Feeling Suspicious..maybe Im Over Reacting? Posted: 08-18-07 03:52am
Well for the past month I've been feeling
weird with my boyfriend. When he gets a
txt on his phone he.ll most of the time
get up and go to another room. Or he.ll
turn away and to tell you the truth its
annoying me. Reson is cause he.ll get the
txt around 12pm and 1 or 2am. Last nite at
1am he got a txt. He bounced rite off the
couch, said he had to use the bathroom,
was in there for bout 3 to 4 min, came out
and asked me If he could go out.
Its 1am in the morning and I jus looked at
him and nodded. He got dressed in a
flurry, gave me a kiss, called Me sweety
and left. He didn't bother to let me know
around what time he might even come back
home. He said he was going to a friends
house. I totally understand he's not the
type to stay at home because I'm like that
lol we.re both broke financially rite now
so we rarely go out. And I know he gets
bored so he goes out more with his fiends
than I do.
Ever since my pregnancy scare and him
acting cold when I told him I.ve been
feeling like this. Down, not supported. I
even tried something flirty and fun today.
I sent him a sexy survey like I used to do
when we were first getting to know each
other. The point was for him to reply to
the email I had sent with his
answers..but
He jus read it over gave me simple
answers like "yes and no and maybe" and
just seemed so nonchalant and bleh to it.
And that hurt cause I was trying to do
something flirty and playful wit him to
get him to open up but I just got shot
down. I told him all I wanted was to be
playful and stuff and his answer was "you
know that from the very beginning I don't
like surveys." he lies cause he used to
send me tons of them when we were first
dating.... So the end result is I'm not
trying that anymore. I don't want to get
shot down again.
I hate feeling suspicious cause an hour
later after that he gets the txt. jus for
him to leave in such a hurry made me iffy
and feel suspicious. Cause he.ll normally
get ready to go out around 10pm. if you
guys have read my posts. You'd know why my
trust in him is so low. Anybody gone
through something similar?
I hate being the paranoid girlfriend
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 08-19-07 00:04am
talk to him about it...why is he being so
secretive about his phone..my bf and I
leave our phones out, he sometimes gets to
my phone before i do to read my text, i
dont care.. ihave nothing to hide..hes the
same way
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