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Should I Be Worried (please Read!) Posted: 08-18-07 15:04pm
Well, me and my fiancee got into a fight
the other day. I am currently about 5weeks
according to my last period. So my
boyfriend *said* it was over between us
(we are still together), but I got mad
enough to punch myself about 5-6 times in
the stomach (I'm paying for it now). I'm
pretty sure I bruised myself, I can hardly
touch my stomach.
But what I'm worried about is obviously,
is it possible for me to miscarry? I
haven't bled, and it happend 2 days ago.
~Lilly
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-18-07 15:06pm
yes its possible you have damaged your
baby
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Bratz72
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Posted: 08-18-07 18:43pm
of course there is always the "chance"
however with being just pregnant and your
lil bean being the size of just that and
it being far enough back and surrounded by
all sorts of cushiony things i highly
doubt anything happened ....punching
yourself in the stomach isnt going to
solve anything ...wanna punch something
punch the loser for leaving you ....or
better yet if he is a jerk enuff to leave
maybe consider yourself lucky
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Mommy35
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Posted: 08-18-07 20:12pm
If you are not bleeding or having any
internal pains I'm sure everything is ok.
Like the other poster said your baby is
very protected and the size of a bean, so
no worries about that.
Sounds like your fiance is kind of a jerk
and you may want to find a more healthy
way of coping the next time he says it's
over.
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 08-28-07 19:49pm
Thank you very much. The only time we
fight is when someone (like my older
sister) basically interfered in our life.
She tried to tell him that he was a bad
father and she still doesn't think she
said anything.
It was our second whole fight, and the
first one was again my sister's fault (she
just had a baby 4 months ago and think she
knows everything)
Again Thank you.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-28-07 22:52pm
Lilly Ivy
wrote:
Thank you very much. The
only time we fight is when someone (like
my older sister) basically interfered in
our life. She tried to tell him that he
was a bad father and she still doesn't
think she said anything.
It was our second whole fight, and the
first one was again my sister's fault (she
just had a baby 4 months ago and think she
knows everything)
Again Thank
you.
i hope things get better for you guys and
you are able to work everything out!
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rosejackson
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Posted: 08-29-07 01:27am
t you would've damaged the baby as they
are really protected in your womb. and
since its been 2 days already your chances
seem ok. hope things get better x
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 08-29-07 01:32am
Lilly Ivy
wrote:
Thank you very much. The
only time we fight is when someone (like
my older sister) basically interfered in
our life. She tried to tell him that he
was a bad father and she still doesn't
think she said anything.
It was our second whole fight, and the
first one was again my sister's fault (she
just had a baby 4 months ago and think she
knows everything)
Again Thank
you.
id suggest not proving her right that you
both are bad parents.. next time find a
punching bag
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childofgod777
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Lily Ivy Posted: 08-29-07 02:01am
Honey, you have a lot of growing up to do
before that baby is born. If you would do
that now, just over something some jerk
said, than what are you going to do when
that baby is crying and you can't get it
to stop? Are you going to punch him/her
then? This situation truly worries me. If
He wants to go, let him. If he is that
kind of man, you would be better off
without him. Trust me, this guy is going
to bring you nothing but pain. You need
to stop depending on him to pull you
through this and learn to be independent.
It looks like your going to have to raise
this child alone, and it will take
everything you've got it get that done and
done right.
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 08-29-07 23:10pm
I realize I have some growing up to do,
and I have thought about what I would do
with the baby if that would happen. Again,
it was one time, and he was pissed at my
sister, not me. If someone called you a
bad parent, you'd get pissed too, and it
obiviously didn't help that I was siding
with her, but not on that issue. It's
kinda hard for me to leave, cause I'm
about 400 miles from anyone I know, and
currently don't have a job, so it would be
really difficult for me to leave.
This was the only 'pain' he has brought
me, everything else he basically spoils
me. Again, he only gets mad at people
telling him things that he already knows
he has to do, i.e. get a job. He literally
has the best job in this part of nowhere.
He's been looking for about 2 months, and
everyone (including my sister) was
badgering him to get a job.
And how happy he is that he's going to
have another baby, I doubt I'm going to
raise this baby alone. He had to raise his
son alone because the 'mother' was
completly worthless. She currently live in
tennesse somewhere and is probably in jail
with her background.
