Sould I ignore what he is saying and doing ? Posted: 08-12-07 11:49am
So I broke up with my boyfriend when I was
about nine weeks pregnant, and now I'm
finding out that he's telling his dumb
friends a bunch of lies, and things that
never happened. I'm sick of hearing from
everyone what he's doing and saying, but I
really don't want to talk to him. Should I
ignore everything thats going on?
(Only its really hard to ignore
everything, because its me they're talking
smack about, and my child)
Ugh. I guess I just want to vent.
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becca38
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2007 Posts: 2 Location: PA
Posted: 08-18-07 02:07am
I would ask these people that keep telling
you what he is saying, not to tell you
things anymore. This stress is not good
for you and if he is spreading lies, to
his "dumb" friends, who cares what they
think. I would not give him the
satisfaction of letting him know this
upsets you, just ignore him. The people
that are truly your friends, know these
are lies and all the other people should
not matter.
Try not to let him get to you. Take
care!
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izzysue
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 21 Location: Long Island, N.Y US
Posted: 08-18-07 03:07am
I think thats foolish. Listen everybody
talks about everyone, like if your rich so
one will be talking or if your poor
someone will alway have something to say
about someone else. Usually they just talk
behind your back. Do any of these people
pay your bills (no) so why do you care.
And another thing he knows that it's
bothering you so he is just to keep doing.
This is what you need to do walk around
with your head up hi like it's not
bothering you will make him mad. Remember
this sticks and stone will break my bones
but name will never harm me. Stay strong
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caribbean5
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2007 Posts: 34
Posted: 08-21-07 10:20am
You should ignore all the hearsays and
indicate that you wish not to hear
anything. Why? It's not good for a
pregnant woman to be stressed. Although it
is easy said that done because when ppl
try to tarnish your rep with lies it is
not easy. Been there and I just got over
something like that. So be strong and give
yourself sometime to heal. If he really
wants to be around he will. If you happen
to bump into him alone then you may want
to exchange words. Try and work on the
anger inside to because it can stress the
baby. Think positive. Think about the life
that is growing inside you. Think about
the miracle you have created and you will
be just fine. There were millions of
single women parents before you and
there'll be after you. Best wishes and
keep the faith.
