Lose Erection When About to Have Sex Posted: 08-19-07 00:15am
Ok this is kind of a long story. I have
had a girlfriend for about 2 years now and
she was my first. To this day I can have
sex with her with no problem of having an
erection. There is this other girl I am
with and when we are fully clothed and do
things like kiss and touch i have a full
erection. When we take our clothes off
(me and the "other" girl) the erection
slowly goes away. This has happened 3
times. I put the condem on and when I try
to go inside her I am not hard enough to
penetrate her. I dont understand how I
can have a full erection with clothes on
but when they are off I can not get hard.
I am 18 and in good health. Any input on
this situation would be appreciated. Thank
u
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-19-07 00:31am
I might sound judgmental but maybe this is
your body's way of telling you not to
cheat on your
girlfriend!!!
>:<
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young3
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Posted: 08-20-07 00:37am
you could be right but come on there has
to be something I can do about this
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Devar
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Posted: 08-20-07 05:49am
Like Eiri said im sure its because in the
back of your mind you know its wrong.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-20-07 10:43am
young3
wrote:
you could be right but come
on there has to be something I can do
about this
Um, yes, there is. Don't
Cheat!!!
If you think I'm going to tell you how to
get over performance anxiety just so you
can stick your penis in a mistress (aka
the girl you're cheating with) then you're
just going to have to go somewhere else.
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lonestarguy
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Agreed Posted: 08-20-07 11:00am
You don't seem to have trouble getting
hard for your original gf and, I assume,
for masturbation, but you do have trouble
with your new gf.
I'm not a doctor or a therapist, but it
does sound like you have guilt feelings
when you are with gf#2. Believe me, every
man has trouble performing with anxiety.
If there is no physical reason for ed,
then it has to be something mental or
emotional.
And my colleagues here are right about
cheating. Don't do it, if only for moral
reasons. If you having regular sex with
both gfs, it's possible you are going to
be dealing with some big emotional issues
soon. Whether you know it or not, you are
playing with their feelings and that is a
dangerous thing.
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change is good
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Posted: 08-20-07 11:31am
we all agree. your "performance issues"
should go away when you decide to stop
cheating on gf #1. guilt is an amazing
thing and affects all of us in many
different ways.
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young Girl
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