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Terrified of Having a Child And Being Single....... Posted: 08-16-07 23:00pm
Im planning to get pregnant
I just turned 18, but the father of the
baby and I are very close
I'm just worried about the future ..
maybe in 4 years...
when im in my early 20's and my boyfriend
and I have broken up
will i ever get a boyfriend?
do men date young women with children?
are you still sexy after you have a
child?
Will i ever be seen as beautiful ever
again?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 08-16-07 23:04pm
why on earth are you planning on getting
pregnant if you're so worried about being
without your boyfriend in the future?
shouldn't you wait until you're in a
steady relationship?
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october05_mommy
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Re: Terrified of Having a Child And Being Single....... Posted: 08-17-07 21:18pm
HcoBrunette06
wrote:
why on earth are you
planning on getting pregnant if you're so
worried about being without your boyfriend
in the future? shouldn't you wait until
you're in a steady
relationship?
Exactly.
QweenB
wrote:
Im planning to get pregnant
I just turned 18, but the father of the
baby and I are very close
I'm just worried about the future ..
maybe in 4 years...
when im in my early 20's and my boyfriend
and I have broken up
will i ever get a boyfriend?
do men date young women with children?
are you still sexy after you have a
child?
Will i ever be seen as beautiful ever
again?
In my eyes, ever
woman that has given life to a child, is
beautiful. & yes, it's very possible
that your outside appearance will change.
Stretch marks on your stomach, thighs,
& butt are possible, as well as
"looser," or "saggier" skin in your
stomach & breasts due to making room
for you baby & just gaining weight,
period. Either way, your skin goes back so
fast & the internal muscles are
damaged that it will typically make your
stomach "looser."
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young Girl
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Re: Terrified of Having a Child And Being Single....... Posted: 08-18-07 23:04pm
QweenB
wrote:
Im planning to get pregnant
I just turned 18, but the father of the
baby and I are very close
I'm just worried about the future ..
maybe in 4 years...
when im in my early 20's and my boyfriend
and I have broken up
will i ever get a boyfriend?
do men date young women with children?
are you still sexy after you have a
child?
Will i ever be seen as beautiful ever
again?
you need to think about the future of your
child and whats best for him/her
what about these questions to consider:
can you do it alone if hes not there to
help?
are you prepared to face life even if you
dont have a partner after him for a
while?
how will dateing other men in the future
(if the babies father isnt around) take
effect on your child?
no one can tell you if after you give
birth you can get another bf. it may take
a while but yes my mother is remarrying in
september and she has 9 kids. the man who
is with her loves her very much so yes men
do date women with children. it depends on
the man.
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MSlate001
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Being a Single Mother Posted: 08-19-07 21:28pm
Having a child is a wonderful experience.
I had my first daughter as a single mother
and would not trade it for the world. One
question to ask yourself is do you have
good male influences in your life, such as
your father, your uncles, or your
brothers? I did and I was not worried
about it! Their are single mothers
everywhere and I believe that the single
mothers are much stronger then anyother
mothers!!!
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