When His Penis Is Too Long What to Do Posted: 08-19-07 17:23pm
I just had sex with a new partner for the
first time, and i was very painful. I had
noticed that his penis had much lenght to
it but, i could not have imagined how it
would feel. I must say he was trying to be
gentle but a certain point it felt like it
as literally in my stomach. I've had the
pain for 3 days now. Was something
damaged? Is this harmful for me? Should i
try again or throw in the towel
rough beginnings
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-19-07 17:34pm
hi and welcome to the forum!
please try not to post in all caps!!!
thanks!!!!!
it is possible he had irritated or bruised
your cervix. however sex should not hurt
next time try some lube and see if that
makes it easier
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MSAGCHASE
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Posted: 08-19-07 18:07pm
well it was'nt the girth but the lenght
that was so painful. i counld never
attempt to take all if it it.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-19-07 18:20pm
yes sometimes it just takes getting used
to try going
very slow and each time inserting more and
more of it in
eventually you should gte comfy with it
it may cause pressure but it shouldnt hurt
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-20-07 13:12pm
Sex should never hurt, your first time or
any time after that.
If he is very long, try positions where
you can control the depth of penetration,
and avoid positions like doggy style where
it can go really deep. Some suggestions
are you on top where you can control, you
on bottom but with your legs together
under his legs (like knees touching),
spooning. And always make sure there is
plenty of lube, try buying some and using
that to see if it help even if you think
you have enough yourself.
If it always hurts, you need to see a doc.
That means something is wrong.
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MSAGCHASE
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Posted: 08-20-07 17:53pm
i guess what im really asking isn't
possibly that he's just too long for me.
i have never been touch in that place as
long as i have been have sex.
i understand lube and all that, but how is
that gonna help with lenght.
help, help,
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-20-07 18:04pm
MSAGCHASE
wrote:
i guess what im really
asking isn't possibly that he's just too
long for me.
i have never been touch in that place as
long as i have been have sex.
i understand lube and all that, but how is
that gonna help with lenght.
help, help,
There is nothing you can do about a long
penis. It's going to hit your cervix and
that hurts you. He is just going to have
to be careful and not thrust deep.
try going
very slow and each time inserting more and
more of it in
