I'm 26 yrs old and I'm moving back to NY
to be with my family (i haven't lived
there for 10 years). Growing up at the age
of 14-15, I was rather a loose girl and
was very known for it, i did some things
sexually that i regret. I realize that I
was just a child looking for love and
acceptance from a male figure (all a guy
had to do was tell me he likes me and my
legs were open or sometimes i didn't want
to do it but i wanted to please the guy).
Even though I know I was seriously
misguided, I'm still ashamed. I'm nowhere
near that lost little girl,in the past 9
yrs outside of my daughters father i've
only been with one other guy. My dilemma
is coming back as a completely different
person how do i face my past? How do i
handle unwanted attention? I am prepared
to cuss out anybody that comes at me the
wrong way. and to top it off my daughters
father grew up with these guys, he know
most of them.
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entices1
Supporter
Joined: 25 Apr 2007 Posts: 120 Location: North Florida, USA
Promiscuity Posted: 08-20-07 07:36am
What's past is past. You can't undo it.
Do you live in a small town where everyone
knows everyone else's business or do you
live in some place larger?
Nine years is a very long time and
everyone changes. What makes you so
certain you were the only one in that area
that was like that? Who knows, many of
the people who might remember you may have
moved away.
The_girlfriend is right. Move on with
your life. Show them how far you've made
it. If someone brings up your past just
ignore them or fix a cold stare on them.
Life handed you lemons--now make some
lemonade.
Good luck!
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Chezzy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2007 Posts: 152
Posted: 08-26-07 00:03am
Yea I agree whats in the past is in the
past, and you have changed for the better,
you would not be alone in that type of
issues..You have come out on top, take the
bull by the horns..
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
Posted: 08-26-07 14:21pm
You are an adult and you have no reason to
be worried about what you did when you
were just a kid. If these guys that know
your husband want to throw that in your
face or dwell on it, they haven't grown up
obviously.
