Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 22 Location: milwaukee, WI u.s.
My Mate Is Scared of Me Posted: 08-20-07 08:40am
I am different from most pregnant women, I
actually want to have sex but my fiance
acts like it will kill the baby or
something. My doctor has told him before
that it wouldn't hurt her but once when we
were doing it she came to the bottom of my
stomach and formed like a knot and he's
been scared ever since.What should I
do??????
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rosejackson
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Posted: 08-20-07 11:52am
you cant force sex on him. over time he
might adjust but he might always be scared
of hurting the baby. try speaking to him
about it and say its not going to hurt
your baby
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-20-07 11:53am
its normal to be scared of sex at this
time. however i am 23 weeks 3 days and ive
been haveing sex every other night (sorry
tmi) almost and our baby is perfectly ine
i also know the knot feeling you say you
get. try maybe doing it doggie style or
something?
that may help
but theres not much you can do if he
doesnt want to have intercorse
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little_213
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Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 22 Location: milwaukee, WI u.s.
Okay I Know Posted: 08-21-07 08:09am
Okay I know men get scared about hurting
the baby and so do the women sometimes and
trust me before I got pregnant I didn't
even know what the pharse meant "to force
him to have sex with me" But I understand
where u guys are coming from, it's just a
really different for me but I only have
two months left. So I can handle it.
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Hollyberries
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Posted: 08-21-07 12:04pm
Wish that was the case for me, and my lack
of sex drive, and his is way to high lol
