I Also Have Hpv And I Am Always Crying Posted: 08-14-07 19:36pm
i am 22 i curently had an abnormal pap and
the dr said he found traces of the hpv
wart infection. i dont know who i got hpv
from i am dont know when i got it i am 17
weeks pregnant and i keep reading
different things that you can pass hpv to
your unborn child and then i read that it
was false you couldnt.
i also am so upset i have been with the
same man for 2 years and now he thinks i
have been cheating on him i am constantly
crying over this.
i also heard i could of got hpv with a
condom on so now we have to live with this
and i am so afraid if my man leaves me how
will i ever find anothe man who can
understand this?
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 08-14-07 23:00pm
You should talk to your doctor about what
your having HPV might mean for your baby.
"If a pregnant woman has ever had genital
warts, she should tell her clinician. A
clinician can remove warts before the
birth to keep them from bleeding during
delivery. A cesarean section may be needed
if warts are likely to bleed heavily.
Very rarely, women transmit genital warts
to the fetus during vaginal delivery. This
can result in serious medical conditions
for the newborn, including problems with
breathing and severe, sometimes fatal,
developmental disabilities."
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/sexu
al-health/std/genital-warts.htm
Yes, you can give someone warts even if
you use a condom.
If your current partner does not trust you
and is accusing you of cheating, then he
is certainly not worth being with and not
raising a baby with anyway. Many people
have HPV without any symptoms at all. So
you could have had HPV long before you met
him. So he has no reason to suggest that
you're cheating just based on that.
Don't worry about finding men in the
future. Many people have genitals warts.
Just be upfront and honest about it.
There are plenty of guys out there who
also have it, so they certainly should not
be worried about being with you.
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colette_ mossberger
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Posted: 08-14-07 23:43pm
Llewellyn
wrote:
You should talk to your
doctor about what your having HPV might
mean for your baby.
"If a pregnant woman has ever had genital
warts, she should tell her clinician. A
clinician can remove warts before the
birth to keep them from bleeding during
delivery. A cesarean section may be needed
if warts are likely to bleed heavily.
Very rarely, women transmit genital warts
to the fetus during vaginal delivery. This
can result in serious medical conditions
for the newborn, including problems with
breathing and severe, sometimes fatal,
developmental disabilities."
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/sexu
al-health/std/genital-warts.htm
Yes, you can give someone warts even if
you use a condom.
If your current partner does not trust you
and is accusing you of cheating, then he
is certainly not worth being with and not
raising a baby with anyway. Many people
have HPV without any symptoms at all. So
you could have had HPV long before you met
him. So he has no reason to suggest that
you're cheating just based on that.
Don't worry about finding men in the
future. Many people have genitals warts.
Just be upfront and honest about it.
There are plenty of guys out there who
also have it, so they certainly should not
be worried about being with
you.
i have never had warts at all
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 08-15-07 13:17pm
That's good that you have never had them.
Since you are pregnant, you should still
talk to your ob-gyn about it though.
Pregnant women should see their ob-gyns
often anyway, and they should always
discuss any diseases/conditions they have
just in case.
Even if you never break out in warts, it
would still be possible for you to pass
HPV on to any partners you have.
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Ingi
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Posted: 08-15-07 13:20pm
You can have HPV for years before you ever
find out. Your partner can have it and
never know. In fact, he could have given
it to you.
It is true that you can wear condoms and
still get genital warts. It is a skin to
skin contact and a condom doesn't always
cover every single bit of skin.
Do you have the type of HPV that causes
warts or the high risk type of HPV. The
high risk type will not cause warts but
can cause cervical abnormalities.
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colette_ mossberger
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What Type of Hpv Do I Have Posted: 08-15-07 21:04pm
well i am going for colospopyon the 19 of
sep and they will scrape it ouch!!!
i am nervous about this um well i have
never had a wart and i hope to never get
one i am so upset about this. today my
boyfriend called me dirty and it made me
feel like the lowest ever weve been
together for 2 years and he treats me like
i dont mean anything but it is so hard to
leave someone i have 2 kids with and who
takes care of my oldest daughter and all
of us while i stay at home and clean and
take care of the kids. i just feel like if
i did leave how could i ever bring myself
to even be with another man?
