knarf72
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What Would You Say If You Caught Your Guy Masterbating??
Posted: 08-15-07 14:33pm
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How would you react if you caught your
boyfriend masterbating?
I'm wondering what the usual reaction
is....
I know if i caught my wife masterbating I
would rush in and help her out -- I'm a
helpful guy 
but my situation is not the usual I have
PE and my wife basically is asexual.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-15-07 15:38pm
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Usually I would probably just jump in and
join him. I don't have a problem with guys
masturbating as long as I'm still involved
in the sex life (ie, the masturbation
hasn't replaced me)
Although if I were home and not busy I'd
rather he come to me first...
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Hollyberries
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Posted: 08-15-07 18:05pm
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I have only caught my fiance once. And i
was caught off guard i think. I didn't
know what to do. Because it was my first
time catching any of the guys i have been
with doing it. I don't think it's wrong at
all. I do it, and i know he does. And i'm
sure a bit more now that i'm pregnant, and
don't want it 
Which brings me to something i have always
been kinda chicken about. I know couples
masterbate together, but i have never had
the guts to do it with my guy. The thought
turns me on, and i would love to do it.
How do i get over the being chicken
part???
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Re: What Would You Say If You Caught Your Guy Masterbating??
Posted: 08-15-07 18:28pm
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| knarf72
wrote: | How would you react if you
caught your boyfriend masterbating?
I'm wondering what the usual reaction
is....
I know if i caught my wife masterbating I
would rush in and help her out -- I'm a
helpful guy
but my situation is not the usual I have
PE and my wife basically is
asexual. |
I'd join in and help out my lover too lol.
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everyday_struggle
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Posted: 08-15-07 18:32pm
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the girl got mad at me. eh
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Posted: 08-15-07 18:53pm
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| everyday_struggle
wrote: | | the girl got mad at me.
eh |
The girl you were dating caught you
masturbating and got mad?
Sounds like you need a new girl.
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everyday_struggle
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Posted: 08-15-07 19:21pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | | the girl got mad at me.
eh |
The girl you were dating caught you
masturbating and got mad?
Sounds like you need a new
girl. |
o, i got rid of her. She had some real
issues that i just didnt feel that she was
worth dealing with.
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Posted: 08-16-07 10:24am
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Honestly, I would probably tease him.
I
don't have a problem with masturbation of
course. My partner and I both do it.
However, we tease each other a lot.
About two days ago, I got on my computer.
I looked over at his, and saw he had been
looking up porn (we have side by side
computers since he works from home on the
computer, meaning we can't really share).
I teased him about it.
If I did actually walk on him
masturbating, I am sure he would make me
join in in one form or another though.
I just asked him what he would do if he
walked in on me masturbating. He said,
"Get turned on." However, I masturbate
next to him in bed sometimes when he falls
asleep before I do, and he always says
that creeps him out.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-16-07 10:40am
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| everyday_struggle
wrote: | | the girl got mad at me.
eh |
Well, like I said, I might be upset if I
was home and not busy and he didn't come
to me first...
But I don't know if getting mad would
really be effective.
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Posted: 08-16-07 13:39pm
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I'd ask, "want some help?" And then I'd
tease him, sing into his penis like it's a
microphone the "Masturbation Song" and
then get down to business.
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worrywart001
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Posted: 08-18-07 23:02pm
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probably help him out haha, and hopefully
he'd return the favor
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Posted: 08-18-07 23:06pm
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| worrywart001
wrote: | | probably help him out haha,
and hopefully he'd return the favor |
lol
seriosuly 
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Posted: 08-20-07 22:04pm
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it honestly wouldnt bother me if i caught
my bf masturbating as long as it wasnt on
any of my stuff i quite
happily watch porn with him and i have
quite happily watched him masturbate in
front of me and blow his load on my chest
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Posted: 08-20-07 23:00pm
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I dont like my fiance to masterbate, but
if i told him not to i would be a
hipocrite.
Its him watching porn that is a NO NO. But
he doesnt so its k.
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Posted: 08-26-07 02:48am
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At least he isnt out getting it from
another woman! I dont think there is
anything wrong with porn. I dont enjoy
watching it but as long as I dont have to
see it I dont really care if its helping
him out. When my fiance would masterbate
it used to make me a bit upset, especially
if he was using pornography. Then I had to
realize why this was hurting me and i
think it was because I felt that he could
be enjoying the fantasy of another woman.
That is not the case, your man would
rather have you in real life than a fake
woman on paper.
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Posted: 08-26-07 10:51am
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| careberr19
wrote: | | At least he isnt out getting
it from another woman! I dont think there
is anything wrong with porn. I dont enjoy
watching it but as long as I dont have to
see it I dont really care if its helping
him out. When my fiance would masterbate
it used to make me a bit upset, especially
if he was using pornography. Then I had to
realize why this was hurting me and i
think it was because I felt that he could
be enjoying the fantasy of another woman.
That is not the case, your man would
rather have you in real life than a fake
woman on
paper. |
im with ya on this one!!!! i watch it
as long as its not creepy porn its ok with
me!
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Posted: 08-26-07 13:08pm
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I dont think Ill ever like porn....
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Posted: 08-26-07 13:09pm
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| victoria16
wrote: | | I dont think Ill ever like
porn.... |
why?! its normal to like porn!!!
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Posted: 08-26-07 14:02pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | I dont think Ill ever like
porn.... |
why?! its normal to like porn!!! |
Some porn might be a little too hardcore
for some people... Maybe not everyones
into the whole 2 guys banging one chick
while yelling "you're such a dirty
prostitute" thing.
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Posted: 08-26-07 14:19pm
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| victoria16
wrote: | I dont like my fiance to
masterbate, but if i told him not to i
would be a hipocrite.
Its him watching porn that is a NO NO. But
he doesnt so its
k. |
hunnie he's your fiance, so you're pretty
much set as far as him not wanting to be
with someone else. yet you don't like him
to masterbate? why? he is using his own
hand.. on his own member. how is that so
bad? you're not always going to be around
him when he's in the mood for some action.
also, i guarantee you at some point or
another he will view porn. you seem so
sure that he doesn't watch it but sweetie
.. i just can't buy that. men love porn.
not all of them watch it, but lots of them
do. i've been thru hell & back as far
as having a problem with it.. & i can
finally say that i don't! it all boils
down to insecurity. be confident in
yourself & don't be so against the
porn because one day you might find out
that he actually does sneak a peek.. then
you'd really be devastated about it
because for all this time you've been so
against it & thought he didn't do it.
maybe he really doesn't, i don't know. but
i'm just trying to help you out a little..
because i know that women who seem so sure
about what their man does.. sometimes have
it all twisted up. i know i sure did for a
while.
i'm sure us ladies would all be so
surprised about how many times our men
masturbate when we're not around.. when
they take out their porn.. where their
eyes might wonder while we're out
together.. men are very visual creatures
& they always will be.
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