Re: Bachelor Party At a House With Strippers Posted: 09-12-07 09:29am
UNHBRTNY
wrote:
My boyfriend is going to his
friends house for a bachelor party
tomorrow night and there will be strippers
there. Does anyone know what goes on at
these "celebrations"? I dont feel
comfortable with it at all. I have heard
horror stories that make me sick to my
stomach. If anyone has any good news for
me about it please reply. I trust him and
I know he would never cheat on me but my
only question is, Do guys think of it as
"cheating" if it is with a stripper???
HELP!
My dh had strippers AT OUR HOUSE!!! for
his bachelor's party. I had told him that
if he had strippers at his bachelor party
to not bother showing up to get married.
His amazingly tight-lipped friends kept
this secret for him for 5-6 years before
he told me about it. By then I was not
worried about strippers anymore because I
had been to a strip bar and I had actually
seen what went on there, which was a whole
lot of nothing. Just drunk men
surrendering dollar bills to chicks who
really couldn't have vared less about
them.
At the party, this girl brought a
"bouncer" with her to make sure nothing
bad happened. Nobody had sex with this
girl. She did end up getting flipped
backwards off of a recliner while she was
giving my friend a lap dance. He had been
to the club she worked at a few weeks
before and he gave her a $10 dollar tip
and she didn't stick her boobs in his face
or whatever-she just walked away from him
and winked at him. I guess this was his
revenge.
If there is sex, yes it is cheating. In
my opinion, men do not have the right to
have "one last hoorah" with a woman before
they get married. But I think the chances
of that happening are low.
Have you ever been to a male strip show?
OMG those are 10 times worse and 100 times
more tacky. The women there have to act
like imbeciles to get any attention at
all. There was a woman there for her
bachelorette party and they had mafe up a
bed on the stage. the male stripper tied
up her arms and proceeded to give her oral
through her panties (she was wearing a
skirt) It was absolutely disgusting. I
don't think that's OK at all.
I hope this helps. I really wouldn't
worry too much about it. Go to a strip
club and see what they are like. You will
probably be rest assured after that.
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UNHBRTNY
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Hi Posted: 09-12-07 10:12am
I really wouldnt mind so much if it was a
strip club but there are strippers going
to a house so it kind of makes me a little
uneasy. I just have heard that the girls
bring the guys up into bedrooms and god
knows what happens in there. I just hate
the feeling I get knowing my boyfriend
will be watching these girls and possibly
being touched by them YUCK! I have to drop
him off and pick him up from there too
which is annoying because that means I
have to see him right after these girls
were probably all over him. Oh well.
Thanks for your reply.
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Re: Hi Posted: 09-12-07 10:15am
UNHBRTNY
wrote:
I really wouldnt mind so
much if it was a strip club but there are
strippers going to a house so it kind of
makes me a little uneasy. I just have
heard that the girls bring the guys up
into bedrooms and god knows what happens
in there. I just hate the feeling I get
knowing my boyfriend will be watching
these girls and possibly being touched by
them YUCK! I have to drop him off and pick
him up from there too which is annoying
because that means I have to see him right
after these girls were probably all over
him. Oh well. Thanks for your
reply.
Strippers don't bring guys up to the
rooms, sweetie, whores do. Strippers are
there to make money.
I picked the strippers for a wedding my
husband was in. I talked to them on the
phone, they were great gals.
When the strippers come to the house, they
bring a guy with them. Kind of like a
bouncer. Sometimes it is the stripper's
boyfriend. Sometimes it is just a friend.
He is there to protect the strippers from
a bunch of drunk guys.
Go out and have fun yourself
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UNHBRTNY
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 3
Thank You Posted: 09-13-07 07:32am
Thank you so much. I feel much better
about it. Just knowing that the girls dont
bring the guys up into a room makes me
feel better. I guess I just need to relax.
Thank you again!
