Even after several years of being with a single partner do you still find them as attractive as you first met? ...and is your sex life as good?
Yes... i find my partner as attractive as always and the sex...even with some changes is quite good
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Yes... i find my partner as attractive... but the sex life as slowed
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No... my partner is not as attractive.... but the sex life is still there
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No... by partner is not as attractive ...and the sex has slowed
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No... and the sex has ...well...what sex?
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Yes they are attractive...but sex...kinda stopped...
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i feel nothing
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Total Votes : 3
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jakii
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Aug 2007 Posts: 59 Location: ,
Can You Make the Feeling Last? Posted: 08-16-07 11:58am
i have noticed that in relationships...
mine/other that after so long the sex life
becomes sort of ...buisiness-like and not
as often even with changes... i am aware
that there are a variety of things you can
do...and rotate the changes so that they
remain fresh... but really how many
changes can there be that can keep the
feeling there? ...DOES any one still keep
the feeling going after so many years of
the same partner... CAN any one?
obviously not married...but some time i
wonder ...even if i found someone that if
i found the one to marry would the feeling
still last... i hear so much about
problems with peoples sex life after so
many years... that i just had to ask if
there were some of those out there
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
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Posted: 08-16-07 13:46pm
I broke up with my bf of 3 years but it
had nothing to do with attraction or our
sex life; both were just as important and
as hot as they had been when we'd first
met.
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Georgia59
Moderator
Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5542 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
Thanks: 89
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Posted: 08-16-07 16:25pm
Sex with my husband has only gotten better
as we've learned to experiment and we make
a conscious effort to spice things up
every once in a while. We recently went
shopping at a sex shop together which
definitely helps, regardless of what you
buy! Lol- the trick is to do it together
so you are both equally invested in your
sex life.
I've been with him for five and a half
years. I find him equally as attractive as
I ever have, and like I said, the sex is
better every year.
