Single And Pregnany By Mistake Posted: 08-17-07 04:43am
Currently I am 10 weeks pregnant and
single. I met my childs father when I was
16 and I've been in love with him since.
When I first met him he had a child from a
previous relationship we had been off and
on till I was 19 and found myself
pregnant. I decided to terminate the
pregnancy which I live to regret until
this day. Well 8 months after my abortion
I found out he fathered a baby with a girl
I went to high school with and I was
totally crushed. We still saw each other
on and off and had a few sexual
encounters. Tired of being used and
neglected I stoped seeing him for 6 months
until June of this year where we had a
sexual encounter and I ultimately got
pregnant. After all we've been through I
thought he would be there for me but now
he saying he can't be a "FATHER" to my
baby he can only help me somewhat
financially because he's fathering his two
other kids which I feel is totally wrong.
I did not make this baby by myself and I
feel I shouldn't have to raise it by
myself he's a good father to his other two
kids why not mine he says he loves me but
he needs to get his life together. I think
he needs to stop making babies and own up
to his responsibilities I have to make
sacrifices now he should do the same. I
need help I don't know what to do
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benc152
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 224 Location: , Australia
Posted: 08-17-07 04:53am
ultimatly you just can't force somebody to
be a parent if they don't want to be.
Having the baby wont help you get back
with him, so you have to make sure that's
not the reason you're deciding to keep it.
Either another abortion (which personally
I'm against so wouldn't press that) or on
you're own I'm afraid love.
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