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tarkan
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Joined: 09 Sep 2007 Posts: 12
Posted: 09-10-07 01:08am
relax, if u do have hpv which i doubt
because if u did it would be very
noticable but it can be controlled with
healthy eating. uMM as i said if u indeed
had the disease u can get a cesary which
is when they get your baby by opening your
lower stomach, its painless my mom got one
when i was born, she didnt feel a thing
and it was just a small opening on the
lower end of your stomach, usually thats
wat they do when women suffer from hsv
outbreaks or anything. But relax your ok u
are going to be a mother for crying out
loud congrats that is something that only
a few are able to be, not anyone can be a
mother. Those who can are because they are
magnificent and capable of making a
family. Congratulations on being a mother
and i wish you the best of luck on you and
your baby. Eat healthy and plenty ok?
forget about your weight remember ur
eating for 2 people now not 1 well 1.3
people hehe
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tarkan
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Posted: 09-10-07 01:13am
your husband will never leave u because of
a stupid disease, dont u know that love is
more powerful then anything. If i found
out my gf had aids or anything i would
still be with her no matter wat. wHY
because nothing would be the same without
her, Life without love sucks. Which is why
your husband cant leave u because he cant
live without u. If u do have hpv which
again idoubt he wouldNT care trust me, he
loves u as much as he loves cake TIMEs
infinity so dont worry.
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tarkan
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Posted: 09-10-07 01:16am
one last thing if u dont have hpv which
positive u dont, i suggest u get a vaccine
for it women have a vaccine now, but get
tested for hpv and then ask for the
vaccine after u have had ur baby, that way
in the future u wont worry unnecesarily.
AT 17 weeks and already worrying about how
ur baby will come to this world is very
responsible, u infact will be a
magnificent mom.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 09-13-07 22:50pm
Don't worry you will be alright. The hpv
warts are very easily controlled and they
go away..Just let your ob/gyn take care
it.
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maza
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Posted: 09-17-07 05:33am
I have had HPV and now it has gone same
with my sis ask your partner to be tested.
Good luck
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 09-17-07 06:48am
tarkan
wrote:
one last thing if u dont
have hpv which positive u dont, i suggest
u get a vaccine for it women have a
vaccine now, but get tested for hpv and
then ask for the vaccine after u have had
ur baby, that way in the future u wont
worry unnecesarily. AT 17 weeks and
already worrying about how ur baby will
come to this world is very responsible, u
infact will be a magnificent
mom.
She said she has HPV. She can't get a
vaccination once she already has it.
As long as you don't have a breakout at
the time of delivery (which they might opt
for a c-section), the chances of your baby
getting HPV from you are low.
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caconway2002
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HPV and my pregnant daughter Posted: 03-22-08 20:26pm
My 18 yr old daughter had a pap smear done
in Oct. and the tests came back good, then
in January she found out she was pregnant,
she set up her first OB/GYN appt. and they
alo done a pap smear on her and that one
came back abnormal, meaning she tested
positive for the HPV virus. I to have
concerns about the unborn child getting
the virus and will talk to her dr. about
that, but one concern I have is can they
tell how long she has had it. She goes in
soon for a scope exam to look at the HPV
and I am hoping that something canhelp
her. So can anyone help me on my
concern....if she didn't test positive in
Oct. then she must have contracted the
virus from after her pap smear till her
latest one.....
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worriedauzzi
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Posted: 04-12-08 09:03am
every dr says something different. My mum
has hpv she caught it through my dad who
was/is her only sexual partner. She was
told by her specialist that having active
hpv she would have passed it onto her
daughters. I have not yet been checked for
it as she only just found out she had it
and has had it for over 25yrs. I am
27weeks pregnant and I am getting
different information from everyone I ask.
One Dr said I wont have it unless I slept
with someone who does, and another said
yes my mum would of passed it to me and I
in turn will pass it to my daughter. Its
annoying they can't check me for it til
after I give birth and I have asked 5
seperate doctors about this and they all
seem to give me different information. But
the specialist said that yes I would of
caught it .. so If he was right then I
have HPV my baby will have HPV and so will
yours. 3dr's said that would be the case 2
said it wouldn't so yeah ...
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worriedauzzi
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hpv is noticable you say?? ... Hpv causes growths on the cervix Posted: 04-12-08 09:09am
tarkan
wrote:
relax, if u do have hpv
which i doubt because if u did it would be
very noticable but it can be controlled
with healthy eating. uMM as i said if u
indeed had the disease u can get a cesary
which is when they get your baby by
opening your lower stomach, its painless
my mom got one when i was born, she didnt
feel a thing and it was just a small
opening on the lower end of your stomach,
usually thats wat they do when women
suffer from hsv outbreaks or anything. But
relax your ok u are going to be a mother
for crying out loud congrats that is
something that only a few are able to be,
not anyone can be a mother. Those who can
are because they are magnificent and
capable of making a family.
Congratulations on being a mother and i
wish you the best of luck on you and your
baby. Eat healthy and plenty ok? forget
about your weight remember ur eating for 2
people now not 1 well 1.3 people
hehe
it is noticible???? whattttt HPV can cause
growths on the cervix linking to cervical
cancer it is not noticable at all that is
why 4 out of 5 woman have it and are un
aware. It is not a bad STD and the only
thing I am aware it does is that it may
cause cervical cancer if growths are left
untreated. My mother has it and passed it
to me and I passed it to my daughter .. we
do not recieve treatment and have no
'warts' or anything. Nothing has happened
to any of us my mum has had it for 25years
... :S
