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Random And Crazy. Posted: 08-12-07 23:49pm
i just want to say, that im sick of no one
listening to me. 2 of my friends are into
things that i cant control, one is drugs
and the other is starting to starve
herself because she wants a boy to like
her. i've tried helping them both and both
completely disreguard everything that i
say, like they aren't listening or don't
care. i guess im supposed to just sit back
and watch them hurt themselves or worse.
and the 1 person i go to for everything
isn't around and i need him.
i dont know what to do/say anymore.
sorry, vent over.
im going to bed.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-12-07 23:51pm
sucks
one thing i learned is always listen to
your true friends
hoefully they will come around
its freaking frusterateing
but...what else can ya do? youve tried to
help them and they wont listen
then you gotta go throught he whole
watching thme hurt and suffer because of
what theyve done. and byy then they wish
they would have listened to y
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Hollyberries
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Posted: 08-12-07 23:53pm
That's the reason i have lost all my
friends i grew up with in high school.
They choose the drug scene, and i choose
not to do drugs, and keep my family as
number 1. I have seen both of my best
friends lose a child because they can't
get off of drug, drinking, and partying.
And STILL continue to do it. Everyone that
i used to hang out with is still going to
the bars getting so drunk they can't walk,
or end up taking some guy home and
sleeping with him. I guess some of us grow
up, adn some don't . But i have learned to
just move on. I know it hurts, and it
hurts to know you don't really have a true
friend in the whole world, but at least i
made something of my life, and i have
something good to show for it.
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Willa Weintraub
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Re: Random And Crazy. Posted: 08-13-07 07:00am
HcoBrunette06
wrote:
i just want to say, that im
sick of no one listening to me. 2 of my
friends are into things that i cant
control, one is drugs and the other is
starting to starve herself because she
wants a boy to like her. i've tried
helping them both and both completely
disreguard everything that i say, like
they aren't listening or don't care. i
guess im supposed to just sit back and
watch them hurt themselves or worse. and
the 1 person i go to for everything isn't
around and i need him.
i dont know what to do/say anymore.
sorry, vent over.
im going to
bed.
some people just can't be
helped Terra. I know that from experience.
Either you be with them through it or you
stop takling to them. The second option is
not harsh like it sounds. Soemtimes thats
what you gotta do.
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arcadia
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Posted: 08-13-07 07:34am
I wish I was
around more to be here for you, Poop. You
know you can always call or or text me or
anything. You know I'm a true friend &
I love you a LOT. I really think you
should just stop wasting your time on your
"friends." You are so much more mature
& so much smarter than them. You don't
need their drama. Just let them go. It'll
be easier than you think.
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 08-13-07 07:35am
I'm with Melissa. There are times when
telling people things does nothing. You
have to let them learn for themselves. If
it gets really bad you could always tell
their parents so they could get them some
professional help. My uncle went through a
drug problem for years upon years and it
got him killed (literally by the drug
dealers). Let them go through some things.
If they get in too deep, tell their
parents.
I wish I was
around more to be here for you, Poop. You
know you can always call or or text me or
anything. You know I'm a true friend &
I love you a LOT. I really think you
should just stop wasting your time on your
"friends." You are so much more mature
& so much smarter than them. You don't
need their drama. Just let them go. It'll
be easier than you think.
