Sex Is Great, But Where's My Orgasm? Posted: 08-19-07 02:20am
Ok, I am a female, 19 years old. I can
orgasm if I use a vibrator, and if I use a
vibrator the same day I have sex with my
boyfriend. But I never seem to really have
any awesome orgasms with sex alone. It's
not really affecting my life in any way, I
just want to know what the crap is going
on. Like, when you guys have sex with your
girlfriends, does she seem to have orgasms
or not? I mean, oral sex hasn't even
brought me to orgasm. I'm not really hard
to please, because I am the type that
likes to please others rather than
receive.. I enjoy watching as my boyfriend
cums.. don't know why, it's just fun.
Anyways, I want to know what you guys do
to get your girls 'cumming'.. if you even
do anything?
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unknownperson
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2007 Posts: 61
Posted: 08-19-07 04:48am
I'm in the same boat with you, though I
have a small toy instead of a vibrator. I
know comfort is a big deal, and even if
things feel super great, only my toy works
for me.
I suggest you masturbate more often
without your toy, and try to learn what
you like. Tell your man these things, or
even let him use your vibrator on you. I'm
nearly positive he'd enjoy it.
That way he can have the same joy you do
when you make him go.
Plus, being open and talking about things
is very important and can make a big
difference. That includes whither or not
picky-cummers get to go in bed.
Of course, this doesn't mean you have to
go, and I'm sure you know that if you're
already enjoying oral and all.
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Tylanas
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Re: Sex Is Great, But Where's My Orgasms? Posted: 08-19-07 15:52pm
jennay7188
wrote:
Ok, I am a female, 19 years
old. I can orgasm if I use a vibrator, and
if I use a vibrator the same day I have
sex with my boyfriend. But I never seem to
really have any awesome orgasms with sex
alone. It's not really affecting my life
in any way, I just want to know what the
crap is going on. Like, when you guys have
sex with your girlfriends, does she seem
to have orgasms or not? I mean, oral sex
hasn't even brought me to orgasm. I'm not
really hard to please, because I am the
type that likes to please others rather
than receive.. I enjoy watching as my
boyfriend cums.. dont know why, it's just
fun. Anyways, I want to know what you guys
do to get your girls 'cumming'.. if you
even do
anything?
Honestly this belongs on the Women's
Sexual Health forum, because as we all
know, girls fake it. We do!! A guy can't
tell for real if his girl is orgasming.
Now down to business. You're normal!! I
know, not encouraging. But most women
(we're taking 80% here) cannot orgasm from
sex alone!! I can't.
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Devar
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 24 Location: UK, Birmingham
Posted: 08-20-07 06:17am
A vibrators going to do a hell of a lot
more "work" than a penis is even capable
of have you tried givin it a miss for a
while and seeing it it has any posotive
effects ?
Devar
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alliejane
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Aug 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 09-09-07 13:58pm
At least you've found vibrators already!
I was about 5 years older than you are
when I realized that I was "normal" (not
being able to orgasm during sex). 15
years later, I still have not been able to
orgasm during sex unassisted. It's been a
great way to introduce toys into an
intimate relationship (for a partner that
hasn't played with toys before) plus I've
been fortuante to have partners that are
very good at going down on me which can be
an incredible orgasm. Having intercourse
after that gives both of us great
sensations.
