Sleeping Over At Girlfriends... Going to Be Embarassed Posted: 08-21-07 15:57pm
Well, my girlfriend wants me to sleepover
at her place in a month for the first time
ever.
We only kiss and all that and lately its
been getting a little heavy and more
intense, I guess you can say dry humping
and making out at the same time. I only
see her twice a month or so because shes
in University and I have to travel to a
different city to see her.
She really loves me and knows i'm kind of
chubby, but i'm fatter than she thinks. I
look normal all over but have a belly and
not-too-big but noticable man boobs/pecs.
I know shes going to want me to take my
shirt off because shes been hinting it and
thats why she wants the sleepover, so we
can have a little personal time but
without having to worry about anything
else such as her roomies coming home and
whatnot. But i'm a little shy or even
embarassed to do so while we're making out
because of my physique.
Also... How am I supposed to prevent my
usual morning errection when sleeping with
her? lol
What should I do?
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popminer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2007 Posts: 105 Location: ,
Posted: 08-21-07 16:03pm
honestly, my opinion probably doesn't
count, but if the girl loves you and is
with you, she probably likes you for who
you are, not your physique. And yeah, she
probably wants you to sleep over at her
house for a reason also. I dont see what
would be wrong with having an erection
while sleeping with your girlfriend.
I dont see that there is anything TO do.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 08-21-07 16:18pm
she likes you no matter what
if you have
been dateing for a while and you really
know each other then she doesnt care about
anything else but YOU
i would just go for it and see how things
go
if it gets too hot and heavy tell her you
want to slow down
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BullZye
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2007 Posts: 112
Posted: 08-21-07 16:33pm
Well, thanks for the opinions so far.
I know for sure she doesn't care about
physical features. We won't be having sex
or anything, or even foreplay. We just
haven't gotten that far yet or even talked
about it. We're still enjoying the kissing
haha.
I don't mind if it gets hot and heavy, i'd
actually prefer that. Its a huge turn-on
when we're making out and I hear her
breathing hard and just going crazy all
over me.
Its just i'm kind of worried about
embarassment because of my body.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 08-21-07 17:15pm
its ok!!!!! dont be embarassed about it im
sure she has insecurities too!!!!!
like when me and travis first became
intement i was afraid my boobs were too
small and that he would think they were
too small
well he didnt
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BullZye
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2007 Posts: 112
Posted: 08-25-07 20:37pm
Well, it turns out you were right, she
didn't really care. I happened to visit
her house today while her parents were
gone out on a small trip so we had the
house to ourselves.
I expected to just hang out and kiss as
usual... But it went pretty far today
before even having to wait til the
sleepover. She told me to take my shirt
off, but I left my undershirt on. Then she
told me to take that off too but I told
her its only fair if she does the same.
So she was in her bra... And we were
kissing and whatnot. She grabbed my hand
and placed it on her chest and I started
to feel her breasts under the bra, I guess
she liked it because then she just decided
to take her bra off completely.
It was the first for both us for anything
like this... And it was amazing. I am a
very happy man. Feels even better knowing
she wouldn't do the same for any other
guy, I was actually surprised she went
this far but it just happened.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 08-25-07 20:51pm
yay!!!! im glad it all went
well!!!!!!!!!!! i bet you are relieved and
happy! im glad everything worked out!
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Maji
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2007 Posts: 108 Location: ,
Posted: 10-03-07 21:38pm
Yeah see you had nothing to worry about.
I was pretty worried about my bf not
liking what he saw if i was ever to take
my shirt off for him...so the first time
things got "hot and heavy" and i felt him
taking my shirt off i was a bit nervous
but he just carried on kissing me and
touching me and he didn't looked turned
off or anything so i relaxed. we both
later ended up in nothing but socks and it
was a great experience. I never felt so
beautiful =]
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scoots14
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2007 Posts: 17 Location: ,
Posted: 10-16-07 12:44pm
i am prolly the same way that u are lol i
was caught in the same situation with my
bf i am 5'4" and not a skinny minny
lol....but anyway what i kept in mind when
my bf and i would have sex is that i love
my body and if he wants to see it then let
him.....i know it mite be different
because u are a guy...id so go for it, if
it is that big of a deal then y dont u
start doing something about it....gym
eating healthier etc..thats what im doing
lol about the morning wood just laugh it
off...it happens to every guy not just
you...lol good luck
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-16-07 12:48pm
she has eyes and can obviously tell
clothed or not what you look like. if she
didnt care for you/love you she would make
that known. your body obviously doesnt
change her opinion of yoU!
if you have
been dateing for a while and you really
know each other then she doesnt care about
anything else but YOU
