8 Months Want My Boyfriend Back Posted: 08-17-07 10:53am
My
boyfriend left me in may and said he
needed space. I havent talked to him since
then. He was so excited when we got
pregnant and now nothing. He wont return
my calls and pretends like i dont exist. I
love him and miss him so much, what do i
do? He is only 21 (just turned in may) and
I am 30 (just turned in june) we NEVER
once had a fight and everyone said how
they hated to be around us because we were
to much in love and it bothered them that
they didnt have what we had. Now look I
have nothing and I want to hide forever. I
love this baby so much already but I dont
want to raise her alone. Why do men want
something then when they get it they run
away.
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Posted: 08-17-07 10:56am
not all men act like that hun
for some reason it sounds like he got
scared and changed his mind which is
really messed up because he should be ther
for you
but you DONT need negative people in your
life right now. you have to stay strong
for you and your baby. its the two of you
against the world now and you seem like a
very strong girl.
im so sorry hes putting you through this
and i hope he realizes that life is not a
game anymore and he needs to be
responsible
however men never seem to grow up i
hope for you and the babys sake he does
Re: 8 Months Want My Boyfriend Back Posted: 11-27-07 01:51am
isabella07
wrote:
My
boyfriend left me in may and said he
needed space. I havent talked to him since
then. He was so excited when we got
pregnant and now nothing. He wont return
my calls and pretends like i dont exist. I
love him and miss him so much, what do i
do? He is only 21 (just turned in may) and
I am 30 (just turned in june) we NEVER
once had a fight and everyone said how
they hated to be around us because we were
to much in love and it bothered them that
they didnt have what we had. Now look I
have nothing and I want to hide forever. I
love this baby so much already but I dont
want to raise her alone. Why do men want
something then when they get it they run
away.
Men are idiots lol. They think they are
"strong" and can handle any type of
reality they are faced. But when the real
reality hits, they tend to actually become
very scared, fragile and fall apart.
<< thats part of being human and is
normal but I think they feel less of a
"man" when faced with such truth and out
of no rational thinking they just "run
away" as if thats going to make a
difference. And they say women are weak...
A woman can love unconditionally, why we
are mothers and thats stregth ive never
seen in a man... Maybe your man is feeling
way insecure and not "good enough" for you
because of this situation. Maybe hes
acting this way because he feels he cant
provide you with what you deserve.
Hopefully you can get together with him
and disscuss the matter in every single
aspect you possibly can so you can come up
with answers your seeking. Goodluck, i'm
rooting for you!
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Re: 8 Months Want My Boyfriend Back Posted: 02-10-08 15:32pm
newmommy07
wrote:
isabella07
wrote:
My
boyfriend left me in may and said he
needed space. I havent talked to him since
then. He was so excited when we got
pregnant and now nothing. He wont return
my calls and pretends like i dont exist. I
love him and miss him so much, what do i
do? He is only 21 (just turned in may) and
I am 30 (just turned in june) we NEVER
once had a fight and everyone said how
they hated to be around us because we were
to much in love and it bothered them that
they didnt have what we had. Now look I
have nothing and I want to hide forever. I
love this baby so much already but I dont
want to raise her alone. Why do men want
something then when they get it they run
away.
Men are idiots lol. They think they are
"strong" and can handle any type of
reality they are faced. But when the real
reality hits, they tend to actually become
very scared, fragile and fall apart.
<< thats part of being human and is
normal but I think they feel less of a
"man" when faced with such truth and out
of no rational thinking they just "run
away" as if thats going to make a
difference. And they say women are weak...
A woman
can love unconditionally, why we are
mothers and thats stregth ive never seen
in a man... Maybe your man is
feeling way insecure and not "good enough"
for you because of this situation. Maybe
hes acting this way because he feels he
cant provide you with what you deserve.
Hopefully you can get together with him
and disscuss the matter in every single
aspect you possibly can so you can come up
with answers your seeking. Goodluck, i'm
rooting for you!
I realize this is an outdated thread (end
of November 07), but I just wanted to
comment on the part of the above quoted
post that is in bold.
" A woman
can love unconditionally, why we are
mothers and thats stregth ive never seen
in a man... "
There are plenty of men with this quality.
My father had it and my husband has it.
Don't give up on finding this quality in
the men in your life now, and those you
will meet in the future. I think it comes
with maturity. I know women who do not
have it (maybe they will grow into it),
and that is sad, especially when they are
mothers.
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Posted: 02-10-08 16:49pm
Have to agree with you, futureshock. The
men in my family are all, every last one
of them, excellent husbands and fathers.
I am sure my brothers learned it from my
father who has provided selfless love and
devotion to all of us, all his life, and
continues to do so.
It set a very high standard, however, when
his daughters were looking for husbands!
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Posted: 02-10-08 17:38pm
I know this is an old thread, but she said
she.s 30 and he turned 21? The majority of
men aren't sure of what they want until
their mid 20s early or even late 30s. He's
just a little boy she needs all the
support she. Can get from family and
friends. I hope everything went well for
her
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My
boyfriend left me in may and said he
needed space. I havent talked to him since
then. He was so excited when we got
pregnant and now nothing. He wont return
my calls and pretends like i dont exist. I
love him and miss him so much, what do i
do? He is only 21 (just turned in may) and
I am 30 (just turned in june) we NEVER
once had a fight and everyone said how
they hated to be around us because we were
to much in love and it bothered them that
they didnt have what we had. Now look I
have nothing and I want to hide forever. I
love this baby so much already but I dont
want to raise her alone. Why do men want
something then when they get it they run
away.
i
hope for you and the babys sake he does
