
have to wait for that to go
down |
well
i know you might not "like" to use condoms
but since you cant get on bc at the moment
then you shuld probably use condoms for a
while |
i wish i could get him to use them. i
mean he is 26 you know you would think he
would be
understanding |
yeah he should be understanding and
remember that YOUR body needs to heal and
fix itself so that next time around you
are healthy and have a happy pregnancy!
and you are young!!!!! you have plenty of
time for kids
waiting a month or two wont be that long
of a wait because in the end it will be
worth it |
i know i want to wait and most likely i
will but i want my babies so bad 
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babyAndy
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Posted: 08-11-07 23:40pm
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my dr told me that it is fine to start
trying again..and she said its form her
own personal experience cause she had
miscarried and consulted OB's as to how
soon she could try again. (she told me all
this when I had my bleeding scare)
All the OB's said that your body probably
wasnt far along enough in the pregnancy to
be too concerned. And that it would depend
how far along you were when you
miscarried. The earlier on the in
pregnancy the less time you need to wait.
I think you can try as soon as you want.
As long as you have fully miscarried and
the fetus has passed and you have left a
bit of recovery time.
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 08-12-07 09:57am
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| babyAndy
wrote: | my dr told me that it is
fine to start trying again..and she said
its form her own personal experience cause
she had miscarried and consulted OB's as
to how soon she could try again. (she told
me all this when I had my bleeding scare)
All the OB's said that your body probably
wasnt far along enough in the pregnancy to
be too concerned. And that it would depend
how far along you were when you
miscarried. The earlier on the in
pregnancy the less time you need to wait.
I think you can try as soon as you want.
As long as you have fully miscarried and
the fetus has passed and you have left a
bit of recovery
time. |
well i was pregnant 12 weeks but the
embryo only grew to 6 weeks so my body
just took a while to kick out the bad
fetus. i went to the dr thursday and had a
negative pregnancy test and i had stop
bleeding 1 week prior
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Posted: 08-17-07 14:12pm
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First of all...your boyfriend needs to get
over it...using a condom for one month is
not a ridiculous request, especially under
the circumstances...
Second, I know it's hard to wait...I had
to wait last month too...but since your
body has to invest 9 months into the baby,
you should give your baby the best nest so
that it's more likely for the baby to
thrive through full term.
once more thing...I'm really, really sorry
about your miscarriage.
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 08-18-07 14:29pm
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| babeez
wrote: | First of all...your
boyfriend needs to get over it...using a
condom for one month is not a ridiculous
request, especially under the
circumstances...
Second, I know it's hard to wait...I had
to wait last month too...but since your
body has to invest 9 months into the baby,
you should give your baby the best nest so
that it's more likely for the baby to
thrive through full term.
once more thing...I'm really, really sorry
about your
miscarriage. |
i know tell me about it. i need time to
heal.
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